A short YouTube talk by Hinesh Chauhan aimed at fathers facing separation or divorce. Chauhan urges self-reflection and personal responsibility for one’s contribution to relationship problems, encourages taking a leadership role in repairing or improving the relationship, and recommends seeking outside guidance (couples therapy or faith/spiritual leaders). The clip ends with a brief humorous aside and a call-to-action to like/follow/subscribe.
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Your contribution to that. Any negligence, your behaviors, actions you've taken, and only you. It's not looking at both parties. Let's get started. Hi, I'm Heinous Chohan. This is decent divorce day. Hey, dads. Today we're going to be talking about learning what a healthy relationship is. Let's get started. Now, if you're on the road to separation or divorce or you're starting to think about it, have you even picked up a book to learn what a healthy relationship is or what it looks like, you should definitely learn what that looks like and how that's defined and. And take a look at what your relationship has become and your contribution to that. Any negligence, your behaviors, actions you've taken, and only you. It's not looking at both parties. I want you to take a leadership role in the situation and understand how you contributed to the current state and share your commitment and desire to grow and improve with your partner. Not only does it benefit you as a dad to become that better example for a partner in a relationship, but it shows your commitment to saving or improving your relationship. And ask your partner if she's willing to get couples therapy, to see a counselor, to see a priest, a rabbi, an imam, a shaman, somebody who could guide and lead you because you need to take a leadership role in this, in your life, in your kid's life. So keep leading with integrity. Make decisions with integrity. And so a priest, a rabbi, and a duck walk into a bar. I'll leave it at that. I really hope you enjoyed that, guys. And if you did, please remember to, like, follow and subscribe. And if you found it was helpful, please share it.