Femi LazarusCEO at Femi Lazarus Consulting

Dear parents, you owe your children establishment in life. #AFL #reels #femilazarus

4 Sept 2025 · 2 min

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Parents owe their children a solid foundation in life, not just money but relationships and a good name. The speaker argues that family breakdown and immoral behavior trap poverty across generations, clouding judgment and harming kids. Breaking the cycle means actively establishing your children instead of passing down dysfunction.

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Dear parent, you owe your children, particularly the responsible ones, establishment in life, that they will have mileage because you worked. Let me tell you some of the things you can inherit in a good place. You can inherit relationships. You carry a name that is capable of opening doors. Oh, say, my name will open doors. One of the songs I like the most is everything you put your hands go, my name go open doors, me self will be a boss. Amen. I love that song. But you know what happens? It is not enough that some children don't inherit things in their home, they inherit problems. They inherit names they will have to fight to defend or change. The defeat of the family system is the first reason for poverty. Those of you who are now trying to do fine, and you, you know what you fought through, you know how you fought In fact, many know that they would have been better if they were not born in their families. And I will tell you, one of the reasons why there is nothing to inherit in many places, I tell you, simple terms, immorality. Immorality traps poverty in lineage. Because once you become immoral, you can't think straight. You'll be wicked towards your children because you have to satisfy somebody outside. You will hurt your family. You will do many things. You break them.