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A victim of adults’ choices #KaramoShow #dna #fatherdaughter #kidneydisease

19 Oct 2025 · 0 min

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In this segment of The Karamo Show, host Karamo interrogates a guest about the emotional complexities surrounding a kidney transplant. Karamo asks how the guest feels knowing that a young woman—referred to as a potential daughter—was the one who placed him on a donor list, implying a deep personal connection. Speaker B clarifies a misunderstanding, stating that Katera never actually put him on a donor list; instead, she signed up to serve as a backup caregiver should a kidney become available. Karamo emphasizes that the young woman is a victim of adult decisions that have left her feeling abandoned, isolated, and hurt, and she is struggling with the perception that credit for her life‑saving role is being taken away. The dialogue highlights themes of family conflict, miscommunication about medical roles, and the psychological impact of being caught in adult power dynamics during a life‑saving medical process.

So you have a second chance at life with a new kidney. How does it make you feel knowing that the daughter, a potential daughter that you have not been claiming, is the one that put you on the donor list and tried to save your life? Or not try and save your life.
There's a misunderstanding with that as well. Can I explain it? Sure.
Yeah, hell yeah.
Okay. Katera didn't put me on a donor's list. Katera signed up to where if I was blessed with a kidney, she would be a backup caregiver.
You are a mother. I need everyone to understand, and this is why I clarified this earlier, this is a young woman who has been the victim, whether or not this is her father or not, of adults making decisions that has left her lost, that has left her abandoned, that has left her alone. And that is, and that comes with the ability to feel pain and hurt. And what you're feeling is if he's taking away that credit from you.
Most definitely he is. I'm tired of people mistreating me. So yeah, I got anger. That's how I feel. I'm not getting no help. I don't get no help. I'm at a shelter in nursing school. I don't get no help from them, from nobody. I do this by myself to try to change where I come from and better for my kids.