Monique ThompsonLicensed Professional Counselor-Supervisor & Infidelity Recovery Specialist

Can a person love you AND be attracted to someone else?

22 Sept 2025 · 1 min

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This content was created by Monique Thompson. This content was uploaded by Monique Thompson. This is a YouTube video titled "Can a person love you AND be attracted to someone else?" (created 2025-09-22) featuring Monique Thompson. The excerpt is a single-speaker segment in which Monique discusses managing attraction to others within relationships, sexual expectations (differences in desire/frequency), and advises referring couples to a sex therapist when the situation is a genuine gray area rather than clearly right or wrong.

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I have not met anybody, anybody who went from day one together with someone to forever and never ever was interested in anybody else. But how did they handle being interested in somebody else? One person expects sex on the regular every day. Could you add 29 hours to my 24-hour day so I could have sex even more? Now that's an area where I send people to a sex therapist when it is genuinely a gray area, not really a clear right or wrong.