Your relationship with yourself determines everything else: health, wealth, confidence, success. The speaker separates feelings from emotions and argues that willpower fails without reprogramming your core identity. He frames personal worth through Jesus's sacrifice as proof you already matter.
Today I want to uncover the biggest relationship that you're missing out on that could be keeping you stuck and unhappy, or just reaching the heights that you want to reach in life. And if you learn how to master this relationship, you're going to be the healthiest you've ever been, you're going to make the most money you've ever made, you're going to have the best relationships you've ever had, the best career or business that you've ever had, you're going to have the most security you've ever had, the most confidence you've ever had, and be the most fulfilled that you've ever been in life. If you understand the principles of strengthening this relationship You will never be the same. Now, before I move forward, I want to make sure that you subscribe to this podcast so that you can get notifications. I would appreciate that. Make sure that you like this video and that you share it with as many people as possible. Now, I want to move forward into what I'll be really uncovering today, and that is how to build a strong relationship with yourself. That's right, with yourself. Because a lot of people don't have a grip on who they are. They are missing the biggest obstacle that is in their way, which is that you have to become the person who does those things in order to get the outcomes that you really want. And the only thing that's stopping that is because of a disconnect between you and yourself. Now, the reason why feelings are important is because feelings always make you make choices and decisions. Now, let me just say this: we gotta learn how to make decisions even if we're feeling a certain way. We, we just have to, right? And so there's just certain things that we have to do regardless if we feel like it or not. There's a lot of people, let's say they're trying to pay their bills or they're taking care of their kids, they may not feel like doing certain things at the time, but they still have to do it. But let me just say this: if that continues and you don't understand how to reprogram or retarget your feelings— because remember, feelings are equivalent to your identity, they, they're attached to the place of who you are— if you don't learn how to change that, then what you're going to do is you're going to be operating out of willpower. And when you operate out of willpower, it runs dry sometimes. Like, there's only so much willpower you can have. Emotions and feelings. Emotions are a little different. Emotions are the byproduct of the mind, okay? Feelings are the byproduct of the heart, because the heart is your true identity, right? So when it comes to your emotions, you can turn them on and off really quick. You can watch a scary movie and bring upon an emotion of, you know, fear or whatever. You know, they come on strong and they can come on quick. Somebody could surprise you at work or come and visit you from out of town, someone that you love, your daughter or your best friend, and you will be overwhelmed with excitement. Those are emotions. They're a product of the mind because those emotions are surrounded a bit by also thoughts. And so you can think your way into an emotion. You can, uh, start thinking about something, uh, enjoyable and all of a sudden lift your mood a bit. We want you to be yourself. The world needs you to be yourself. They really do. And if you're not being yourself, there is a great robbery that's being taken from this world without you. And you got to know that because you're valuable, you're necessary, you're worthy. The reason why I know you're worthy is because I know a man who's already paid the greatest cost that can ever be paid for your life, and his name is Jesus. And so that right there proves that you are worthy and you are valuable. There's no more money or no more resource that anybody could ever provide that's greater than somebody sacrificing price in their life for you. And so you must come into understanding, and you must come into awareness, that if you don't learn how to master the relationship with you, then it could be possible that there's almost like this unspoken word over the grave, like, you were never here.
