Femi LazarusCEO at Femi Lazarus Consulting

Don't jump out because of desperation is you're still single. Don't be under unnecessary pressure.

28 May 2024 · 1 min

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In this monologue, the speaker addresses unmarried listeners, urging them not to rush into marriage out of desperation. He emphasizes the importance of truly listening to a potential partner, observing how they think, and even checking their social media comments to gauge character. The speaker frames singlehood not as wasted time but as a valuable opportunity, noting that few married people would trade it away. He warns that love can make people deaf and blind to red flags, so careful, deliberate assessment is essential before committing to marriage.

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Those who are not married, now that you have the chance, we are saying listen to the person you want to marry. That time is gone, doesn't mean you should waste the rest. Hear this person, hear the person, hear, hear. Let the person talk. Fine people can say rubbish. Hear the way the person is thinking. Check the person's comment on social media. No, no, no, you want marry, you want marry, you are going to marry a fool. The time that is wasted, you now waste the remaining part. And who told you that your time as a single while waiting is a wasted time? It's an opportunity. If you gather many married people, scarcely will you find a 10% who don't wish to have the opportunity to be single again. Don't rush yourself. When people are in love. Nobody is as deaf as the person who is in love. Nobody is as blind as the person with— they, they are seeing it.