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Be honest about your feelings #KaramoShow

1 Apr 2025 · 1 min

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In this excerpt from The Karamo Show, host Karamo advises a guest (Speaker B) on the importance of being honest about sexual desires and feelings within a relationship. Karamo argues that open, sincere communication about libido and fantasies can be a turn‑on for a partner, provided it is not obsessive or overwhelming. He encourages the guest to include the partner in conversations about sexual wants, to ask for consent to discuss future sexual possibilities, and to maintain a balance between openness and respect for boundaries. The guest then shifts to discuss a separate relational challenge: supporting a boyfriend who has significant trauma and low self‑belief. She acknowledges her limits as a non‑psychologist and expresses frustration at being unable to help him fully. Karamo validates her struggle and reinforces the value of seeking professional help, highlighting the need to recognize when personal support is insufficient. The segment blends practical relationship advice with empathy for mental‑health struggles, emphasizing honest dialogue, consent, and appropriate boundaries.

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If you really love somebody and you're saying that you love sex, you have a high libido, maybe there's new conversations that could be had. And I think that sometimes as men, you've been saying, there's a fear of like, let me open up sexually. But what you don't realize is that when you can open up honestly about what you're feeling, that's actually gonna be more a turn-on to her. Because now, am I lying?
No, no, that's what I told him. I wanted our intimacy to grow elsewhere. And then I was thinking the sex would go to the side and everything would be perfect.
You see, so I'm giving you a tip here. The more you can be honest about what you're feeling versus doing it on the side and being on your computer and chatting with these girls, the more you can say to her like, oh my gosh, I've had this desire, I'm thinking of this, include her. And I don't mean nothing obsessive 'cause she don't wanna hear about this 24/7, okay? And I know that as men, sometimes we can get obsessive in that lane. But when she's talking to you, open up about it, talk to her about it. And then she's saying right now she's willing to have a conversation about what sex can look like. Going forward? Talk to your woman. Say, are you willing to have that conversation? So you're willing to have that conversation?
You know I am, yes. Absolutely. I don't wanna give up on you. Believe me, I wish I could, but I can't. I just cannot for some reason give up on him because I know that he's got so much potential, so many skills, and God gave him more talent, you know, more things than most people get, you know, to start this world with. He just needs to believe it, and he don't believe in himself. And I know it's coming from a place that he didn't mean to happen. He's had a lot of trauma in his life. He just needs some help to guide it. And I thought I was special enough to make that happen. Well, I can't be a psychologist and his girlfriend, evidently. And I tried.
Well, that's why I'm glad you came here.