To heal anger and embarrassment in a relationship, both people need to believe each other has changed and commit to daily actions that prove it. Check in with your mom instead of a parole officer. Show up reliably enough to rebuild friendship.
At the end of the day, y'all both want to be there for each other. You've been there. She's saying she loves you, she needs you, but there's anger. There's anger and there's embarrassment. And those two things have to be healed. And as soon as those things can be healed, y'all are gonna be on a path to get back to that friendship. You gotta believe her for who she is now, but you also gotta commit to showing her day by day that you're not gonna do stuff. I believe you're a good mom, but those little things, like it's better that you check in with your mom instead of having to check in with a parole officer. [Speaker] Exactly, yeah.