Are You Cheating With A Past Guest? | KARAMO

So tell me how you first found out that Abdul was cheating on you.

I thought that I was having a miscarriage. I was in the hospital and about an hour later my cousin called me, told me that he was a dog and that he's been cheating on me with somebody for 4 and a half years.

Wow. Wow. How long have y'all been together?

Almost 3.

Okay, 3 years. Okay. So basically the entire relationship he's been, from what someone said, been cheating on you.

Yes.

So how did your cousin know that he was talking to somebody else for 4 years?

There was a little situation in my car and she called her son and her son brought his girlfriend over and Abdul was dating the girlfriend's mom.

Wow.

Yes.

Oh, okay. So did you suspect from the beginning that Abdul was cheating?

He did little red flags. It was after 8 o'clock. Couldn't pick up the phone and talk to him, but he would pop up in the middle of the night at my house and wanna spend the night.

And that's been like that from the beginning? Yes. So have you ever tried talking to Kimberly, the woman Abdul was in the relationship with?

Yes, when I found out about him, I went and called her up woman to woman and she sat there and told me I was a home wrecker. And I actually told her, how can I be a home wrecker when I was trying to build a house? He was keeping yours a secret.

Yeah. Okay. Ooh, that's a read. Okay. Okay. It's a read indeed. Okay. And what did Abdul do when you were in jail?

She went and told him that if he was single to take a video or a picture of his stuff and he went and took—

Like a naked photo?

No, just like his personal property.

Okay, got it.

He went and bought all the audacity and took a video of his shoes underneath our bed And he took the engagement ring I got him off and put the one she gave him on and took a picture and sent it to her.

While you were in jail?

While I was in jail.

Okay. And what happened when you tracked Abdul's phone last month?

I just went and happened to look at it and it was at her address. I called her up and at first she said he wasn't there, but called me a couple minutes later and said that he was on her porch and she had to kick him off.

Wow. And what reason did Abdul give you for going to Kimberly's house?

At first he tried to deny it, but it later came out that apparently she was on your show and was talking about it.

Kimberly was on my show?

That's what she says.

Oh, okay. Hold on, my producer. So I have a prompter right here, and as you said that, my producer popped up, my messy producers, by the way, said we actually have a clip of Kimberly's appearance when she was here. Okay, let's take a look. Kimberly, we unlocked your phone. Now I did see that body language.

Yeah, you did.

My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found that Kimberly is not telling the truth. Seriously? My unlock the phone investigator found 15 text exchanges between Kimberly and another man. One of the other text exchanges had a voice recorded.

You always got excuses. That's why I don't really wanna deal with you because if I'm gonna be being with you sexually and you wouldn't be at my house at night, like you ain't gonna just use me. I need too. You wanna come over there and lay up, take a shower, eat, take.

Let me take a look at some other text exchanges. Okay, listen to this. When can I come see you and get a hug, booty rub and check my vibe? Boom, call me. Okay, sexy, I trust you know I care. Okay.

That's it.

This is October 14th. Ain't no explanation. No explanation?

Ain't no explanation.

I remember Kimberly, she was trifling, y'all. So Kimberly and Abdul? Yes. So that mean that when she was over there cheating on that man, was that with Abdul possibly?

Abdul and probably others.

Ooh. Does Kimberly and Abdul have any kids together?

None whatsoever. So I don't know why they're contacting each other still.

Ooh. This just got a whole lot messier, y'all. Okay. We have never had this on this show before where a past guest came back with a, I am sorry, girl.

It is.

So do you think Kimberly is still in love with Abdul?

Oh, I know she is. I've heard the voicemails with her crying, saying that he's supposed to love her. She wants to be with him. Like I know for the last 2.5 years she's been begging to find out where he lives. And I've told her she can't go and move in with him 'cause he lives with me.

Yeah. Has Abdul cheated on you with any other woman?

Several other women. Well, I know I popped up at one of their houses and he was cutting grass. So.

Not playing home?

He was playing home, work, school, Everything at people's house.

So girl, why you still with Abdul?

I do love him. I see the potential in him to be a good man and I want him to see that potential.

You want him to see it?

Yes.

So what, you got like magical goggles you gonna show him how to? 'Cause don't he gotta see that for himself?

I don't think he's been loved right by women.

So you think that you got the magic stuff that's gonna change it?

I hope so.

You hope so. Okay, that's a real answer. Well, you told our Unlock the Phone investigators that you want to know, has Abdul been receiving any photos from other women? If Abdul has been talking to any other women at all, and is Abdul still talking to Kimberly?

Yes.

Okay then. Well, what will happen if we find something in Abdul's phone?

I'm gonna have to walk away. It's been 2 and a half, almost 3 years.

3 years.

And I can't.

Okay, I respect that. Well, it's time to hear what Abdul has to say about all this. So please welcome Abdul to the show. Thanks for being here. So how do you feel about what was just said? 'Cause I'm shocked. I ain't think we was gonna have a past guest coming through to talk about y'all situation. So how do you feel about what's happening?

Well, I just want the air to be clear that I do want to be with this woman.

You do? Okay. And why do you want to be with this woman?

Because I love her. She loves me and I love the way she cares about me.

What's going on with you and the other women? Kimberly in particular.

Kimberly is an ex-girlfriend I had for about 5 years. I did, you know, go back and forth with her for a while, but I ended it.

Okay, you did end it. When did you end it?

A while ago. It's been 10 months. 10 months since we got engaged.

10 months since you two got engaged?

Yeah.

Since you two got engaged, correct? Mm-hmm. And when you got engaged, that's when you ended it?

Yeah, I had to. I wanted to set everything down and show her that I wanted to be her man.

Is that true to you, Melissa?

No.

What is true from your perspective?

I know that he told me while I was in jail, he did sleep with her, but it didn't count because of the fact—

How long ago were you in jail for?

I was in jail in August, from August to October.

So for 3 months, August to October, you were in jail. And so you did admit to sleeping with her?

I saw her, but I didn't sleep with her.

You told me that y'all slept together. You told me that.

Why'd she say that you told her?

I told her a number of things I didn't mean.

Oh, why would you do that? Huh?

We were at a time in our relationship when we both were being disloyal and dishonest.

No, you were.

You were. Melissa, so I gotta ask you, 'cause I didn't ask you, have you cheated?

No.

Never? So from your perspective, has she cheated on you?

I believe she has.

So why did you take a picture with Kimberly's ring while Melissa was in jail?

Well, you know, I did crazy things, but you know.

Uh-huh, you did crazy things, that's what you call that?

It just was something to do, you know?

Something to do? Y'all play too much.

I didn't really mean anything by it, you know?

Something to do, something to do is like read a book, scroll social media. I don't take photos with other rings to go send it to while my girl's not here. Okay. So why were you at Kimberly's house in December?

Actually, I attempted to go to her house, but I didn't make it to her house because Melissa gave me a call and told me that her cousin had called her and told her I was out there in that area and she wanted to know why I was there.

So got it. Okay, hold on. It looks like we got a ping. I already know this about to be messy. Who this from? Who this from? Who the ping from? Let me hear it. It looks like we got a ping from Kimberly.

When he did come to my house in December, he didn't come because of no show. He didn't even know anything about the show. He came to pick me up, take me out to eat, and go get a hotel room and have sex with him, honey. He done been over there in September, October, November, December, honey, a lot of times. I don't want your man, sweetheart. Your man still wants me. Melissa, you can do better.

Okay, so she's saying that all these months that you're saying in this 10-month period that you weren't together, Kimberly's confirming that you were together.

Kimberly's not telling the truth.

Okay, all right, well I think it's time to lock the phone. All right, Melissa, we unlocked your phone. My Unlock the Phone. Okay. Abdul, you wanna know if Melissa is talking to any other men. Melissa says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her calls and found that Melissa is telling the truth. Abdul, you wanna know if Melissa is texting with any other men. Melissa says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her texts, both in her phone and also deleted that were in the cloud. And found that Melissa is telling the truth. Told you. Abdul, you wanna know if Melissa's communicating with any other men. Melissa says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched their apps and found that Melissa is telling the truth. Well, technically we're not sure because Melissa, we did find two dating apps on your phone. One which you logged into a month ago.

Which one?

Tinder and Facebook Dating. Oh, those?

Well, the Tinder, me and him were trying to spice our relationship up, so I did go and download that and we never went and activated it.

Got it, okay. Got it, perfect. Okay, do you know about that?

No, it wasn't that app.

Yeah, we had about 3 of 'em. We had about 3 of 'em.

Okay, okay, well, from what we can tell, you haven't been doing anything. We've checked old messages, old, old photos, everything, and we didn't see anything that would be anything suspicious. The only thing we saw that was suspicious was that, and it sounds like you both knew about downloading an app together. Well, Abdul, we unlocked your phone. All right, Melissa, you want to know if Abdul has been receiving any photos of other women. Abdul says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his photos and found he's telling the truth. Melissa, you wanna know if Abdul is talking to any other women. Abdul says he's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his texts and found that Abdul is not telling the truth. There were 564 texts between Abdul and 2 different women. Melissa, you wanna know if Abdul is talking to Kimberly. Abdul says he's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his phone and found that Abdul is not telling the truth. We found 8,228 times that they communicated and called each other. And 9 days ago, 9, 9, he said, "I love you." Can I see the evidence bag? Oh, you and Kimberly, y'all both trifling. Y'all both trifling. Abdul, you know you and Kimberly both trifling, right? No, you gotta know y'all both trifling. You trifling.

You can have your opinion.

That's not an opinion, that's a fact. So these are messages between y'all. Missed call from K. This bitch, call me back, what's good? Okay, don't give up just yet. I still wanna be a good friend. Just understand. Okay, this is, okay, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, y'all are communicating. Mm-hmm. Y'all text a lot. Have a good night, baby. Okay. There's another missed call.

So all those times that I tried to call you, that's why you weren't picking up?

No, I assure you that wasn't the reason.

Do you got kids? Melissa, you have kids?

Yeah.

Yeah, she makes reference to like, I guess him being a stepdaddy, that her being a stepmama. That's trifling. Okay.

Who's stepmother?

Kimberly was saying that she'd be a stepmother. Okay, I'm good on you. Still love you, scandalous bitch. That's how you communicate with Kimberly? I still love you? That's 121. I love you. Still love you. Still love you. Still love you.

What's wrong with being sarcastic?

That's not sarcasm. You get mad because I take coffee. So maybe love, yeah, could have been sarcasm, but still is a definitive statement followed by what is definitive?

You can dissect it how you wanna dissect it, but that doesn't mean your opinion is right.

My opinion is right.

Okay.

That y'all both try for it. Like there's no doubt of this. Y'all over here doing stuff. Y'all both came on this show, try for this stuff. Okay. I'm shocked. I'm shocked. Melissa, sister. Okay, he's gotten in your head. He's gotten in your heart. You said earlier that you wanna see, you see the potential in him. None of us see it, but I know you said you see it. But there is nothing here that you can do to fix this man, to change this man. This man is who he is, and this man has clearly shown you that the person he's choosing is Kimberly. He does not want you. And if nobody has ripped that bandaid off and told you, and as hard as that to hear, he wants her.

She can have you. I already told you, I'm not playing second best to none.

Are you ready to leave this man?

I have to. I have to. You could have been honest.

He's not planning on it.

I told you.

He won't be. He won't be. And the smug look on his face lets me know that you never will be. 'Cause he thinks you gonna go right back home and fall into it. And girl, don't prove him right. Prove yourself right, okay? And when you walk off this stage, the only thing I want you to remind yourself is that he trifling, she trifling, and you don't need to be around none of them trifling people. That's right. I wish you the best of luck. I'm gonna have my producers reach out to you and keep up with you. And I'm hoping the next time we reach out to you that you say, "I have left him." And I'm gonna see you healing. I'm gonna say, "You know what? You fine, girl. Let me hook you up." That's what I want our update to be, okay?