Your Greatest Relationship is...With Yourself! Unlock Your Potential

Today I want to uncover the biggest relationship that you're missing out on that could be keeping you stuck and unhappy or just reaching the heights that you want to reach in life. And if you learn how to master this relationship, you're going to be the healthiest you've ever been, you're going to make the most money you've ever made, you're going to have the best relationships you've ever had, the best career or business that you've ever had, you're going to have the most security you've ever had, the most confidence you've ever had, and be the most fulfilled that you've ever been in life. If you understand the principles of strengthening this relationship You will never be the same. Now, before I move forward, I want to make sure that you subscribe to this podcast so that you can get notifications. I would appreciate that. Make sure that you like this video and that you share it with as many people as possible. Now, I want to move forward into what I'll be really uncovering today, and that is how to build a strong relationship with yourself. That's right, with yourself. Because a lot of people don't have a grip on who they are. And I've ran into this throughout my life with meeting people who just didn't have an understanding of themselves. And the way our culture works right now is that it has us kind of glued to everybody else but ourselves. And You know, a lot of times when I'm working with those who I'm working with, whether it's in leadership, whether it's some of my clients, um, whether it's someone who I'm pastoring, I start to realize that there is a disconnect with themselves, and that's why they have not made the, the achievements or the attainments that they want in life, and they are not where they really want to be because they don't understand who they are And it is always about who you are, even more so than what you do. And sometimes people are trying to fix this from, okay, here's how to do this, here's how to do that, this is the outcome that I want, so I have to do this. But they are missing the biggest obstacle that is in their way, which is that you have to become the person who does those things in order to get the outcomes that you really want. And the only thing that's stopping that is because of a disconnect between you and yourself. And so I really want to talk about this today because I believe that it can take you from being at a place of worthless to worthy. And when I say worthless, I'm not just meaning like all the way at the bottom of the pit. I'm talking about if there is a lack in your worthiness in life, in whatever area you deem this necessary, then there is something that is missing and there needs to be a gap that is bridged. And that gap is being able to have a level of self-awareness of you, not of other people. Because, you know, you go on social media, for example, and everybody knows everything about everybody else. I mean, there are whole businesses that are used to be able to give the update, give the 911, give the scoop on what this person is doing, or what that person is doing, or what's going on with this business. And it's all needful at times, definitely, especially when you're, um, for example, investing in a business. You need to know the scoop on this business. You need to know the history and everything. And so there's a lot of research that goes on with everybody and everything else, but sometimes we miss that research that needs to be done on ourselves, on our hearts. You know, on our minds, on our spirituality. And if you can understand that there's a way to bridge this gap and get to know yourself better, you will have more answers and solutions in your life that can create the outcomes that you actually want. I often tell people that they don't know enough about themselves. And even when we're looking at health, you know, or healthy living, for example, Like, in order to be healthy, you have to know some things about yourself, because what works for one person may not work for you. So there has to be a level of self-awareness with you, your gut, your mood, your dispositions, your stress levels, what foods are intolerable to you, what foods are digest easy for you, what, um, items that you consume that boost your energy, what items do you consume that drains your energy, uh, what type of people do you like to be around, what kind of environment What environment do you like to put yourself in that, that makes you happy, that feels like it's not draining you? Like, there's just some things you need to know about yourself, and this needs to be a lifelong journey. This cannot end. This is an awakening, is what I'll share with you today. And I'll just start by saying this: one of the greatest ways, one of the greatest ways that you can get to understand yourself better is by simply asking yourself questions. I love questions because questions allow for there to be direction and there to be focus and intentionality towards something that maybe you wouldn't have had awareness of before the question was asked. For example, if right now I just happen to ask you, what color are your eyes? Now I have directed your focus to your eye color, something that you wasn't thinking about before now, but now you're thinking about it because I asked a question. And a lot of times, you know, it's good to ask other people questions, but it's also good to ask ourselves questions, because when we ask ourselves questions, we get answers. And outside of those questions, we would not have much awareness or maybe even a, a target to zoom in on certain things about how we feel, how we behave, the decisions that we make, the actions that we take. Like, there's a lot that we need to ask ourselves that can bring us into a closer understanding of who we are as individuals. What makes you happy? What makes you sad? What makes you cry? What would make you so devastated that you couldn't do before you leave this earth? If you went to your, your grave and you realized that you didn't do this one thing, would it disappoint you? Would you have regret? I mean, there's just a lot of things that you should ask yourself. And I absolutely love questions because Jesus loves questions. And actually, in the Bible, Jesus, you know him really to be a, a question man, not really an answer man. He rarely answers questions, but he asks a lot of questions. Or if he's asked a question, he will answer the question with a question. And so he is the question man. If you come and ask him something, he'll say, well, what do you think? You know, who are you? Uh, Jesus, who are you? Well, who do you say that I am? Who do men say that I am? And then You know, uh, this is a scripture where he's asking Peter, 'Who do men say that I am?' Like, he's asking him to give him the answer to that. Because make sure you understand this, what I'm about to say. He said this because he understands that the truth is always within you. And remember, he tells Peter that flesh and blood could not have revealed this. When Peter answered and said, 'You are the Christ,' he said, 'Flesh and blood could not have revealed this to you, but my Father in heaven.' And so what Jesus was doing was Jesus was getting people to find their own truth within them. And if you don't get to know yourself, you won't encounter the answers that you need to life. To the quest that you have, the solutions that you need. They're in you. You're just not aware of it because you're too busy looking at everybody else instead of yourself, right? And so this is why Jesus asked questions, because he knew that I can guide you to the truth by asking you questions. Or here's another way that he helped, um, to come into full understanding. Is he would use parables. And there are so many different parables in the Bible, uh, the parable of the sower and the weeds, and the lamp on the stand, and the unmerciful, uh, sower, um, and the new wine versus the old wine. There's a lot of different parables, and Jesus used parables because he was trying to bridge the gap between the known and the unknown. And so when there is something that you don't know, it is a— almost like a skill to try to first guide you and help you to understand by pulling on the known, pulling on the things that you do know. And so if that is true, then if there are some things that you don't know about yourself, then there are some unknowns that you will never understand, because some of the knowns that you should know are there to be able to guide you to things that you don't know. And so, uh, one of the things that Jesus wanted us to do is to hear and understand, to see and perceive. That's why he gave parables, because there were those who would hear and not understand. There were those who could see but not perceive. And he wanted both of those to come into play in individuals' lives. So the more you know about yourself, if truth is lodged somewhere into your psyche, your, um, your DNA, your heart, then if there's areas about yourself and your heart that you don't know, then you won't be able to access those truths, or the revelation that you need to live a successful life, the revelation that you need to make more money, the revelation that you need to restore a relationship that needs to be restored, the relationship that you need with yourself to have more confidence and more security. Because see, the reason why you may be dealing with insecurity, or the reason why people in general deal with insecurity is because they don't have an alignment of who they really are. And they may have even built a sense of false identity or imposter syndrome based upon someone else or what someone else wanted them to be, but it's still not in alignment with who you really are. And that lack of alignment will cause insecurity, and it will cause a lack confidence in your life because it doesn't resonate with the very, um, intricate ways that you really are. And that starts to communicate to your nervous system, to your cells, and it creates a synergy and it creates a flow, and it starts to send signals out to other people so that other people start to identify with those signals, and then they start to respond to you based upon those signals. And it's not just about external things, but it's about the fact that the way you are processing yourself, the way you feel about yourself, the things that you think about yourself is sending out signals, and it causes life and people to reflect back the very thing that you feel about yourself on the inside. And so this has to be completely healed and you have to understand who you are. And the only way to understand who you are is to understand your heart, because your heart is your true identity. And many people don't understand their heart because it takes a lot of investigation to kind of understand the paradigms of how you feel and think and why you feel the way you do and you know, what type of things that you can do to change this. And, you know, there are some levels to this. And just let me say this, I, I'm going to use terminology to explain this in the best way that I can. Uh, I'm not saying that the terminology is perfect, but I want to use terminology that you can understand. And so when we talk about the heart, we're talking about it being the seat of your abiding feelings. And there is a huge difference between emotions and feelings. And a lot of times we are operating from more of a surface place. We're trying to change our emotions, and there is a place for that. I talk about that all the time. And, um, and there's some strategies to help your emotions because a lot of times That's where it starts, is trying to change your emotions. But there are some feelings, or there's, there's these deeper emotions that I will use as the terminology feelings. And that's what I mean by them, is that they're, they're much deeper. And so when you start to have certain feelings about yourself, like you feel like you're a loser, or, uh, you feel like you can't say no, or you feel like people are going to take advantage of you. Like, those feelings, they're very deep. And I'm going to explain the difference between the emotion part of you and the feeling part of you. Those things are very deep and they're deeply rooted. And when you get something that is deep down as a feeling, again, those signals are sent out because those feelings are almost equivalent to your identity. It speaks of who you are as an individual, and I'm going to show you how that can actually work for you if you can change it. Now, the reason why feelings are important is because feelings always make you make choices and decisions. Now let me just say this, we got to learn how to make decisions even if we're feeling a certain way. We, we just have to, right? And so there's just certain things that we have to do regardless if we feel like it or not. There's a lot of people, let's say they're trying to pay their bills or they're taking care of their kids, they may not feel like doing certain things at the time, but they still have to do it. But let me just say this, If that continues and you don't understand how to reprogram or retarget your feelings— because remember, feelings are equivalent to your identity, they, they're attached to the place of who you are— if you don't learn how to change that, then what you're going to do is you're going to be operating out of willpower. And when you operate out of willpower, it runs dry sometimes. Like, there's only so much willpower you can have. And eventually that willpower will start to diminish, and then you're gonna start making choices out of your feelings. Because I'm going to explain to you that your feelings come from a very subconscious place, right? And so you want to be able to change your feelings, because if you can change your feelings, then the decisions that you make and the choices that you make that are incongruent with your feelings will be so much easier. For example, one of the things that I really try to get my clients to do is feel like going to the gym. I don't want to have to try to make you and give you all the statistics and all the information and the intelligence on why you should work out, right, or why you should build muscles. Like, that is going to be very difficult because I may get you for a little bit to, you know, abide just based off of knowledge, But what I really need you to do is get your body in a place where you actually feel like going to the gym. And so now I have to make sure that we're boosting your energy levels, because if you have more energy, then you will have the fuel necessary to go to the gym, and you'll feel like it, and it will be easy. Now, don't you want things to be easy? Like, you want to want to do things. You want to, not have to go against the current so much. Only a little resistance here and there, but if it's too much resistance, then you're gonna grow weary of having to constantly make the right decision even when you feel like it. And guess what? That's called stress. And when you are stressed, you don't do the body any good. And so really, you want to be able to optimize your feelings to be able to easily make choices. If you are energized, then it's a lot easier for you to do things that require energy. But to have to have willpower and do things every single day that requires energy when you don't have energy, that's a bummer. That's no way to live. Who wants to live like that, right? And so you want to take these tools and these strategies and you want to use them in life because they're going to make life fun, much more fun than maybe what you may be experiencing in all levels. Making money will be fun. Building relationships will be fun. Spending time with your kids and your grandkids will be fun. Building your business will be fun. Whatever it is that you're doing, if you can operate at a level of your identity and expand your boundaries, which I'm going to teach you how to do you will have more pleasure in life. And that's what I love about this. Now, emotions and feelings— emotions are a little different. Emotions are the byproduct of the mind, okay? Feelings are the byproduct of the heart, because the heart is your true identity, right? So when it comes to your emotions, you can turn them on and off really quick. You can watch a scary movie and bring upon an emotion of, you know, fear or whatever. You know, they come on strong and they can come on quick. Somebody could surprise you at work or come and visit you from out of town, someone that you love— your daughter or your best friend— and you will be overwhelmed with excitement. Those are emotions. They're a product of the mind because those emotions are surrounded a bit by also thoughts. And so you can think your way into an emotion. You can, uh, start thinking about something, uh, enjoyable and all of a sudden lift your mood a bit. And so emotions, they can come and go. And the cool part about emotions is that you can redirect your focus on something that can improve your emotion. And so You can improve your emotions in real time, and that's what I love about understanding emotions, is that that's one thing that you can almost like control and manipulate in real time. Now, it's not as easy when we're talking about feelings, because again, feelings are super deep-rooted. They come from cell communication, they come from deep subconscious levels of emotions, in a sense. And— but I'm calling them feelings, but they're much deeper. They take longer to formulate, and they take longer to transition or to change, right? So if you have deep feelings of being a failure, that's different from feeling like you failed, like, a task or something temporarily. Or if you have feelings of, I just feel like I'm a loser. Like, those feelings go really, really deep, and they start to shape the design of who you are as an individual, because you're going to operate out of life based upon those subconscious feelings. And so feelings arise from a sense of who you are as a person, and that's why this is extremely important because what it also does is it causes boundaries to start to happen around your identity, or barriers around your identity. And the devastating part is that if you at any point start to operate outside of those barriers or outside of those boundaries, then you eventually will wind up self-sabotaging and going into almost like an autopilot place back to the design of your subconscious or who you are. And that's why it's very important to expand who you are and to deal with your identity even more so than your performance. Even as an athlete, they have skill and they perform, right? But if they don't translate who they are as athletes, then their performance or their skills are going to be short-lived. And so that's why you have to become a different person often when you are trying to have goals or when you are trying to accomplish certain, uh, levels of success in life. And I often tell people, if you want that level of success, it's not just about go do, do, do. It's about being and then doing and then having, right? And I heard this analogy, and I absolutely love it, from Genesis when it says, you shall be fruitful and then you should multiply— that's doing— and then you shall have dominion. And so the foundation of how God designed us is to first be, do, and then have. And a lot of people are missing out on this step. And so you have to start to deal with, uh, these boundaries and expanding these different boundaries. Because like I said, when you're dealing with feelings, you're dealing with things that are subconscious. They are in your life in a way that's not intentional. So you're going to wind up doing the things that this person does. And even if you try to do something different from what this person does because of who this person is, you're going to eventually find yourself bouncing back into doing the things that you do without thinking, right? And so here's the thing, like when we talk about, again, emotions, we can try to think our way and try to get a hold of our thoughts, right? But then what about those who still don't have real breakthrough after saying, I've been meditating, I've been, I've been trying to focus on this and doing this, and I still can't seem to get a grips, I can't get out of this cycle— a lot of times it's because they're dealing with something deeper from the identity level, something deeper from the subconscious level, and they're almost like going against the grain of that because when you feel a certain way, your thoughts will follow those feelings, right? See, emotions can follow thoughts, but thoughts will follow feelings. And so even if you're trying to think in a different direction, eventually you're going to bounce back into your same habits of your thought life, because this has to be changed from the level of the heart, because that is where your identity lies. And a lot of people don't want to do heart work. Heart work, okay? They want to do hard work but not heart work. Heart work has to be done in order for you to change who you are. And so when you are working on expanding these boundaries, right, because you want to expand the boundaries, right, because again, if somebody is not a good leader, all right? They are very insecure as a leader. They don't believe in themselves. They don't see themselves as people who can conquer and win or make decisions or lead somebody. But then they get placed in leadership, right? And this is— we see this all the time, obviously. If they get placed in leadership and they don't see themselves as a leader, then what's going to happen is they're going to be performing. And we see a lot of performance, like, in the world, period. People are just performing. And but, but they're not— the performance is, is, is not coming from a legitimate place of, of real identity and, and real knowledge of themselves as individuals. As a matter of fact, most people wake up and realize they don't even know themselves. They don't know what makes them happy. They don't know what makes them sad. They've been living somebody else's life for so long, or they've been living You know, you know, parents and, and leaders and friends make people kind of, you know, they live vicariously through people. And so often, you wake up and you're like, who am I? What do I like? What am I supposed to do? You have a midlife crisis almost, because you are acquainted with somebody you really don't know. And, um, that can be quite devastating. That can cause for some, some, uh, some really low moments in life, some lonely moments even in life if you don't really know who you are. And so this is also why you see, for example, people who become millionaires overnight. Maybe they won the lottery or something and they get handed a lot of money, but guess what? Their identity has not been stretched, like their boundaries haven't been stretched to be able to manage the money. They're not individuals that can manage that amount of money. So money is never the solution because you can't even manage that type of money, nor have you saw yourself being that wealthy. That's, that's usually why people play the lottery or play, play those games, because they don't feel like they have it in them often to, um, to, to actually do it on their own, you know. And I'm not saying this is the case for everyone. Some people just do it for fun. I've played the lottery for fun. But you have to see yourself having the ability to be able to, uh, bring wealth your way and to add value to the world in a way where, where money will attract itself to you, uh, because of the purpose that you're here to fulfill in life. And if you don't really feel that way about yourself and you can't see yourself wealthy or being valuable enough to be wealthy in this world, then when millions of dollars drop in your lap, you're not going to make the right decisions with it. Now what you're going to do is utilize that money to probably try to validate yourself and validate your level of confidence and security. And that's what a lot of people spend time doing, is using external things to validate themselves. And when you do that, you wind up still self-sabotaging because that external validation is not really aligning you with who you really are. Like, it's aligning you with who you may think you are, or the false identity that you have, but it's not in alignment with how God really created you. You know, to win, to be the head and not the tail, to be able to have the promises that he's given to you, like to be more than a conqueror. Like, if you feel defeated, then it's going to be hard for anything to validate you to a place of real security. It's actually going to sabotage you to a place of insecurity, meaning that more money and more validation from other places that are not in alignment with who you are are gonna actually make you even more insecure. Because now it's going to validate this insecurity and how you feel, and then you're going to create even more of a distance between you and what you have, or you and, you know, who you have in your life or around you, because you haven't come into real knowledge of yourself and you don't see yourself the way God sees you, then you're gonna start thinking, I don't deserve this. Even when good stuff come your way, you're gonna deem yourself unworthy to have it because you don't see yourself that way. It's an identity issue and it has to be resolved from that level. Now, what I also want to say about boundaries is that this is where your programming kind of comes from. Like, you are programmed a certain way, and you're programmed to not be able to be successful outside of these barriers until you expand yourself on an identity level, on a heart level. If you don't expand yourself on a heart level, again, your programming is restricted to just this. This is as much as you can handle. This is as much as you can do. And when you step out to perform, or when you step out to have actions outside of this, it will cause you more devastation than it will good, because your boundaries are where they are, and they are crafted around who you are as an individual. Therefore, it has to start there. And you have to get to a place where you see yourself a certain way, where you feel yourself into a certain way of life. In other words, if you can see yourself whole and healthy and thriving and at the weight that you want to be at, if you can see yourself there, that becomes the place where you start to now reprogram the limitations that you have around your ability to do and to become that. And when your programming starts to change, you won't need to have any real effort in doing certain things because who a person is, they're gonna do what that person does. And the great thing about this is that you can actually go ahead of your circumstance and ahead of where you are in reality, to see yourself as something that you're not right now and reprogram your mind to be that person. And it's almost like going into the future and then reverse engineering back to know what kind of steps it would take to get to where that person gets to. Anybody who's made it to success will tell you that they saw this being played out first. And when you see it being played out, because you're expanding your horizon, you are, you are breaking the limits off of you as an individual because you are coming into relationship with who you are. You're understanding more about yourself. You're understanding more about your capabilities. You're understanding more about your design. You're understanding more about your purpose and your destiny and the things that you should be becoming in life. Then it will be easy because your brain is now wired in the same way as somebody who's made it on the other side of the mountain. And so you will become just that. And that is how you start the process of reprogramming yourself, by that awareness of coming into true identity of who you are. Because again, this is why people self-sabotage. Do you ever wonder why successful people, when they make it and they're wealthy, or they become a singer, or just whatever, why all of a sudden they wind up, you know, stressed out, on drugs, or, you know, drinking too much, or just doing things that are detrimental to their life and to their future? Usually it's because the success came at a faster rate than how they could program themselves to handle and to manage the success. And so management of ourselves is very, is very important. Like if you, if you have any plans on being successful, you have to get a grip on who you are as an individual, your mindset, not just your, your mind, but your mindset. It's like your mindset can control your mind. Once you have an established mindset, it really helps because you process through life everything from that mindset. And let me tell you how even deeper this is important, because the way you are as an individual, like your processing, your programming, you're going to filter through that programming, and then you're going to see other people the same way you are, in a sense. See, that's why, that's why good people always find good people, because they can assess for good, for the good, because good comes out of their heart. And bad people always find bad people, you know, because they're assessing their ways through the processing and the filtering of who they are as individual And it's like, okay, I knew this person wasn't no good, or I knew that because they're assessing. And a lot of times trauma does that because trauma makes your brain scan for threats all day. Now don't get me wrong, be smart. I'm— I know that there's some criminals in this world and people who are just not kind and not good people. I'm aware of that, but I tend to see more of people who are like me in a sense, because I, I'm, I'm processing it from the, the good out of my heart. That's why to the pure all things are pure, and to the defiled all things are defiled. And even Proverbs, um, 17:20 says, one who has a perverse heart finds no good. And so that's a heart that's crooked, and if the heart is crooked, they're going to process out of that heart and think everybody's bad, everybody's trying to do them over, no one is good. See, see, the thing is, even when we are interpreting light, light is interpreted by us and it creates an image. That's how we actually see, right? And so that the way we see life and the way we see people actually comes from what we see about ourselves in our own heart, the way we're processing even ourselves and, and the way we're designed, it all filters out through that. And it makes you almost attract the type of person you are. And that's why people can find themselves in cycles, in relationships, or in the same situations over and over. It may look a little different, but it's the same cycle. Because when we don't break this way of being, What happens is we're in the cycle of being ourselves, and the cycle of being you has to be broken. Meaning this is about breaking the cycle of being yourself, because if the old self don't know who you are, then you got to become a person who do know who you are, and that's a different person. So the old man has to die in order for you to flourish in the future. And this is a valuable, uh, piece of information for you because it's going to change the course of everything. Everything will reflect back to who you are. They even did a study and they showed how animals and dogs would not respect owners who didn't have security in themselves and confidence. And I say that to say that sometimes the insecurity and the lack of confidence sends out such strong signals that even animals can catch on to it. And that's why even when you are dealing with certain animals and, you know, even dog trainers and things like that, you can tell they're very confident in what it is that they're doing in that moment, and the dog can read that. And so that's why you see that they may listen to the dog expert when they won't even listen to the owner because the owner doesn't have that confidence just yet to deal with the dog. And I'm, and I'm not saying that, um, every dog owner should automatically be able to, you know, have an expertise in raising their, uh, their dogs right. But I am saying that, for example, even if you are a parent, there's some things about yourself that you need to understand as a parent. And a parent is about becoming And a lot of times children will reflect back the insecurities or the lack of control or whatever those things are that parents be dealing with. They don't often understand that there's signals being sent out. Now, and I'm not, I'm not saying that a really good parent who's done everything that they can to raise their children won't experience some hardship. Because God was the perfect father and Adam and Eve went astray. So I'm not saying that your kids will always represent the type of parent you are. I'm saying that this also works in parenthood, and that is the truth, because I've known a lot of people who started to operate in more patience with themselves, and that patience gave signals to their children, and their children picked up on that, and their children responded with less anxiety and less, you know, resistance and things like that. And so sometimes the best thing we can do, even especially in a marriage, you know, when you're trying to work with somebody or you're trying to restore a relationship, the best thing you can do is be the best person that you are supposed to be. Because when you change yourself, you will have a greater impact on the people that are around you. And listen, if the people around you don't align anymore with who you are as a person, you're gonna start to notice that too, because they're not going to want to be around you. And that's great, because if you don't want to be around me because I am coming into who I really am, then we're gonna have a problem because I don't want to suppress who I am supposed to be just to feel loved and accepted by you. And so this is a discovery of loving yourself. This is about self-love because you can't really love yourself if you don't know yourself. Who are you loving? Are you loving the false you? Are you love— are you loving the person that they wanted you to be? Are you being someone else because somebody else has put that pressure on you. I want you to come into alignment with who you're meant to be in this world. And the reason why is because the world is missing out on who you really are while you're trying to be someone else. And I'm saying this to say, you will by default try to be someone else if you don't know who you are. And so sometimes it's not even intentional. It's just, this is your autopilot. This is the boundaries that you live by because you haven't come into a greater awareness and acquaintance with yourself, and you haven't had the tools to strategically try to shape yourself in the design that God has had for you from the beginning. And because of that, you will accidentally become someone that you're not supposed to be. And people feel it all the time when they wake up one day unsatisfied, unfulfilled in life, and they're like, I'm not supposed to be here, I'm not supposed to be doing this, who am I? This is something that we have to pay great attention to because it's the key to life fulfillment and all the success that you'll ever have. And it's the key to being able to really have an impact in this world. We want you to be yourself. The world needs you to be yourself. They really do. And if you're not being yourself, there is a great robbery that's being taken from this world without you. And you got to know that because you're valuable, you're necessary, you're worthy. The reason why I know you're worthy is because I know a man who's already paid the greatest cost that can ever be paid for your life, and his name is Jesus. And so that right there proves that you are worthy and you are valuable. There's no more money or no more resource that anybody could ever provide that's greater than somebody sacrificing their life for you. And so you must come into understanding and you must come into awareness that if you don't learn how to master the relationship with you then it could be possible that there's almost like this unspoken word over the grave, like, you were never here. You, the real you, were never here. You, you were here, but you were never here. The real you, the identity that was created from above, we did not know that person. And boy, do we miss out on a good thing in life if we don't know the real you. God makes no mistakes. He's very intentional about every single person that he has created in his likeness and in his image. To think that I could miss out on experiencing a human being that's made in the likeness and in the image of God is devastating. And that's what you need to realize, is that We're devastated without the real you. And so there is work to do to master who you are as an individual and start to expand those boundaries so that you can attain more, you can have more, you can manage more, and you can get to the top of the mountain and you can fly to the top of the sky with wings like eagle and allow for everyone to see the wonder of what you have to offer this world. You are valuable and you are loved. And that is the message that I want you to know. Now, if this blessed you in any type of way, make sure that you like this video, that you subscribe to this podcast so that you can be notified whenever I go live or release a video. 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