Your speaking yourself OUT of the WEALTH TRANSFER
In this live YouTube sermon, Kamilah Stevenson argues that the words we speak—both aloud and in our inner dialogue—are the primary drivers of our financial, health, and relational outcomes. She opens with a biblical foundation (Mark 11:23, John 1:14, Proverbs, James, Ephesians, Philippians) to claim that language has literal creative power. Stevenson contrasts "poverty language" (e.g., "I can't afford it," "I'm broke") with "wealth language" (e.g., "How can I afford it?", "I'm learning to multiply money"), asserting that most people sabotage themselves by speaking in scarcity terms. She explains how self‑talk shapes perception, emotions, and actions, and how repeated negative narratives become self‑fulfilling prophecies. The talk then moves to practical interventions: (1) speak less and think higher, (2) audit daily self‑talk, (3) reframe statements into possibility‑focused language, and (4) curate one's environment to avoid toxic speakers. Stevenson ties these linguistic shifts to health, noting that a healthy body is required to realize wealth, and promotes her 90‑Day Health and Wealth Challenge as a structured program to teach wealth strategies, health habits, and mindset work. Throughout, she repeatedly urges viewers to like, subscribe, and engage in the chat, using these calls to action as both community‑building and algorithmic support. The overall message is that by consciously changing our language, we unlock the "wealth transfer" God intends for us, aligning mind, body, and spirit toward financial freedom and well‑being.
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All right, I'm gonna share something that I believe will change your life, and I mean that. I mean that. All right, let's— okay, what's going on everybody? Good to see you in the place to be. I have something that I want to share that will change your life, and I mean that. First make sure that you can hear me before I get started because I want to dial right in and, uh, start sharing some very, very valuable information. Um, what's going on everybody? Hey from DC, what's going on? Hello, hello, can you hear me? Making sure, always, uh, you know, with tech, tech stuff that always goes on, I just want to make sure you can hear me before I start. All right, I got something good for you. I got something good for you. Please, uh, thank you, uh, for saying that you can hear me. Share this video. Hey, while you're coming in, just make sure you hit that like button. It really do help, uh, the videos get out. It helps, uh, the algorithm, helps me to continue to create content. So please do, um, it doesn't cost you a dime. Just hit that like button. I'm here serving, sharing, um as best as I can. And, uh, somebody said you're my new pastor. All right, all right. Well, um, I'm here to nurture, uh, always. Uh, yeah, I got some amazing stuff. Hey Kimberly, it's good to see you. And I want to jump right in because, um, yeah, what I got to share is very valuable, um, to your entire life. Uh, if you have not subscribed, make sure you subscribe. I'll be dropping, um, some true gems. All right, XRP Nation, love XRP. All right, um I do want to just start and say, uh, this is for educational purposes only. I am not your financial advisor. I do want to clear that up and make sure that I say that before I get started. Um, you are so welcome. Uh, Glorious says thank you for sharing your knowledge, and that is what I'm here for. Now I want to tell you something that is so profound, all right, that it will change your entire life. All right, don't forget to like, the video. Please do that favor, it does not cost you anything. And subscribe, please. All right, um, let me, let me ask you something. What makes it possible to move mountains in your life? Benjamin says he's in the room. What make— sometimes we need to move mountains. You may need to move a mountain in your life, but what makes moving mountains in your life possible? I'm going to tell you, and I'm going to talk about that today. And the answer is not in your talent, it's not in your degrees, it's not even in how much money you got in your bank account. You want to know what that answer is? What makes mountain moves— mountains move is your words. Your words. Mark 11:23. I want to start with a scripture, okay, because I believe in scripture. Mark 11:23 says, if you say to this mountain, if you say to this mountain, be removed and cast into the sea, and do not doubt in your heart, it will be done for you. If you say. Now think about this, because it didn't say if you wish, it didn't say if you think, it didn't even say if you hope. He said if you say. To this mountain. Y'all, y'all hear me? Hit that like button. Hey, what's going on? Glad I didn't miss it this time. Thanks, Greg. If you say— the power, the power is in your language, and most people don't realize this. I want to talk about that today because it's too many people that don't understand that your words are your wealth. Your words are your wealth. Every time you open your mouth, either you are sending armies to fight for your future, or you're sending armies to fight against it. And the tragedy of all of this is that most people use their words to sabotage their wealth without even knowing it. See, most people think life dictates their language, and I hear that all the time. Like, it's like, why are you talking like that, man? Because this happened. Why are you talking? Most people think I'm speaking because of what's happening in my life. I say I'm broke because my situation is broke. I say I'm tired because life wears me out. But it's backwards. I'm telling you now, it's backwards. It's not your circumstances that create your words. Hear me out. It is your words that create your circumstances. And if only you could get this, you will start changing the way you speak. John 1:14 says this: The Word became flesh and made dwelling among us. In other words, what was spoken became reality. Your words live with you and they carry you through life. That is the, the spiritual law of language. And whether you believe it or not, you're living under it every single day. So you want to be clear on what it is that you're speaking into your life. So my question to you even now is, what are you saying to move your mountains? What are you saying to move your mountains to get you into, into into acceleration for financial freedom, in your well-being, optimizing your health, your relationships, your emotions? What are you saying to your mountains? Are you telling yourself, I'll never have enough, I don't have the money, I don't have the time, I don't have the knowledge, I don't have this, I don't have that? That is poverty language. And maybe you're not saying it out loud, but I'm sure you're having a conversation with yourself within yourself. That's the That's the language of lack. And wealthy people— and I always say wealthy people because I want you to be wealthy and I want you to speak wealthy— wealthy people, people who walk in abundance, they reframe these phrases. And instead of saying stuff like, oh, I can't afford this, they ask, how can I afford it? Instead of saying, I don't know how, they say, I'm gonna figure it out. Your speech— hear me out, this is very, very, very important. Your speech is the thermostat of your future. If you speak small, you're gonna live small. If you speak lack, you're gonna live lack. But if you speak possibility, if you say to the mountain what you need to say, you'll begin to see your words manifest as wealth, as opportunity, as freedom. The way you speak— and that's why the very first step in changing your identity is not a new job, it's not a new investment, it's not even a new strategy. The first step is to change how you speak. Because your life— I want you to know something— your life will never rise above your internal narrative. It will not. Now I want to go deeper with this. Make sure you hit that like button and share this video. So many people need to hear it because I often listen to what people say, and man, oh man, I don't think people realize how much their mouth is getting them in trouble. But I want to help you out with something, okay? Because it's not just the words that come out of your mouth, it's the words you whisper to yourself all day long. Did you know that the average person has over 50,000 thoughts a day, maybe more? And most of them are the same thoughts. They are repetitive, on autopilot, and they're shaping your life whether you know it or not. And the truth is that the loudest conversation that you'll ever have doesn't have anything to do with your spouse, your boss, your friends. It's the conversations that that you have with yourself. That is the loudest conversation you're gonna have, and you're doing it all the time. You're doing it when you eat, you're doing it when you work, you're doing it when you walk, when you brush your teeth, when you're praying, when you sleep. All of it. It don't matter if you're an introvert or an extrovert, it does not matter. You are always talking to you. And catch this, it's not life itself that you are reacting to, it is your opinion of life, the story that you've been narrating in your head over and over again. Let me say that again: you are not acting on life itself, you're acting on the story that you've been telling yourself about it. Now think about that, think twice about that, think three times about that. Two people can go through the same exact struggle, struggle. They can get laid off, um, they can have a failed business, they can go through some health problems. One person may say, this is the end, my life is over, what I'm gonna do? The other person say, this is my reset. Put in the chat if you've been going through something. Put in the chat, this is my reset. Sometimes you just gotta tell yourself, you gotta encourage others, you gotta encourage yourself in it. This is my reset, my comeback story starts now, right? It could be the same event, different language. That means, guess what, a different future, right? Let me look at these chats real quick. So a man thinking, Mark. Okay, yes, yes, yes, I see you, I see you. I'm making sure you don't have any questions in here. All right, let's get back to it. So somebody said, speak it, my sisters, this is my reset. I see you putting it in the chat. I love it, I love it. Right now, um, Your breakthrough is, is this, that your talk is your life, okay? Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. You don't realize that you're speaking things that settled in your heart, okay? And that's why there's a reflection. I always explain to people that even when we go through things and we have experiences, it's not the experience in and of itself that, um, messes with you, it, it, that affects you. It's not. It's really what you tell yourself about the experience. So if you, you know, you were abandoned by your father, your mom, or whatever, it is not that they abandoned you that's the real issue. The real issue is what did that mean to you? Did that mean that you weren't good enough? They didn't love you because you was unlovable? It's always the meaning that you give it. Now, if your self-talk is filled with doubt, defeat, despair, your actions are also going to follow that. Hear me out. So your actions are going to line up. They're predictable to how you talk, okay? But if your self-talk is filled with faith, if it's filled with focus and possibility, your actions are going to shift into that too. That's why I'm saying when you speak, the actions align to what you say, okay? And that's why Proverbs even says, as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he, okay? Your inner narrative, it eventually becomes your reality. This all starts from your inner being, if you didn't know that. So let me ask you, what does your private conversations look like? See, you gotta— sometimes you gotta just stop and assess what you're saying, what you're speaking, okay? You gotta stop because a lot of people don't know what they're talking to themselves. They don't know because it's so familiar, it's, it's normal. And you gotta break— you gotta almost be— you gotta start to be conscious of the unconscious, okay? So, so let me ask you, your private conversation where you're speaking to yourself, do you know what you tell yourself most times? I'm talking about when nobody's listening, when nobody's listening to you, okay? What are you saying about your money? What are you saying about your career? What are you saying about your purpose? What are you saying about your future? What are you saying about your worth? Because your life is not going to ever elevate above the language that you use with yourself. Okay, and the exciting part is this, is that once you recognize this, you can start to rewrite the script. Instead of saying, oh, I'm broke, you can say, hey, I'm learning how to multiply money. Instead of— I used to hear all the time people, I'll never get out of debt, I'll never pay this house off, I'll never— no, no, no. You can say, every day I'm moving closer to financial freedom. If you don't feel like you know enough, you can say, I can, I can figure it out. And that's what I will do. I will figure it out. Your inner dialogue is your first investment, and the return is your entire life. If you say to this mountain— okay, now let's get real for a minute, because there is a thing, uh, that happens to all of us in life where we start to self-sabotage, okay? And some of you all are losing the battle with your words every day, and you just don't know it. So when you are speaking or thinking things about your life— my life is over, I'm stupid, the worst thing has happened to me— have you ever caught yourself saying those things in the heat of a moment? Sometimes, you know, it's just in the heat of a moment, you feel a certain way, um, and you start to speak. Some people even start to project things off of other people, right? And you, and you look back and you might even realize it wasn't even rational what you was thinking, what you were feeling. And that's why we got to get our emotions stable, and that's a different story. But that's the trap of toxic language, is a lot of times your toxic language exaggerates the negative, and then your life bends, your life molds, your life begins to bend and sculpt itself to match those words. The truth is you're not just describing your reality, you are creating it. How was the world brought into existence? God spoke it, right? You are creating it. You're not, you're not describing it, you're creating it. Every word you speak is like a seed, and a toxic seed will grow toxic fruit. That's why Ephesians talks about let no corruption, no, no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for the building up. So your mouth should not carry corrupt communication, because corrupt communication doesn't just affect your mood, it wrecks your entire destiny. And let me take it even deeper, because self-sabotage doesn't— it doesn't start with, uh, like a bottle, a credit card addiction. It starts with language. Marriages are destroyed because of toxic words. Families are fractured because of toxic words. People run to drugs, to gambling, to infidelity, or destructive habits because their self-talk convinced them that they were worthless first. Nobody can sabotage your life quite like you can. If you ever want to blame anybody, I'm telling you, it's probably your mouth. It starts with what you're saying. Now hear me, I'm not talking about like— whenever we get about, uh, talking about communication and stuff, it's— I'm not thinking about like the cheesy affirmations and stuff. I'm not saying that affirmations aren't good. I'm saying that you can't do affirmations and ignore all of the dirt underneath the rug, because deep down you know that dirt is still there, and you cannot sweep it under the rug and expect for it to just disappear. Your language is coming from your heart. You got to go under the rug, you got to confront the lies, you got to rewrite the script that you've been telling yourself. And that's why the Bible does say death and life are in the Power of the tongue, not just out loud, but the tongue in your inner dialogue. And for some of you, the reason your wealth has not grown and your opportunities haven't multiplied or your confidence hasn't broken through is because your words have been digging graves instead of planting gardens. So this is a wake-up call. If you don't change your language, you can't change your life. Now we want to flip this around, right? We want to reroute this, okay? Because we've exposed that there is a problem there, that toxic words and negative self-talk and poverty language, um, they hold you back. Now let's talk about how do we reverse this, okay? Because you can start, uh, speaking differently. I'm gonna give you about 3, 3 or 4 things you can do, okay? 3 or 4 things you can do. Number 1, Speak less and think higher. Hit the like button for me. Hit the like button for me if you agree. If you agree that most people should speak less and think higher, hit the like button. It don't cost you nothing. Sometimes the best thing you can do for your future is shut your mouth. Be quick to listen and slow to speak. Why? Because again, every word is a seed. The words that I speak, they are spirit and they are life. Are you breathing life into, into what, what you're doing, right? Every word is a seed, and if you're careless with your words, then you're careless with your harvest. Your harvest is going to reflect the seed. Where's the seed? It's in your mouth. You didn't know that? When you're planting a seed and you're waiting on the harvest, it's from your mouth. So instead, filter your language through through Philippians 4:8 that talks about, you know, thinking on whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable. Those are the things that you think on. Those are the places that you speak from. And if your thoughts rise higher, your words will follow. You can't also be around people that always speak negatively. That is so true, because they are planting seeds now. And most of this stuff is from teachers and leaders and, and sometimes parents and politicians and religious leaders speaking things over your life that shouldn't have been spoken over your life. Now, number 2, audit your self-talk. Audit your self-talk. Take just one day. You will be amazed. Take one day and write down the common phrases you tell yourself. You'll be so shocked. Do you catch yourself saying stuff like, I can't afford it? I don't have enough time, I'm not smart enough, um, or whatever it is. If so, that's your, that's your poverty script, right? Remember, it's going from stuff like I can't afford it to how can I afford it. Oh, see, the moment you switch that to how, that's when your intuitive power and your creative abilities start to flow, okay? Because that's, that's where we should be flowing. We should be flowing from those places of our higher faculties, right? How can I afford it? Now I got my brain thinking, right? Instead of complaining and wasting energy, because we got to manage our energy, right? And negative toxic words or being around negative toxic people— I actually did a training, a video on that some time ago, you got to check it out— they drain your energy, okay? And if your energy is drained and you have no more energy left, then you don't have enough energy to start creating. Because if you're— again, you— I don't, I don't, I can't afford it. How can I afford it? I don't have time. I'll create time for what matters. Are you creating time for what matters, or is it being drained through relationships, right? It was so interesting. I was just watching some videos the other day, um, about like all of these people who said they started spending a lot of time by themselves because they were just in communities and cultures and people who was just draining them. Vouchers just sucking the blood out of them, sucking away the energy. And they realized that they have more peace and serenity and, and, and calm and stability of emotions, um, when they just retreated and spent a little time alone. And they— and that made them realize how toxic people can really be. It's hard finding some real healthy people. I, I thank God for my friends and my culture, but I don't— I, I don't I'm not— first of all, I'm not an extrovert, y'all. I'm an introvert. Um, so you're not gonna find me always at the party around a bunch of partying animals that's just, you know, talking stupid and, and wasting, you know, time or whatever. I'm just not that person, right? Um, and I, I, you know, because I think a lot and I am a person who likes to have higher order thinking, I like to make executive decisions with the executive part of my brain And so I don't like to be, um, intoxicated by a bunch of things going on in culture that sabotages my ability to think higher order. I don't like that. So I spend a lot of time thinking, of course. So I'm that person that sit back, I watch a lot, I watch a lot, and I think a lot about what's going on. And let me tell y'all, people— a lot of people have lost their minds, y'all. And I mean that. People are losing their minds. They are. Okay, so we want to go from this scarcity language— okay, um, I re— I, I digress. We want to go from scarcity language, I'm not smart enough, to creative language, I can learn what I need. I can, I can learn what I need to learn. Okay, so what we're doing, which is step 3, is we're reframing with possibility language. If you ever want to get wealthy, if you ever want to see the fulfillment of your destiny and walk in purpose the way God intended for you to walk and take back control of your life, you are going to have to reframe with the possibility language, okay? No more poverty language. Wealthy people don't necessarily deny reality, they just don't get trapped by it, okay? They use words to expand possibility. I don't know how becomes I'll figure it out. I've never done this becomes this is my chance to grow. Amen. Your words set the direction of your faith, and your faith sets the direction of your future. So one thing we also have to remember— and please like the video if you have not yet. I don't understand how people watch the video and don't like, right? Like the video, especially if you like it. If you like it, okay. If you don't like it, I understand, but if you like it please hit that like button. The last thing is, remember, words compound like wealth. Just like money invested grows over time, words invested grow too. Remember, we're looking for a harvest. You may not see it overnight, but consistent life-giving words will multiply, and being around consistent life-giving people will help that for you. Okay, that's why it's good to make sure that you're lending your ear to possibility language, but you, you're, you're closing your— you're clogging your ears intentionally if you are again around toxic people. I don't understand how people can be around gossiping, slandering people. I'm like, where do people find this stuff from? Like, people say things, it's so interesting. I I mean, I've had people say things even about me, uh, my relationship, that just are not— where did y'all get this from? Where did this slander come from? Like, you just made this up on your own? Like, they— I mean, so non-factual, such lies. And people do it all the time. If you are giving your ear to gossip and slander and negativity— I can't stand when people sit and murmur and complain. Who agree with me? Put it in the chat. How many people does it bother you when people just murmur? I can't— in the gym, don't, don't come to the gym with me if you're gonna just sit and pout the entire time through the class. Like, I, I can't take gym class when it's like, oh, when we gonna get— where— why did you come? This is a no-complaint zone right now. Right now, no complaining. It just drains the energy. Do you understand? Like when you're working out and you got somebody next to you and they like, uh, I don't know, I ain't about to be doing all this. What they doing? What? Oh, we gotta— how many burpees you talking? That's so draining. You need somebody to say, come on, let's do it. I don't care if you, you, you're about ready to give up. One more, one more, let's go. Come on, we'll do it together. Let's do it. You need that kind of energy. It's the same thing with your work. Words, right? You need consistent life-giving words to push you through. Somebody said, I agree 100%. Even if I'm tired, even if I can't do the workout, I don't want to be around this. I used to tell people, no complaints, don't even come this way. Don't. That's why I like working out by myself. I can't do it, okay? I know it's hard. I know we got a lot of burpees to do. I know we got a lot of jumping jacks. I know we got a lot of this and that. Don't complain. I don't want— I never complain. You would never hear me complain when I'm working out. Never, never. Matter of fact, I make myself put a smile on my face when I'm doing sprints. I make myself. I don't feel it always inside, but I make myself. I'm conditioning myself. I'm psychologically, uh, inducing myself. Okay, whatever you got to do, whatever you got to do to get it done. Okay, but James— that's why James compared the tongue to the rudder on the ship. It's a tiny thing, but it has a massive impact. It can turn the entire course of your life. That's what scripture says. And here's the spiritual principle, is that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of love, power— or is, I think the order is power, love, and a sound mind. So when your words sound like fear, that's not God. When your words sound like lack, That's not God. And when your words sound like confusion, that's not God. God's language is always power, love, and clarity. If I ain't feeling that energy, just stop talking to me, because I'm nobody's garbage. I'm nobody's trash, okay? I need to hear power. I need to hear love. I need to hear a sound mind. If this, if this language is in my culture, I need to hear clarity. So for you today, it's my prayer and hope that you would stop speaking against your own future, that you would stop cursing your own opportunities, and that you will start using your tongue to, uh, or stop using your tongue to sabotage instead of build. I want you to start building with your tongue. And not sabotaging yourself, not sabotaging your destiny, not distorting what God has placed in front of you. You're the only one that can screw it up. It ain't nobody's fault but you. So start speaking life. If you say to this mountain— hit that like and subscribe button, y'all. Now listen, I do want to clarify something. Once you shift your language, doors will start opening. I promise you, life starts to reflect back. I promise you, okay? So, and, and that's why, that's why I wanted to bring that clarity, because if you feel like you're saying things based on what's happening, I need you to understand, no, when you start saying things, the manifestation of that will start coming. And the reason why things are happening is a lot of times due to your language and your thinking, okay? And, and again, if you're thinking the same thing and then you're thinking it tomorrow and you're thinking it the next day and you're thinking it the next day, what do you think is That's what's setting you up for this, right? But I do want you to understand that even when you shift your language, doors will open, but words alone aren't enough. It'll start, it'll— opportunity will come, but the truth is, if you don't have the tools, the strategies, education to actually build, uh, wealth, protect your health, you're going to end up motivated for a moment, but you might still stay stuck in a cycle. Some people break out temporarily. Y'all understand what that look like. The new— the New Year's resolutions, the momentum that come, the inspiration that come, and then it gets drained, it dries up over time. I don't want that for you. And that's why I have created the 90-Day Health and Wealth Challenge. Um, and what it is, is I'll just tell it to you straight, it's designed, uh, to take you from feeling out of control, stuck, drained, to feeling confident, energized, finally in control of your money, your life, Your destiny. And what we do is we help you to learn how to grow your money with simple practical wealth strategies, how to break free, um, from toxic cycles of debt, of fear, living paycheck to paycheck, that type of stuff. And to help you rebuild your energy, focus, and habits so that your body and mind are aligned with your financial goals. Y'all know I'm a health coach. I've been, um, uh, doing coaching with reversing chronic disease for a long time, over a decade. And so I always say, it doesn't matter how much money you got, if you're not well in your body— and get y'all lab work done, please, I, I have to insert and say that— if you're not well with your body, um, you're not going to be able to experience your wealth. Get your lab work done. A lot— not, not enough people get lab work done. All right, so I want you to take back control of your future instead of letting systems and stress and bad habits control you. All right, the link is in the description, so check out the link in the description, um, and, and we'll get you some more information about that. I'm looking at the, uh, comments. Are y'all taking some notes? Hey, hey, somebody said speak life. Yes, that is it. I am speaking life. And, um, you know what, if you haven't seen some of my— if you're new here, my name is Kamilah Stevenson, um, and again, I am a health coach, uh, but I also, uh, help to bring people out of scarcity and poverty and into financial freedom. Um, so we help you with wealth strategies to grow your life and your experiences of life, and of course be healthy while you're doing it, because you are— your body is your temple, you're the vehicle of what's driving you through life, and so you got to be well. All right, um, so make sure that you hit that like button, hit that subscribe button. I'll be back on to do a lot more. Put in the comment what was your aha moment, what resonated with you. Share. Um, and if you have questions about what you want me to talk more about, please put it in the comments. I look at all the comments and I build a lot of this content based upon what, what you asked for. All right, so, uh, make sure that you put it in the comment if it's something that you want me to cover. And go back and look at a lot of the other videos I've done. They will be, uh, usually under my live session section. So if you go and you subscribe to my page, if you look under the live videos, there are plenty of amazing content. I want you to go back and go through it. Why? Because I'm speaking life, and you need to allow yourself to get seeds planted that can thrust you and move you into your future. And that's what I'm doing. So, uh, make sure you go back and look at some of those videos. All right, um, I'm gonna head out, but listen, I want you to know your talk is your life, your words are your wealth, and your language is the key that unlocks the future God has designed for you. I'll see you next time.
