Anwar White uses an Olympic medal metaphor to explain dating multiple men without burning out. Divide your attention roughly equally among partners instead of giving 100% to each, and batch your texting so you're not constantly switching between conversations.
Blue Moon said, dating multiple men at once, how to avoid exhaustion. Here's the gag. Here's what I want you to think about when you're dating multiple men. And you should have, like, you want to have, like, three men, what I call Olympic dating on your podium. A gold medalist, a silver medalist, and a bronze medalist.
The reason why people are literally getting exhausted is because they're giving 100% to each guy. I would be exhausted too, because if I was dating three guys, it means I would be over, over exhausting myself and giving 300%.
No, girl, you need to give 33% to each of these guys so that you still at your hundred percent. What does this mean? What does this look like? This looks like.
When you're chat, texting with the guys, text them all at the same time. That's what these dudes do, right? When they give you that good morning text. They're also texting, like, three to five other women. Many of them are not all.
So let's say you texting a guy at 9. Text the other guys too, girl. While you're at it, what's happening is that you getting exhausted because every time a guy texts you, you feel like you have to text him right back. So, girl, you can't get through 20 minutes of your work because you got dudes texting you.
Yeah.
Don'T do that.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
