Karamo explains why one sister can't receive help: her emotional wounds are like holes in a cup that let everything leak out. She's still healing, so those around her need to stop pushing and give her space instead.
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Even though it seems like a child had choices, she was still a child and her reactions were out of the same pain. I'm gonna tell you something. You ever tried to pour into a cup that has holes in it? No. No, you wouldn't. Because why? Because it'll spill out. It will spill out. So then right now you're trying to pour into a cup that has holes in it from her pain. And the thing is, you are frustrated. You are frustrated. Fed up. Fed up because you like, I'm pouring into you, I'm pouring into you. And she over here like, girl, I know I'm trying to receive as much as I can, it ain't working. Right. Y'all gotta stop the frustration on y'all end and sort of like take a relax back. And when you see her angry, realize it's like, okay, y'all are patching up y'all holes. I see it. I see the work y'all doing. She hasn't patched up the holes and so y'all trying to fill her up and she's not receiving it.