All 3 Kids Aren't Mine?! | KARAMO

Shaziq learns through a live DNA test that only one of three children he raised is biologically his. His ex claims his family harassed her and her new girlfriend, while he says he was falsely accused of infidelity. Karamo mediates as they navigate co-parenting after the results.
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Shaziq says his ex told him he fathered 3 of her children and then said they weren't his. So everyone please welcome Shaziq to the show so we can hear his side of the story. What's up, man? How you doing, man? Nice to meet you.
Thank you, thank you.
Appreciate you. Yeah, take a seat for me. Okay, so when she first told you that she was pregnant with your first child, did you believe that baby was yours?
I thought it was mine.
You thought it was yours.
I believed it was mine at first.
Okay.
Later down the line, found out it wasn't mine.
Yeah.
I'm thinking, I'm believing it's not mine.
Yeah.
I haven't found out personally yet, that's why I'm here, but.
Yeah.
Through certain recent, well not recent, I would say old accusations, things that she done did, this is too much where. Things started popping up that wasn't adding up. Just coming outta nowhere where I just didn't understand it at that time.
Yeah.
But now I understand.
Got it. So how involved were you during that pregnancy?
Full time, man.
Full time?
Full time. Only person that was there. Literally my family was the only family members that were there for her during her pregnancy. All of her pregnancies, literally. Yeah. Her whole life, literally. I would say the last 5, 6 years, my family's been the most important to her. Wow. When it comes to these children.
So how long were y'all together? 'Cause I know you said over the last 5, 6 years, your family's been supporting, but how long were y'all together?
How long were you guys together? I would say around 5 years.
5 years together. So this was a long-term relationship.
Definitely, definitely long-term.
Yeah, okay then. And did she ever give you a reason for deceiving you?
Oh, I would say minor relationship hiccups, you know, but there's really not nothing that could come to my mind.
Yeah.
That would make her do certain things and say certain things and be a certain way towards me and my family.
Yeah. So did you ever question the paternity of the second or third child, children?
Yeah, definitely.
You did as well.
Definitely, definitely, definitely.
You did as well.
It's heartbreaking 'cause I was the man that was physically there in a relationship. But when it's my kids involved, as a man, I have to be there for my kids no matter what.
Yeah, of course. Yeah, yeah. It's sad that for what I'm hearing, and of course I gotta hear her side of the story, but what's sad to me is that I'm hearing you say like, we were in a relationship, I was there, I showed up, my family showed up. And then for her to then tell you that the children might not be yours? That's a stab.
That's years down the line too, not right away. That's years later.
Years down the line that she just comes outta nowhere and says, "These children aren't yours all of a sudden." And 'cause you're in a new relationship, you have a girlfriend, is she harassing your girlfriend as well?
For sure. That's the main culprit. She's the main one that she's harassing.
Wow. And how does she harass you?
It's literally so bad to the point where—
Is this text messages she sends? She said, "Bitch was never pregnant, that baby ain't die 'cause of me." And this is recent too, right?
This had to be last month. My girlfriend literally lost her baby last month and— Wow. This is what we going through. You know, like we're going through some real stuff.
So your mother, your girlfriend, current girlfriend lost her child. I'm so sorry by the way, 'cause you lost your child as well. And then she sends this to you or your mother? Who did she send this to?
I believe she sent it to my girlfriend.
She sent this to your girlfriend?
Right.
"Tell your son, take my daughter off his blank page. His sperm doesn't work at all. Malia got the same dad. His new girlfriend is a liar. She was never pregnant." See that right there?
That's from, that's to my mother, matter of fact.
This is to your mother?
She sent those to my mother.
How long ago did you two break up?
Around my daughter's birthday, 2024, August.
So this is almost 2 years that you've been apart. You've moved on.
Yes.
But yet she's still sending those messages.
Insane.
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Lies.
Okay, tell me.
So I didn't catch—
No lies, man. No lies. Cut it out, man. Cut it out.
My auntie, Mulan, my witness, right there. You already had a baby on me.
What's wrong with you?
She been through, she been with me through it all.
She had a baby on me already. What's wrong with you?
Okay.
What are you talking about? So you're saying that he had a relationship with your born yet?
When that happened, when Mulan was not born yet.
What are you talking about? But hold on. But so if he had a relationship with your, why not break up with him? It sounds like you continued the relationship.
I was going with my lifestyle. There was no relationship. There was nothing. It was nothing.
You on the floor like this. It was nothing.
Oh! Oh! He's a compulsive liar. Okay, so this is my third question.
You was a compulsive liar. So you did right to have kids on him.
Do you hate him a lot?
You did right. Yes, you did.
So you're saying because of his actions, you decided to have kids on him?
Hey yo.
I didn't purposely intentionally have kids on him.
Am I not the only man that ever protected you?
I stepped out of the relationship.
How can you sit here and talk like this to me though? I'm the only man in life who ever protected you.
But all the things that you're claiming doesn't justify why you would cheat. You could have just left the relationship if you feel like he's such a horrible man. And listen, 'cause I'm not here to dispute your stories, but what I do know is that if you're saying these things happen, you could have left at any moment. Why, in your own words, step out and have babies on him? Why do that? Because that's why we're here now because of the kids.
It wasn't on purpose though.
We are here for the children. You ain't say nothing about 'em yet.
They're not yours!
They are.
Can we get the DNA out?
What do you mean?
Can we get the DNA out?
They're not yours. So now you're saying none of these children are his?
I've taken care of these kids for how long?
They're not.
How long have I taken care of these kids? How long I took care of your kids?
Take care of my kids?
How long I took care of you?
You told the audience, you told the audience.
How long did I take care of you and your kids?
He was there, he was there. He was a good father, he is.
Okay, but none of these kids is mine?
So you're saying he's a good father, but now you're saying none of these children? 'Cause we're here to test 3 different children.
3.
Wait a minute, she has 4, and you're saying all 3 of these children are not his?
We're talking about 3 though.
I've taken care of how many though, right?
All 4, okay, we, okay, and, but we're here for 3.
You could be disrespectful the way you are. What do you mean?
You keep pointing me to be disrespectful. Let me tell you, let me tell you.
How you telling me all these kids is not mine? How you telling my mother my sperm don't work?
Because it don't.
What's wrong with you?
Because it don't. I'm gonna keep it real with y'all. Every time you look at your daughter, you see my face. No, that's because I hated your ass.
Every time you look at your daughter, you see me. Okay, but you ain't see the collage with her real dad. Daddy though. One outta three.
Let's get these DNA tests out.
One outta two disrespectful comments.
What I'm hearing is a woman that's still in pain because the relationship ended and it doesn't sound like you wanted it to end. Right. Because what I'm hearing here for you to say like, he was a good father, but then you say none of these kids are his. He deserved for me to cheat on him. Disrespecting his girlfriend Tammy, nice to meet you, who's in the audience. I don't understand why that is because if you are saying he was a good dad, Why would you want that to change?
It's accusations against me saying that I'm harassing him and his girlfriend.
You have, you have.
As far as I know, me and his girlfriend—
How'd you get my girlfriend's number?
So Tammy, did you receive texts directly from her?
Yes.
You did receive texts from her? Yes. And how do those texts make you feel? Because, and first of all, I'm sorry for you losing your child.
Yes. What really made me feel bad is CPS calls to my kid's school. My daughter come in home crying. I saw that CPS was called to my shelter room. Yes, I called CPS there. Not by her. Not by me. Yeah, okay.
Not by her.
Yeah, okay.
So why you playing games?
So you think that she called, so you called CPS back on them?
Because you're saying he's abusing my daughter. I never.
Yes, you have.
Karamo, I never said that. CPS told me this. I never said that. You said I was touching your. I said.
You did, right?
No, I did not. Yes, you did. No, I did not. Listen, this girl in the audience, I don't know, one minute she wanna be cool with me, next minute she don't.
Nobody's cool with you.
Nobody's cool with you.
Yeah, I know that, I know that, I know that, and I noticed that.
Your whole family's not cool with you.
That's why I had stopped talking to her.
Nobody's cool with you. You don't talk to her.
What are you talking, yes I do.
I talk to her when you go to the store.
No. Do you feel guilty?
Pull my phone out, I got recorded conversations.
Let me ask you this.
I got recorded conversations between me and your bitch. Give me my phone, please.
Let me ask you this. Do you ever feel guilty about misleading him about being the truth, his father?
To the question?
Yes, I do.
You do feel guilty?
I do.
How?
Okay.
I do.
So why would you keep hitting her?
That's why I'm here, to give clarity.
You're a clown.
'Cause you want him to know today that none of these children are his.
You're a clown.
So once we figure out blue wig on yesterday, you're a clown. What do you mean? If none of these children are his, after this will you stop talking to her? And your sperm don't work.
I bet you it do.
I bet you it don't. I bet you it don't. That's why your baby died.
You see?
You see?
Let me go! Let me go!
Hey, what's wrong with you?
February 29th, that's a leap year date. Your due date cannot be a leap year date, boo-boo. Come on now.
Why you making dates up?
That's the date she told me her due date was.
Why you making this up?
That's the due date she told me her due date was.
What I have to say is that as a mother and a woman, I don't understand how you would not You cannot realize how hard that is to trigger someone else, whether you are okay with their relationship. That is some of the lowest behavior. She's lost her child. Whether you believe it or not, that's her truth. And do you understand? Could you imagine if you had lost your child and I was to sit here and say something down to you? I understand you're in pain. I don't know where the pain's coming from. I don't know y'all's relationship, but I do see your pain. All your interactions right now are pain. That's all I'm seeing. I don't see anger, I see pain. Pain, pain, pain, pain. And that pain is shooting off in some of the worst ways possible. That I'm just saying, like, their relationship, I understand.
You don't have to—
Has nothing to do with you. But to say to another woman, like, that's where her child's at.
I know that. I don't want no criticism.
No, but you act like it do. How?
You talk about my business to the world.
I'm sorry.
Like you are my business. You're not.
Sorry.
You're not a part of my life no more.
Oh my gosh. How am I worried about you or even speaking on you when you're not the father? 'Cause you're still— No, I do not. Stalk consistently. Why do you say you gonna— That's why I said I don't want you to go through my phone.
I don't want you to stand by something. You call for the DNA test, right? Yes, please. Because, okay, because so I see two things that are happening here, 'cause we're gonna get to this DNA results.
'Cause last time I checked, me and her was cool.
Now all of a sudden we not cool.
How were you cool and you was dead for my baby?
Nobody cool with you.
I see the two things at play here because when you say that you also called this phone, to unlock phones, it tells me two things are happening. This tells me that one, the DNA, you need to confirm if these are his children. You've already said these are not his children. But secondly, you saying that you want to unlock your phone, I've heard you say several times you have videos, that lets me know what I'm saying about the pain is real because you're trying to prove that there were certain things that happened to you to show why you're in pain. So I get it, I see, hear these two stories. But the problem is those two things can't come together because what happens is that you're allowed to have your pain, to have your feelings, You're allowed. But then what happens is when you drag the paternity of your children into it, now you're damaging and affecting those kids. You're affecting their lives. So I would just suggest to you that you can heal, you can have your anger. I get it. I do not know what happened in your relationship. That needs to be separate. And please, for any relationship, whether it's this one or other ones, separate the two. I understand. Listen, listen.
You don't think you damaged your kids enough?
Shizzy, what we need to do now is get to proving if these children are yours. Understood. Because she has said they're not. Right. So come with me.
Right, right, right.
All right, here we go. Let's do it. All right, so Shazique.
Woo!
In these 3 envelopes is the 3 children that you have had questions.
Right.
She is on the stage. She has said that none of them are yours.
Right.
But you have been in these children's lives since day 1. You are the only man they've ever known. So this is your truth to open and see if you actually have 3 children or none. This is your truth to open, not mine. So good luck. Mm.
Envelope number 1. Envelope number 1.
All right.
Before I open this though, I'm gonna tell you, all this pain, bro, all this shit you've been doing, this is it right here, man.
It sure is.
Whatever you feel like you did, I hope it's worth it. Listen, man, you literally, I could cry right now, like for my kids. And you know how much I love them kids. And you done manipulated every which way for them kids to go against me. You done told them kids that I'm not they father. You done showed them, oh, I could put him in jail or try to put him in jail. I could put him in harm's way. I could put his freedom in harm's way. Because you hit their mother. When I'm the most important thing to them kids. Literally, I'm the most important thing to them kids. It's the first one.
Yeah.
Here we go. Okay. Shaziq, Malia is your biological daughter.
Oh.
That's shit, huh? None of these kids ain't mine? Damn shame, boy. You had to come all the way up here for that. You know, you know. You got 4, you know. Don't sit here in front of these people like you don't know. This is number 2, by the way. So, I love these kids, man, with all my heart. I pray to God you don't put them kids in a bad position later on in life, man.
I will never do that.
Shazique, Mylynn is not your biological daughter.
Right? Clock it.
Right. One outta two. And this is number three, the magic number. Listen, man, I don't understand you. I never did. I tried to. I tried to understand you. You was always busy telling other people my business, thinking that that was the right thing to do. Never focused on your kids.
What?
Never worried about—
Never focused on my kids?
No.
I'm a single mom of 4. I bust my ass every single day.
Let me tell you, hold on.
What are you talking about?
Being that you do that, right?
What are you talking about?
I need you to tell the world how you're such a good mother, right? But you do drugs.
So?
And we not talking about no weed. Hold on, what type of drugs though?
We're talking about the hard stuff.
We talking about— Kids are taken care of.
You're not a good mother and you know it.
And I have custody of all my kids.
You're not a good mother.
My kids are good.
You on drugs.
I was on drugs during the summer, yes.
No, you was still on drugs.
I'm still on drugs.
You're not a good mother.
Drug test me.
You're not a good mother.
Drug test me.
I believe you. We're not here for that.
Drug test me.
Yeah, you need to be drug tested, but this is number 3 though.
Drug test me.
Like I said, I hope all these kids get what they deserve. The first one is mine, second one is not.
Third one is not.
You know, right?
I already know.
You playing. Shazique Mulan is not your biological daughter. The games people play. I thank you for that. Thank you for that too, man.
Yeah, you're welcome. Okay, so we do have confirmed that one child is yours. So we're gonna need to find—
The best way.
Yeah, for you all to co-parent. The best way. I'm gonna suggest one thing to you, and this is gonna be my advice for you. I, again, I don't know what happened in y'all relationship, but I do know If you want to really step up and be the man you've told us you need to be, you can't antagonize your daughter's mother anymore. So like some of the things you said on this stage, I get it. Y'all are all heated right now. And so all the emotions were real. I get it. I understand that. But once this is done, you have to put all that shit aside. So the respect level has to get to a new level. And I think that I'm giving that recommendation to him first in hopes that you knowing that he's going to come at you properly, he's not gonna disrespect you, can be one step in you feeling like, okay, I can start to heal from whatever is hurting me. Because whatever's hurting you is eating you up inside. And I don't think that you're a bad mother. I don't know your children, you know what I mean? I heard this, so I wanna make sure I'm putting that out there. I don't have any reason. If CPS was called on you and your children were not taken, that means that they didn't find any neglect or abuse. [Speaker] Definitely didn't. [Speaker] So I can hear and I can read between the lines. But I do know that again, what I said earlier is you do need to heal. And so we now know that there's one child that is his that you will have to co-parent. And hopefully you allow him to be able to, if he comes at you respectfully, you can find ways to co-parent. I wish you the best of luck. I'm sorry for anything you've been through and I'm sorry for anything you've been through, all right? Do you know who the other two children, who their father is?
Yeah.
You do? Okay, good. Again, thank you for being here. Hopefully, hopefully.
That's the real reason why I called the show. Show, you know what I'm saying, to prove my innocence. Because there's no way— I thought he wasn't the father. So if I'm thinking he's not the father, why would I be harassing you, you know what I'm saying? I'm just gonna take my L that he moved on and do what I gotta do. I mean, it hurts, but why harass somebody that I'm— that I'm saying that is not the father of my kids? It's not making no sense. And then with her lying about being pregnant is crazy as hell. That's why I came today to prove to you all that I have not been stalking Tammy and Shazique and Tammy's family. I have the messages and proof right here in my phone. I thought we was cool, and 2 days before we got to the show, I'm being accused of stalking. Here's my proof. I haven't stalked anybody, and that's what's really bothering me.
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