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18 Jan 2026 · 2 min

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In this excerpt from the Karamo Show, Speaker A addresses a young Black man who has been in a three‑year, on‑and‑off relationship that the speaker characterizes as unhealthy and dishonest. The speaker interprets the man's plea for divine guidance as a prayer that has already been answered, indicating that the man has been “saved” from staying with a woman who cannot be honest. The monologue urges the man to make a clear, decisive break, emphasizing the need for distance and separation. While acknowledging the man's role as a good person and a father, the speaker clarifies that the man is not responsible for a child involved in the situation, especially given the mother’s lack of responsibility for herself. The speaker repeatedly warns that the woman will “drag you down,” and stresses that the audience can see the toxicity. The overall tone is exhortatory, pastoral, and supportive, aiming to empower the listener to choose freedom over a harmful partnership.

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This is a critical moment for you as a young Black man, okay? You have been in a relationship that's been unhealthy with her for off and on for 3 years. But what we have just confirmed, I heard you say something right there and I sometimes, people don't realize the prayers that they're asking for, that they are granted. You just said, "Please let this be what it needs to be, God." And what it is is that you have gotten saved from being in a relationship with a woman who cannot be honest with you, okay? You're right. You have the opportunity. 'Cause I just heard from her, she clearly knows you're a good man, that you're a father. And see what happens when girls like that do things like this, they can ruin a good man. And so before you get hurt by her, I need you to make a decision and be clear about that decision. That you have been blessed with the opportunity to be free from this situation. You okay? You understand? I see what you're saying. That young man, that little baby, I wish that he could have had you as a father, but you are not his father. But right now there needs to be some distance and separation, Clearly she is not making honest choices about her life. You said it right when you said, what else are you lying about? And I can promise you, if she lying about these two things that are big, oh, she gonna lie about the smallest thing. You can be in the child's life, but I want you to understand that you do not have responsibility for this child, especially when the mother doesn't have responsibility for her own self. Okay. Okay? Okay. This is the type of woman who would drag you down. This is the type of woman who would drag you down. She will drag you down. You hear all them yeses? Everybody in here sees it and feels it.