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What is the best way to share your feelings?

Name: What is the best way to share your feelings?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:45:50.334982
Duration: 1 min 6 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short spoken response (from a YouTube video by Anwar White) advising that being “cold” in reaction to disrespect is unnecessary; instead the speaker…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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A short spoken response (from a YouTube video by Anwar White) advising that being “cold” in reaction to disrespect is unnecessary; instead the speaker recommends sharing feelings and setting boundaries. The speaker notes this can be especially difficult for women of color who may have been socialized against boundary-setting, and gives a simple decision rule: communicate how the disrespect made you feel, accept an apology if offered, or step away if the person is unrepentant.

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Nakast Nemo said, is it wrong if I'm cold to him after he disrespects me? No, like, you don't need to do that. That's like, you know, when you're a little kid and like, you didn't know how to express yourself and so you would just like, run to your room, close the door, and put the music on really loud. That's the adult equivalent. You share your feelings, you set boundaries, right? And that can be really difficult, especially if you're a woman of color when, like, you grew up not having boundaries or making. It's been told that it's like disrespectful or you got, you know, clap back when you try to. So it's sometimes it can be very difficult for women of color, but that's the work, right? And feeling confident in being able to do that. If he disrespects you, you get to set the boundary and let him know how that makes you feel, right? And if he's apologetic, great. If he's not, we step away. We don't just, like, cop an attitude. You know what I.