Karamo tells a listener that childhood instability and lack of boundaries left deep wounds she's been hiding behind labels like "firecracker." He says she needs to ask her mother to show up and be present so the healing can actually start.
You have a lot of anger in you and you have a lot of sadness in you from the choices that were made and the positions you were put in as a little girl. You need to start practicing and figuring out is how to heal this relationship with your mom. Because the thing is, is that there's still a little girl here that everyone has labeled a firecracker. Everyone has seen the choices you made and they've labeled you this and have forgotten that you are a little girl who saw horrible things, who experienced a lack of stability, who experienced not having the structure and boundaries that you deserved as a little girl, and as direct result has turned you into a woman that now people have labeled you certain ways. And so what I encourage you to do is when you get home, ask your mother to show up for you. Say, I need you to show up for me and I need you to really be here because I can't start healing until you start to help me heal.
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