A speaker argues that physical intimacy during dating prevents couples from truly knowing each other, citing a Harvard study showing higher marital success rates for couples who didn't cohabit before marriage. He warns that touching replaces conversation and leaves partners as strangers on their wedding day.
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When you are dating somebody, understand touching is a trap because the moment you start touching, you can't stop. And once you start touching, you stop talking. So what that means is that you are about to marry a person whose mentality you don't know because you did not give room for conversation. You are marrying each other as strangers. Every time you meet, it's for you to sit down. Now you are married, he's talking one kind, you are surprised. You could have seen these things, but you were busy kissing. You will kiss, o money, you have to know. When you are done, she will go and boil noodles. They're already tying to wed in your house. You have seen it. What is there to honor? And some people have started it from university days. I am saying that once you start touching, pressing each other's bum bum, press each other's breast, you have initiated foolishness. Foolishness mode activated, Pro Max, because you will no longer know each other. And that thing you are doing, when you are now married, girl is complaining, he's looking at me, he's not even touching me. He has touched what he will touch. One of Harvard research showed that couples who were not living together before marriage had more success rate in marriage than those who already