Femi Lazarus argues that love shows up in decisions, not words. He points to financial planning, emergency savings, and taking responsibility as proof of real commitment. A partner who won't plan or lead when things get hard is a warning sign.
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Sometimes love is not saying you are the only one I have. Mm-mm. Love is proving it. The person you are with, how does the person respond to planning? How does the person respond to planning? We're not saying you are not a virtuous person, but let's assume that something happens now and you— there's a need for an emergency now, because in economics you learn one of the Some of the purpose of money is for precautionary use. What if there's an emergency? Because you can't eat with all your 10 fingers. Can you plan with this person? Can you save? Do you have anything aside that in case something happens? What if you become sick? Leadership. If you can look at your spouse and they are not getting better, you are dangerous. You are dangerous. It's not by going for the— because we are getting to a stage now, and I don't know what we can do to help that stage, and I need you to help me, that if care is not taken, an average young lady is exposed to more than the guy that wants her. The issues we are dealing with now is the issue of the past generation. By the time the harvest of the people on ground now is ready, those that will be future millionaires have said it. Part of them are therapists. If you are trying to learn and you are thinking that it's saturated, I'm saying continue. Cases are coming when Gen Zs become daddies and mommies. Cases I am saying, listen to what I'm saying. I am saying, how can you be looking at the person that you love not progressing, not being taken care of, and you are not asking yourself questions? Something is wrong. Something is wrong.
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