Mihail Pautovmedic, IC Fundeni · Doctor Mihail - Medic specialist în chirurgie generală, Educator de sănătate

Dacă ai trecut printr-un divorț, nu înseamnă că ești mai puțin valoros☝🏻👨🏼‍⚕️

27 Jun 2025 · 1 min

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A short spoken monologue from a YouTube video by Mihail Pautov that challenges cultural stigma around divorce, especially the shame disproportionately placed on women. The speaker celebrates being divorced multiple times, rejects the idea that divorce reduces a person’s value, and frames negative attitudes as cultural programming, using conversational metaphors (e.g., returning pants that don't fit).

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When I walk out, I have a shirt that says divorce twice. I'm proud. The woman carries the guilt of leaving or divorce. We the woman carries the shame and guilt, not the man. It's okay for a man to get divorced, but culture says no for a woman. You know, if you're divorced, you're, like, literally missing something. You're half broken. No, I've been divorced twice. When I walk out, I have a shirt that says divorce twice. I'm proud because there is nothing wrong with being divorced 2, 3, 4, 10 times. There's nothing wrong with that. If the pants don't fit, you return them to the shop and then you start a new story. There's nothing wrong with that. You know what's wrong with that? Culture. Culture told us that if a woman is married more than two times, there's a problem. If she gets married five times, she's weird. If she's divorced with kids, ah, no one wants her. It's all cultural programming.