Cheating Girlfriend Caught Texting Sneaky Links! | KARAMO

You've been watching my show.

Yes, I have.

And what did you find?

Well, I just found out that, you know, on your unlock the phone episode, I seen what you were doing and how you were uncovering some things for people. However, I did uncover some stuff on my own, but I wanted to see what you can get for me, so.

Okay then. So you already confirmed your suspicion that Mykia was cheating, so why stay?

Because I genuinely love Mykia. We've been together for too long just to let it go now, and I feel like it's something that we can work on. But if you gonna keep cheating, you gotta go. I'm sorry, you gotta go.

So what were the demands that you put on Mykia after you found her cheating?

Well, I basically told Mykia, I gave her an ultimatum and I let her know like, if you're not gonna stop cheating, then I'm leaving. The ultimatum that I gave her was to basically block this man. And if you keep continuing to do it, then I'm leaving.

You're gone.

How long have y'all been together?

That's all. Me and Mykia have been together for 11 years.

11 years. Do y'all have any kids together?

I have a daughter and we share her together, yes.

Okay, so y'all have one child?

She's raising my daughter with me.

Okay, got it. You're young, for y'all to be together 11 years, this is a large part of your youth.

It is.

That y'all been spending together.

And that's partly the reason why I can't walk away. That's all I know. My kid has cheated often before and I forgave her plenty of times. So in that point in time, in her phone, I just felt like her demeanor towards me started changing and she was acting different and I didn't understand where it was coming from. And I knew that previously before when she would cheat on me or when she would be sneaking out, that's how she would be acting. So I basically decided, okay, I'm gonna do some investigating on my own. I linked myself into her iPhone, Find My iPhone, and basically was tracking where she was going. And then I also logged into her phone and found out that she was texting and talking to other people. One night we were supposed to be chilling and Netflix and chilling and she was getting a whole bunch of dings through her phone. I'm like, this don't sound like a normal Facebook or, you know, just emails being. So I'm like, who are you texting, my kid? She like, oh, this is just one of my clients. And I'm thinking, okay, it's late and we having some us time right now. What's going on? So I decided to take it upon myself while she's over there texting to log in and see exactly who she's texting. And she's texting Mr. Barbershop Man. So at this point in time, my heart is crushed. I'm broken. I'm sitting there and I'm just laying there like, how could you? Like really right up under my nose?

Yeah.

So I turns around and I'm just like, I wanna let it go for tonight. I didn't wanna start an argument with her. The next morning I went to work. I could barely even focus because I'm so concentrating on this girl's out here cheating on me.

Yeah.

Soon as I left the house, she called him.

'Cause you saw him when your phones are linked, you saw.

Exactly. Not only did she call him, but she turned around and left right after I went to work. So she met up with him.

Got it.

The whole time lying to me about where she's at, whole time she's with him. I normally call her when I'm at work. I called, she answered, but the sound of her voice sound like she was trying to sound sexy for somebody. You don't sound like that, my kid. You don't sound like that.

Yeah.

So I said, okay, what should I do? What should I do? Now I'm ready to leave work because I'm so frustrated and I'm so heartbroken. I call her and I ask her, "Where you at?" I ask her again multiple times. She still kept lying to me. She finally made it home. I called her on FaceTime. She claimed that she wasn't with this person, she wasn't with that person. I said, "You're lying to me. You're lying to me because I know." "How do you know?" "I was at home this whole time." "No, you wasn't." She didn't wanna tell me, but I knew at this point in time, a week later, that's when I end up confessing to her that I went through your phone. I went through your phone and this is what I found. And don't sit here and lie to me because I'm showing you right now. And I told her at this point in time, I'm ready to leave. I know she don't want me to leave and I don't wanna leave, but if that's what I gotta do, I'm gonna go. So from that point on, after me logging in and seeing that this specific number kept popping up and she's texting and calling this person every time I'm not around or even sometimes right up under my nose, that's when I took it upon myself to say, okay, today is the day you're not gonna be a dummy no more. Not today.

And when you confront her, what did she say to you?

She lied like she always do.

So it's constant lies.

She's an habitual liar.

Mykia handed over her phone to our investigators. What you wanted to find out is 3 things. You want to know, is she still talking to the guy she hooked up with at the barbershop, correct? You also wanna know if Mykia is meeting up with the guy from the barbershop. And you also wanna know if she's talking to any sneaky links on social media through text. Well, Janey says if today's results prove that Mykia is still cheating, the relationship, like she just said, is over. So everyone, please welcome Mykia to the show.

Yeah, bring that cheater out.

How you doing? Hi. Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you. Can I get a hug?

So you're hearing all these things. What are you feeling about that?

Well, first of all.

Are you still cheating?

I am not. And every time I did cheat, we have talked about that and she claimed to have forgotten.

Forgiving me.

But besides that, if anybody is untrustworthy, it's you.

She's lying, Karamo, because she's putting on a show.

For what reason?

You're putting on—

for what reason?

You're putting on the show.

For what reason?

You're lying.

For what reason are you even searching my phone, searching my data, doing whatever you're doing to get the information that you're getting when you could have just asked?

How did you feel about the fact that she linked your phones?

I, I felt like my privacy was invaded. It's like if you keep accusing me of doing something even when I'm not doing it, then I mean, fuck you, you accuse me, so I might as well just do what you said I did. And that's kind of how I feel with it or whatever. But also I feel like it's nothing wrong with being selfish sometimes.

You told my producers that you call yourself a self-proclaimed cheater. What do you mean by that?

I think I might have said serial cheater.

Serial cheater.

Yeah. She's a liar, she's a cheater, and she's always been that.

She says you've known that she's been a cheater, that you knew that.

No, I mean, as I told you before, yes, she has cheated in the past before, but she got herself back together only to let me down the wrong path again. I just feel like at this point in time, I've been faithful to you, and I just want you to be faithful to me as I've been to you. And if you can't do that, then I'm gone. There's too many fish in the sea, and if you ain't pulling my way, somebody else will, period.

Yeah. Are you still talking to the guy from the barbershop?

No, I'm not. Yes, she is. Yes, she is.

No, I am not.

Because after I gave her the ultimatum to stop talking to this man and block his number, she said she did, and I found her talking to him 3 months later.

Is that true?

No, that is not true.

First of all, I met that man at the barbershop, yes, and we did exchange numbers and we did—

And you would trust him to go get her haircut?

We did exchange numbers and we did have a few little conversations, but when the conversation started getting weird, I started being like, nah. You know this ain't really what I want. And not only that, not only that, I just, like I said—

I gave you 11 years of my life, there's no excuse for nothing that you have to say.

It's no excuses, that's true. It's no excuses. But we have talked about this, and my thing is, why do you claim to keep on— We already talked about all this stuff, so you claim to forgive me, but you keep bringing it up. So therefore, there's no way that we could get past this because you keep bringing it up. What's happening right now, Janay?

What's happening right now?

What's happening right now, Janaye?

Karamo, tell me what's happening. Unlock that phone. Unlock that phone. Unlock the phone.

Before we unlock this phone, Mykia, is there anything that you want Janaye to know?

No.

Okay.

A liar like she always been.

All right.

Let's go.

All right, so Janaye, you want to know, you want to find out if Mykia is still still talking to the guy she hooked up with at the barbershop. Mykia, you denied that. My unlock the phone investigator searched Mykia's texts to see if they are still talking, and she is telling the truth. She is not talking to the guy at the barbershop.

Okay.

How do you feel?

I mean, I feel good because I know I haven't done anything, so I don't have no reason to feel any type of way. I know that I've been faithful to her, so.

Mm-hmm, okay. Janey, you want to find out if Mykia is meeting up with the guy from the barbershop. Mykia denied it. My unlock the phone investigator went through Mykia's GPS to see if they've ever been together. And she is telling the truth.

I told you, I told you.

The crazy part about it is—

Why do I gotta keep, why? It's something about it that makes me feel like she's still lying. It's something about it that makes me feel like she's still lying.

Okay, we still got one more.

Okay.

Janey, you want to know if Mykia is talking to any sneaky links on social media or through text. My unlock the phone investigator went through Mykia's apps and found she is not telling the truth. We found two sneaky links that she was talking to.

So you still sitting up here lying to me? Girl, take a seat.

For what reason are you still lying to me?

For what reason are you still lying to me?

We got it. Don't put your hands on her though, but.

Oh my God.

Yeah. Well, listen, when you ask for sneaky leaks, we go off of what you're asking for. That means if there's any photos, any conversation that we're gonna find. My investigator found something. So what do you have to say?

The last time I did anything with anybody was the guy from the barbershop and we only met at the barbershop.

Okay.

But if you love me so much, for what reason would you, For what reason? Were you even talking to Mr. Barbershop Man, Mr. Sneaky Linker?

It was really just a conversation at first and then things just went sour.

So if that's who you wanted to talk to, why are you still here? Why were you here? I'm trying to figure that out.

I love you and I wanna be with you.

Are you holding onto this relationship because of your daughter?

A part of me is holding onto it because of that, but another part of me is because that's where my heart is at and I don't know how to walk away. And maybe I might need some help, but I really genuinely love Mykia and I wanna spend the rest of my life with her, but I don't want to keep being hurt.

Mykia, do you consider talking cheating?

Yeah.

So you do consider talking cheating?

I do, yeah.

So if you're just talking to somebody, it doesn't mean you slept with them, that you are acknowledging that would be cheating?

That is definitely cheating still.

Okay, great. So you got the answers you needed. So how are you feeling in this moment?

I'm feeling like it's over. I'm done. I'm done. I keep, I gotta go. I'm done.

Do you believe this is done? 'Cause I don't. 'Cause I don't believe it's done.

She been saying it for a while and at the end of the day, if this is what it, If this is what it comes to for us to break up, for her to know that I really, really wanna be with her regardless of whatever mistakes I make, then it's just gonna be what it is because my feelings is hurt just as well as her feelings is hurt.

What's hurting you emotional?

Because I really wanna be with her and I do make mistakes and I've been around serial cheaters my entire life and this is how I am. So even before I got in a relationship with her, she knew this.

But this is not how you are. This is a choice of how you're trying to be. This is a choice. Do you really want monogamy?

I'm not sure. I really don't know. I'm not sure.

That's the most honest thing that I've heard you say right now. Y'all got the truth, y'all got the information, and I actually honestly wish y'all the best of luck in truth and communication. You hear me? Thank you. Good luck to both of y'all.