Are You Inviting Men Over While I'm At Work? | KARAMO

All right, so Brandon, you gotta tell me, why do you believe your girl Regina has been inviting men to your house?

Look, Karamo, I've found messages to several different males.

Oh, wow.

Saying, oh, you can come over, wait 'til he goes back to lunch. All of her friends on her social media accounts are males. She's always posting pictures that I'm never getting. You know what I mean? So, I mean, she's not looking for me.

What do you mean by she's posting pictures you don't get?

Yeah, she's not personally sending me these pictures.

Yeah, but are they seductive photos?

I wouldn't say seductive, but you know what I mean? So just suggestive.

Got it, okay. So my producer told me that you tried to catch Regina cheating one time.

Several times, yes. I'd show up, come home from work early and things of that nature. Just a lot of inconsistencies in stories, things that were supposed to be done that weren't done. Just unaccounted for time.

Like what? What things were supposed to be done that weren't done?

You know, just things around the house, you know, things that needed to be done. You know, just, I'm a sole provider, you know, I go to work every day. You know, I just wanna make sure that my front door ain't looking like the QuikTrip, you know, so.

Okay, okay, I hear you. Yeah, if that's the agreement you two have made, I hear you, I hear you. But my question is, you also said unaccounted for time. What do you mean by that? Like, does she just go missing for hours at a time?

Well, there was a weekend in particular where $200 went missing from my stash, stache, and she disappeared for the weekend.

Oh wow. And what did she say when she came back?

Oh, that she was just at her mom's. I showed up at her mom's and she wasn't there.

Oh wow, okay. And what else has Regina done?

So she was working one time, I showed up early to pick her up from work, an hour early, just on a hunch or whatever. I pull in and here comes this lowrider pulling and cutting me off in front of me. Out she jumps. So I start blazing on my horn, honk, honk, you know, what's up? Letting her know I seen her. And car pulls off, she jumps in, tries to kiss me, you know, be all like nothing happened. It's like, I just seen you with two guys, you know, what's up?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. So is that the reason you don't trust Regina, because of that incident, or is there other?

There's a lot of other reasons, but that would be the main one, you know, the proof in the pudding.

I would say this to any woman on my show, and I'm gonna do the same for a man. You see all these red flags, why you staying?

'Cause I think I'm Bob Ross. I try to turn red flags into pretty little trees.

Got it, okay. So you turn the red flags green, as I tell people. Yeah. Okay. So what do you have to say about what Brandon just said? I know you were listening to it.

It's all bullshit. I love this man. I've been about him since day one. I still wanna be with him. I want a future with him and I love him a lot.

So he's telling me that he saw you with his own eyes get out of a lowrider with two guys. Who are those guys?

That was a friend.

Okay.

A friend that I introduced him to. Yes, I introduced you to him. Like, really? I told you to follow the car when I got into the truck. If I would've, if I was cheating on you, Brandon, with this friend that was in the lowrider, I would've never got off the lowrider. I would've told him to take off.

That wasn't a friend driving the car. That was a friend driving the car.

A friend in the car. You said there's two males. A friend in the car.

A friend and a friend?

Whatever you say, but it was a friend. It was a friend, so.

Hmm, okay. That sound a little fishy to me too. I can't lie. Okay, it didn't make sense. I can't lie, it didn't make sense to me.

Well, look.

It wouldn't add up. 'Cause I was trying to go with it. I'm like, okay, the friend of the friend, but hold on.

The friend, okay, so.

But why were you, if your man, if you told him to follow behind, why weren't you just in his car?

'Cause he picked me up and took me to the store.

Okay, the friend in the lowrider picked you up, took you to the store. Yes. Okay.

And he didn't want to drive.

So you were at home with your man and then got into a car with another guy that's your friend? Friend. Is that what I'm hearing?

Well, it's, yeah, but the main point is that it's a friend that I introduced him to. So he knew about this friend.

Okay, okay, okay. I'm just trying to get the facts, that's all. This is not judgment. I'm just trying to put timelines together. So why did you deactivate your Facebook account?

To prove to him that I don't care about social media. Like, I don't care about giving my attention to anybody else but him. Like, I don't need social media. Like, that's all.

There's a difference in deactivating it and then just turning it off, you know what I mean? Like, you could delete your account and you could deactivate it so you could get on whenever you want, you know what I mean?

Okay, but I was never on it. I got back on it this last, what, before my birthday when you threw me out is when I got on it.

Why did you two separate? Why did he throw you out?

Well, we're still together, but we're not living together anymore.

Okay, why, what happened?

Because he's just sitting here accusing me of cheating on him and of me not doing what I'm supposed to be doing. And I don't know what else to do. Like I don't know what else to say, what to do to prove to him that there's nobody else. Has there been anybody else but him?

I gotta ask you directly, are you cheating?

No.

Okay, not cheating at all?

No.

And when was the last time you two were intimate?

Last night.

Last night.

He wasn't, yeah, he was in my hotel room.

Okay. I saw that smile, so you like a little bit this toxic behavior. He does. You can say it, he does.

Yeah, he does.

He likes a little bit of toxic. Listen, I can pick up on people's characteristics, body energy, body language all the time. And I saw when she said that, you started smiling. So when things are a little messy, You enjoy it a little bit.

I mean, it's exciting, I guess, yeah.

Okay. I just don't get it. Okay, so he sits here and tells me that he loves me, wants to be with me, but at the same time he's accusing me of this. If he's sitting here accusing me, then why do you sit here and tell me you love me and you want and you care about me so much? Like, why don't you just leave me?

Well, that's the truth. So why are you?

Because I do love her, I do care for her, I do wanna build a future with her, you know?

So why accuse me of cheating on you and doing all this stuff. You know what, Karamo, can you just unlock my phone? Proof to him that I ain't cheating on him.

Let's get to it. Let's unlock your phone. All right, so Brandon wants to know if Regina has been communicating with any other men. She says she's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found that she is telling the truth. Brandon, you want to know if Regina was direct messaging with other men. Regina says she's not. She's telling the truth. Brandon, you want to know if Regina has been sending or receiving money from other men. She says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her apps and found she is telling the truth.

Now what, Brandon?

Hold on, I'm just getting some information right now that my producers are telling me Did you control her phone?

He does. When he's mad at me, he turns off my phone and then I have to beg for him to turn it back on.

Hold on, so do you control her phone?

So we share an account, yes. Yes, we share an account.

So you share an account with her?

Mm-hmm.

So you have access to her phone already?

Yeah.

So why do you have me unlock it?

No, so yeah, you're right, you're right. And I could, and I could very well go through and look through her text messages if I really, really, really, really wanted to.

So why don't you, so the kids—

I just, I don't know, like there's just, there's a line, you know, where I feel like a creep and where, you know what I mean? Like—

I'm sorry, my producers are communicating with me right now and they're telling me you turned her phone on so she could even talk to my producers? Yeah. What's going on there?

Well, look, man, so I pay like almost $300 a month for this phone bill and I'm old school, you know, I don't mind taking care of my lady and all that, you know, as long as she's holding down the fort and doing everything that she's supposed to do.

What's crazy is I wake up at 4 in the morning, I make him hot lunch every day, I make sure the house is cleaned, and that's why I don't know, I don't know what else to do.

Regina, do you trust him?

No.

No, no.

Because—

No, he's smiling again.

Because—

He's smiling again.

Because when we fight and—

What you smiling about, Brandon? What you smiling about?

Because when we fight and we argue, he thinks it's okay to go hit up other girls on social media and kick it with them and talk to them, and because we're fighting, But have I ever done that to him? No, because I, my attitude's different.

So are you talking to other women on social media?

No.

No, okay. Okay. Do you think that he's cheating on you?

Yeah, I do.

You do, okay. With who?

His ex-girlfriend.

You think he's cheating on you with his ex-girlfriend?

His ex-fiancée.

With his ex-fiancée, why do you think that?

Because I've seen his truck outside parked outside her apartment one time.

Wow. Is this true? Have you been still communicating with your ex?

Do you know how many white Dodge Rams there are?

No, I know exactly what yours looks like, so be quiet.

Uh-huh, okay. So you're saying you don't go and hang out with your ex?

No.

No. You're lying.

And has this been an issue since day one and since y'all been together for this year?

August is when I've noticed that. The accuser is the one who's doing it, so.

I asked you already, but I wanna be clear. Do you still communicate with your ex?

No.

Not at all, not at all. Okay then. So you're, so, oh, well I'm getting a ping. They're telling me the ping is from your ex-fiancée. Leticia sent us a message. Okay, let's hear what she has to say.

Hey, my name is Leticia. I'm just calling to try to give you guys the tea on what's going on. Brandon and I were engaged last year, didn't work out. We did end up getting back together a couple weeks ago and trying to work our own things. And just so Regina knows, she was the bandaid the whole time. He was still seeing me while being with her. He never gave a flying fuck about her. And I just need her to back up and stay away.

So she's saying that you two are still in communication and that you hooked up. How long ago did she just say? I couldn't hear it. Okay, listen, this is why I love y'all. Y'all got the facts to me. For all this, like, 2 weeks. I appreciate y'all. 2 weeks. Regina, what's your thoughts on that?

He could keep her. He could have her.

Yeah.

I'm done.

Brandon, is any of this true? Is any of this true? Is any of this true?

You know, after we split up, yeah, I talked to her. I talked to her. I ain't gonna lie, after we separated.

Okay, so you have talked to her? Yeah. Okay.

But not when we were together. Not when we were together.

I know, I can see your heart is broken right now.

It's crazy 'cause he sat here and accused me of doing it. I'm done, Brendan. I am so done.

Hold on, so Regina, we did unlock his phone. It is time to unlock your phone. Are you ready for this?

Let's go.

Regina, you want to know if he was on any dating apps. Brandon told us that he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his apps and found that he is telling the truth. He is not on dating apps. Regina, you want to know if he was communicating with his ex-fiancée, the one who we just saw on that ping. When you were in jail in October? Brandon says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his calls and found that he is not telling the truth. We found 193 calls between Brandon and someone named Wishy Washy. So my investigator cross-referenced the number, his ex-fiancée, and the number with Wishy Washy, and it is the same person. And they have been communicating from October all the way up until yesterday when you two were together. Regina, you want to know if Brandon is meeting up with his ex-fiancée. Brandon says he's not. And my Unlock the Phone investigator searched his GPS and found that he is not telling the truth. Brandon was pinged 36 times at his ex-fiancée's address. And also there was photos pinged from inside of her home. Brandon, why did you want Regina to prove her loyalty when you clearly were the one that was cheating? What was your point today?

You know, I guess I don't know. I don't know the point.

If you knew you were trying to have this wishy-washy relationship, this is what you labeled the woman in your phone, wishy-washy, which means wishy-washy means you're going back and forth, back and forth. If you knew you wanted to go back and forth with this woman, why involve her and her children?

You know, that wasn't my intentions. That wasn't my intentions.

Let me tell you something. I teach on this show a million times, intention versus impact. Might not have been your intentions, but the impact is I see a woman here who's affected deeply by this and whose children have now had to spend a year looking at you as potentially as a father figure who are now who gonna have to grieve you not being in their lives because you disrespected their mother. Regina, what do you wanna say to him?

Nothing.

Are you gonna have the courage to leave him? Yeah. Do you wanna apologize to her before she leaves you?

Yeah, I do.

What do you wanna say?

I never meant for any of this to happen. This wasn't my intentions, you know?

I wanted to be with you always. Okay, I'm gonna ask you to do this for me because she deserves better than that. Don't say I didn't mean to. Don't say I didn't mean to because when you did, every time you picked up the call 109 times you meant to. Every time you took 36 photos in that woman's house, you meant to. So don't say I didn't mean to. You meant to. You might not have meant to got caught, but you meant to. So give her an apology that's genuine. I'm sorry that I hurt you.

And you know damn well I'm sorry. I never meant to hurt you. Things got messed up, things got lost in translation. However you wanna look at it, you know, we both gotta take accountability responsibility for our actions here.

It doesn't matter. If you fucking loved me and you cared about me, Brandon, you would've never went back to her. Regardless if we would've fought and argued, you would've never called her up. You never called her. I don't care about her.

You don't mean you don't care about her.

I promise you, I don't care about her.

You can't trust this at all because if a man's gonna be intimate with you while also communicating with another woman, his motives are never to be trusted, okay? Listen, I'm sorry and I wish you the best of luck and I wish you all the strength you have in you. To make a better decision for yourself and for your children. And I hope you do relieve this. And sir? Yeah. Good day. Don't do it no more. Don't do it. Be better. Be better. You lost a good one.