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Be silent and stay grounded #KaramoShow

3 Mar 2026 · 1 min

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In this short counseling‑style excerpt from the Karamo Show, Speaker A confronts Speaker B about staying in a relationship where the partner has physically abused her by spitting in her face twice. Speaker A challenges Speaker B’s definition of love, emphasizing that love is not enduring abuse. She points out that it is not Speaker B’s responsibility to understand why the partner behaves this way; instead, Speaker B must focus on protecting herself. The core advice given is to "dismantle this relationship and walk away," to be silent, and to stay grounded—steps meant to help Speaker B regain self‑respect, mental stability, and a stress‑free life free from a "crazy‑ass man." The exchange is brief, direct, and aimed at empowering the listener to leave an abusive situation.

You have to leave him alone. You have to leave him alone. And I know I asked you earlier and you said because of love. I don't know where in your life you'd found out or decided that that's the definition of love.
It's not, it's not. I know that. I know before when we, before I knew, when I knew him a while ago, he was part, the first year we started this second time around, it was great. Then I don't know what happened.
It's not your job to know what happened.
No, but it's, it's, it's, I wanna help, I try to be the better person and try to help him, but I just, I'm making it worse.
The better person is for you to help yourself. Hear me out. It's for you to help yourself. Because what he displayed here, this is key, this is key. I also heard you say, and let's be real about this, when you got to his face, you said that he spits on you.
Yeah, he spit in my face twice.
You deserve more than this. Dismantle this relationship and walk away. Be silent and feel yourself being grounded. If you can do those two things, you can walk away from the situation with your head held high and get that life you want where you are stress-free with no crazy-ass man around you, okay? Mm-hmm.