Boyfriend Checks Dirty Laundry For Cheating Proof đź‘€ | KARAMO

Karamo mediates between Keyonna and her boyfriend Louis, who obsessively searches her clothes and belongings for cheating evidence. An investigator finds 84 deleted messages between Keyonna and an ex from three months ago. Keyonna ends the relationship, saying she can't endure the constant accusations.
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I'm Puerto Rican and I usually never date Spanish women. Growing up, I seen them lying, I seen them cheating. Funny enough, my girlfriend Kiana is Spanish and she's been cheating on me with an ex. One of my ex-girlfriends, she would put her hands on me because I would catch her cheating and, you know, that was her defense. So trust me, I do know the signs of a cheater and I'm starting to see the signs in Kiana. I've seen clothes that look like they have, you know, sex stains on them. I found like letters on the mirror. Every time I come home, there's a car that leaves. There's always the same car that's right around the corner. There's too many signs.
We gotta talk about what he just said on that tape. You are a Latin woman and he just said, "I don't date Latin women," sort of as if he's putting you down. How does that make you feel when you hear that on the tape?
Horrible. Really horrible.
Yeah.
'Cause it's all lies.
All of it's lies?
All of it.
What's your point of view?
My point of view, he's just paranoid. He's delusional. The fact that he's using his past in our relationship because of one instance of one ex trying to get back into my life, that has nothing to do with it. The fact that he says he sees things, yeah, he's delusional. He's crazy.
So why are you with him if you feel like he's being delusional and crazy?
Because when I first met him, it was literally like all sparks. Like it was, we had such a connection and we were together 24/7.
How long y'all been together?
Like almost 6 months to a year now.
So 6 months to a year, okay. What does he do to try to catch you cheating?
He tries to set stuff up. He will literally come home and he'll go straight to the bathroom looking at the wet towels. He'll go through my clothes, he'll pick up my clothes and start smelling them. He'll go through the bed and start going through the bed, start looking through stains, through the blankets, the pillows, everything.
Okay, he's checking wet towels because he's trying to see if you showered before you got home. He's checking, smelling your clothes.
And not even clothes, my underwear. Yeah.
What does he think he's gonna find in your underwear?
I don't know, smell something, look at the, I don't know what he's trying to find.
Okay, how do you feel when he smells your clothes?
I feel disgusted in myself.
Yeah, how do you feel when he accuses you?
I can't even really put it into words.
Yeah.
It makes me feel like I'm literally crazy.
Yeah. So I gotta ask you directly because I hear his side of this, but I gotta ask you directly, are you cheating?
No, I'm not.
Okay. I can't imagine what it's like for a young woman to come home and have somebody sleep in your own bed.
And I don't even come home 'cause I stay home 24/7. He's the one that leaves to go to his buddies to outside of the house or goes to work and comes home and thinks I'm cheating. So you're at home all the time? I'm home 24/7. Got it. And if I'm not home, I'm with my mom, whom he thinks I'm cheating with.
So it's anything you do?
Anything I do.
He assumes? Anything. Has this been since day one?
Since day one, since it all started.
Got it. So tell me about the stop sign when he tracks you.
Where we're at our job, there's a stoplight. Our street that he says I'm at, it's right there at the light. So if I'm stopped at traffic at the light, I'm stopped there for more than a couple seconds to a minute or two, it's going to read that I'm at that street. It's the same thing with the hotel. In order for me to get to the highway where it's right there off that street, there's a hotel right there. I have to stop at that stop sign again.
And so because you're at a stop sign and because there's a hotel in the vicinity, he's assuming—
Yep, that I'm at that hotel.
But the location is not pinging you there for like hours.
Nope.
It's pinging you there for like—
Yep.
A second or two?
Yep.
All right, there's a lot to unpack here. I've been taking notes. There's so much going on here. Oh yeah. I think it's time to meet Louis and hear his side of the story as well. So everyone, please welcome Louis to the show. So why do you think she's cheating?
I found stains on my clothes. You know, she says it's from us, but why would I, you know, why would I purposely? Yeah, I don't think I'm that crazy. Riddle me this, why would I get a sweater, stain it up, and then hang it up for me to come home after?
And in another situation, why the hell would I do that?
I don't know.
If I brought another dude to the house, why would I do that to your clothes?
See, the thing is, I'm not saying—
If I was cheating, why would I still have you in my house?
I didn't say that you was the one that put it because you wouldn't be that stupid. But somebody that wants to get rid of me would. Another person. But I'm not bringing a demon to the house and I'm telling you that. So who is it?
So if you feel like somebody is there, then why are you with her?
You said earlier that I was putting her down because I'm not attracted to Spanish women.
Don't use their past against them. Those were your words, not mine.
Yeah, no, no, it's absolutely true. It wasn't me trying to put her down. It was actually like a surprise to me 'cause me being Spanish myself, like I couldn't—
Oh, a surprise, a surprise? The only reason I basically think you fucking say that is because you wanna talk shit and fucking Spanish.
Spanish.
And these black girls you dated don't know Spanish. Right, right. But me as a Latina, yolo. Yolo hablo ellentiendo. No, no, no.
It has nothing to do with that.
She asked you. You understand Spanish? Because I understand Spanish. Okay, so you understand everything she just said Understood everything. So was the woman that broke your heart Latina?
No.
So where did you get this sort of idea to sort of generalize?
All because his mama's Latina and he hates her. So he's trying to put on all Latinas are crazy And liars and cheaters. No, no, no.
See, I never said that all Latinas were liars and cheaters. It just wasn't my type. Every man has his type, but something attracted me to you and that's why I stood around.
So if something that you never felt before, why are you getting into this habit of accusing her?
It's a story that she brought on. It was a weird—
I brought it on?
Yes, you brought it.
How the hell did I bring this on?
You're the one who brought him up.
I didn't bring him up. He's the one that brought into our life and came up into this and you didn't let me do what I wanted to and behind my back you took his number, started texting him.
I'm sure he started texting you. For clarification, my producer is telling me there was a past situation that involved themselves in their relationship and it's now caused more confusion. So we can't go into that in detail, but it's good for you just to have that context of what they're talking about. It's not that you've cheated, there's just someone who has inserted themselves. So what will unlocking her phone prove to you today?
Just to see if, What do you mean nothing? There has to be something that I'm missing because—
You went through it 1,000 times. What did they, can they find that you haven't seen already?
And every single time that I go through it, I find something.
I don't know how.
What is it that you think we'll find? And what are you finding each time?
So each time that I find a GPS tracker, a message, a deleted, there's always something.
Okay.
See, the thing is, as the more and more that I went on the phone, the more and more good she got with The deleting and the deleting. Yeah, because you keep deleting.
You start looking for something, you actually find it.
She said you check her clothes and underwear. You check her underwear?
Mm-hmm.
I don't wanna have to do that. I know it's weird. I know it's just weird.
You literally come home straight to go into the bathroom, start going through the dirty clothes, go into the bedroom. Oh, let me pick up these clothes. Oh, let me see. Oh, this perfume wasn't there before. Oh, that wasn't there before. Oh, what were you doing? Because you came home early, 'cause that's not, that was not the time I was expecting you, 'cause I know your time as well. You wanna say that you're a manager, whatever.
Trust me, I know you know the time.
So she's saying in a normal relationship, you come in and you immediately go to clothes and underwear?
See, it just, this is recently. It's just recently.
It was not recently, this was the beginning. It is not just recently. It has been happening for a long time now.
It recently started happening.
It did not recently start happening.
Once I started finding the colognes. Sure. The writing on the wall. When I say writing on the wall, I mean literally writing on the wall. So it's like.
Apparently there's a hair that was on top of the ceiling in the bathroom that, oh, because I'm small, I can't reach up there, so it must have been another dude or something.
Well, that's another guy's hair and it's up there.
It was another guy's hair. Okay, sure. It was a long strand of brown hair and it was curly like mine.
So because you saw a hair on the bathroom wall, you assumed it was another guy's hair.
Yeah, in the ceiling. And he was like, oh, well you can't reach up there, so it couldn't have been you.
What was it? What was this writing?
So I found letters, initials on the wall, in the room wall.
Okay.
Literally spelling on the walls. It's basically what's going on here is like—
So you think that her other, if there is some other guy, you think that he is sending you secret messages?
Purposely, purposely. No, absolutely. Okay, okay.
But I'm the crazy one, I'm cheating.
Well, I think it's time to unlock the phones right now.
Right?
I have a question for you, Luis. Why are you so tense that you haven't been able to sit down?
I'm not tense at all. It hurts my feelings 'cause at the end of the day, I don't wanna be the boyfriend that keeps accusing her.
And I don't wanna be the girlfriend that keeps getting accused every second of the day, 24/7.
Well, stop giving me a reason to accuse you.
Why do you have to put that on me?
Stop giving me a reason to accuse you.
I'm not giving you a reason though. I haven't done nothing. I lost my phone. I almost lost my car because of you. I lost my job. I went through 2 months with no electricity in my house and everything. I lost the bond that I had with my mother because I'm with you 24/7.
All right, so listen, well, it sounds like it's time for us to unlock this phone and get to answers. I mean, Luis, you want to know if Keyonna was using two apps to communicate with her exes. You want to know her browser history because you suspect she is selling nudes. And you also want to know—
I'm selling them.
I'm selling them. And you also wanna know if Keyonna was talking to an ex. Those are the things you wanna know, correct? All right, well listen, We unlocked the phone and we have the answers to your questions. Before I unlock this phone, is there anything you have to say?
No.
No?
Unlock it. All right, we unlocked your phone, Keyonna, and Louis wanted to know if there were two texting apps. My unlock the phone investigator searched through your apps and Keyonna, you are telling the truth. There are none on your phone. Luis wanted to know your browser history. My unlock the phone investigators searched your phone and only found shopping apps. That's it. No other apps. Luis, you also want to know if Kiana was talking to an ex. My unlock the phone investigator searched Keyonna's text and Keyonna's not telling the truth. He found 84 deleted messages between the two of them from 3 months ago.
But he already knows about those messages because those messages are what started all of this.
No, I don't.
With him coming into our relationship saying, oh, it's been 2 months.
Yeah.
I'm the crazy one, right? Everybody was laughing at me, but I'm the crazy one, right?
Don't let the pretty face fool you. Yeah, walk away. Walk away. Those are the messages he's talking about that he swear to God, Daire, he doesn't know about.
Got it.
And you wanna get mad and walk out? No, the hell no.
Let me be clear in those messages just to make sure. The 84 messages that were deleted between you two, you were not engaging in anything with those.
I wasn't. I was trying to get information off the dude to who he was.
I wanna be very clear.
Thank you.
I wanna be very clear. But there's a bigger issue here.
Yes.
And you know it.
Oh yes. He can't let his past get to him because he's been cheated nonstop by his exes.
And that is going to come into this no matter what.
Yep.
I know it started fresh and it was fun in the beginning, but my advice to you is that you gotta get out of this now.
Oh, I'm trying. I'm trying 'cause I cannot keep doing this. I really can't. I really can't. But you gotta make— It's taking a toll on me. It's making me feel like I'm less of a woman, like I'm crazy.
I can tell that.
And his social media, 2 days ago before coming here, he wrote that he's single.
Got it. You need to officially end this.
Yes. And you then, correct? Oh yes, and I've tried a thousand times and I've tried.
You hear this audience? You need to officially end this. And there's no trying, there's only—
I'm doing it.
There's doing.
'Cause I love him. I really, really, really do love him. I see us being together, having a few, we've talked about kids, being married and everything.
But you know, if you brought a kid in this situation, it would only get worse.
Oh yeah.
As much as we're hearing about his background, and the fact that he's been cheated on, there's something that's going on in your background that's making you feel like this behavior is okay for him to come in the house and do this. And so you need to go dive into that for yourself because there's some past relationship that has informed your self-esteem to making you believe that this is what you do. I believe you are. I believe you are. I believe you are, sincerely, because I see the passion of you trying to prove yourself. But what I need you to know as a woman, you don't need to prove yourself.
Oh, I'm done defending myself.
You want me to bring him out here so you can break up?
Yes.
Can we bring him back out? All right, I asked you to come back out because I wanna acknowledge, I understand that your past is affecting deeply the way that you're engaging in relationships and the way you're engaging in relationships are unhealthy. This is not a relationship that either of you deserve. There's a lot of healing you need to do when it comes to trusting women and figuring out how to talk to women. Okay? She has accepted my advice. So I want you to know that this advice is us having a communication about where she's at and where she deserves to be. What would you like to say to him?
I can't keep doing this. I really can't. The trust issues, cheating, just accusing 24/7. Even deep down, you know this can't go on. You don't want this, so you and I are done. Today, right now, we're over.
She said it's over. Can you accept that?
I said that's fine.
Yeah, you said you were single 2 days ago before coming on the show, so make it.
You gotta stick to this because neither of y'all can work on this. I truly wish both of you the best of luck. Really, I do. Good luck, all right? Thank you. Do you love the Karamo Show? Yes! Well, we're back for season 2. So make sure to subscribe to the Karamo Show.
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