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Calling a spade a spade #KaramoShow

23 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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In this brief exchange from the Karamo Show, Speaker A claims that her partner is gaslighting her, describing how his behavior makes her feel destabilized and dependent. Speaker B challenges this narrative, asserting that the perceived gaslighting is actually self‑gaslighting. B reframes the situation by emphasizing personal responsibility and empowerment, urging A to view herself as her own security. Using a home‑building metaphor, B advises A to construct emotional boundaries—symbolized as a table and a locked door—so that the partner can no longer access her vulnerability. The tone is confrontational yet therapeutic, aiming to shift the listener from victimhood to self‑reliance.

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All he does is gaslight me. He riles up and then what happens is— Now hold on, let me tell you. What happens is he makes me feel like I'm messed up because I'm not waiting on you.
So I got some information for you and this might come as a shock. He is not gaslighting you. You are gaslighting yourself. Thank you. And we have to call a spade a spade here. This man has come out here and been very clear about what he wants and who he is. It is me that has been waiting, but I am my own security. That's your mantra. I was waiting for someone to come in, but I don't need to because I'm already here to secure it myself. You say that, you build up your own home. And when I say your own home, I mean this table, build this up. Feel safe and secure in this alone, he will never have a key to access you again.