Hinesh Chauhan argues against 'loudership' — a leadership/parenting style that relies on yelling and one-way commands. Drawing on personal experience and an army example, he warns that frequent loud authority breeds fear, resentment and backfires especially with teenagers; instead he advocates empathy, respect, understanding, and building a two-way relationship.
Let's talk about louder ship. This is what I experienced growing up. The louder someone yelled at me the faster I had to do it and the more scared I became. Also something that some leaders practice in the army really ineffective. Maybe at the right time, the right place it's necessary but it becomes highly ineffective if it's constantly used. Just like the kid who cried wolf right? Save it for when you really need it. And really it's parenting is about building a relationship with their child. It's about empathy and respect and understanding and you have to develop that especially as they get older because when they become teenagers if you've been following the principles of loudership it's going to backfire because it's not two ways it's one way and you're not really getting to understand your child that's going to build resentment. Don't practice loudership develop that understanding and that bond. It's a two way street. Remember that.
