One partner wants to be heard, the other wants to be seen. Saying it out loud cuts the confusion. Act like you want their affection and mean it.
The thing is, is that you wanna be heard and she wants to be seen. That's the clear, that's the basis of it. That is the base of this. Say to your wife, "I wanna be heard." I wanna be heard. Say to your husband, "I wanna be seen." I wanna be seen.
So we can be heard and be seen together without it being friction.
You see how, you see this? Mm-hmm. Yeah. Remember how big I was? Yeah, I remember. Who wouldn't want this? I never said I didn't want it.
I never said I didn't want it.
Act like you want it, babe.
So this is what she wants. When she just stood up over there, that wasn't about sex. You said, "Yeah, who wouldn't want it?" What she wants you to say is, "You look sexy." That's what she wants. So like I said, you wanna be heard, she wants to be seen. So if you would've said right there, "You look sexy, you look beautiful." You get it now? You get it, you got it.
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