A short spoken piece by Hinesh Chauhan advising parents to model the behavior they want to see in their children. The speaker emphasizes that children mirror parental reactions (especially when upset), encourages self-reflection on parental behavior, and promotes continuous imperfect improvement.
You? Are your kids harsh, aggressive, excessively rude with you when they're upset? Have you taken a look at how you react or act with them when you're upset? Are you harsh, aggressive as well with them? Remember, whatever you put out there you're going to get back. Whatever you model for your kids, they're going to act the same way. So unfortunately we have to lead by example. As much as I would love to go by the do as I say and not as I do, which I've actually said that phrase a few times in certain things I'm, you know, I'm, we're all, we're imperfectly perfect and, and this is a challenge and every day it's trying to be better than we were the day before, sometimes one step backwards to forward. But realize where it's coming from, where they learn it, what they model and try to try to set that example.
