Did a Butt-Dial Reveal She's Cheating?! | KARAMO

So please tell me, how did a pocket dial ruin your relationship?

Okay, so a pocket dial ruined my relationship. Ever since this relationship and this pocket dial has happened, we've been arguing, we've been fighting, and he thinks I'm a cheater.

Okay.

And I've heard the voicemail myself, but it's not me in the voicemail. It's not me.

So where were you when this voicemail was left?

I admit it, I was at another guy's house.

Okay, okay. And why did you go to the other man's house?

I just went over there just to chill. I was at a birthday party that night.

Let her chill. Y'all so judgmental.

He called me.

Why she can't go over there and chill?

Yeah. I just wanted to chill and that was it. That's how I ended up over there.

Okay, do you regret going over that night now?

Yes, I do regret it because now my man thinks I'm a cheater.

Have you heard the voicemail recording?

I've heard it. I've heard it and—

It does not sound anything like you.

It's not me.

It's not me.

Okay, in your opinion, what does the recording sound like?

Oh, it sound like somebody getting down and nasty.

Oh, okay then. Well, producers tell me he ruined Thanksgiving dinner at your family's house. Was that because of this voicemail? Explain what happened.

So he let my family hear the voicemail and so they all think that it's me and they're telling him that it's me also.

Got it. So this is a lot of problems that this voicemail's causing y'all. Yes. How long y'all been together now?

We've been together since August.

Like this year?

Yes.

Yes. Girl, this a real short amount of time for all this argument. What, this like 4 months?

Yeah.

Okay. So what do you think the real problem is in the relationship? 'Cause it ain't a voicemail.

Oh, I believe that it's the money. I used to be an ex-stripper.

Okay.

So I used to make about $3,000 to $5,000 a month.

Uh-huh.

Make sure I got my nails and hair done, everything.

And so when you got with him 4 months ago, did he make you, ask you to stop stripping?

Yeah, he wants me to stop.

And the money.

And it's just the money.

Got it. So are you working now?

No, I'm not working right now. I'm actually looking for a job.

Got it. Okay then. So how does Wayne criticize you?

Oh, he criticizes me about me not having enough money, finances. He tells me I need to get a job.

Okay. But you had a job and he told you to quit it? Yes. Or asked you to quit it?

Yes.

So then, so he asked you to quit the job and now is complaining that you don't have money because you don't have a job?

Yes.

Okay then. Uh-huh. Okay. Because did he know you had that job when he met you?

Yes, he knew. He was aware.

He was aware. So if he didn't like that you had that job, why did he get with you?

That's the same thing that I've been asking him.

Okay. Okay.

So he's complaining to you about all the money. Is it because you're asking him to support you in ways?

Yes, I'm asking him to support me 'cause he lives with me, so I'm asking him.

He live with you? Yes. Girl, y'all just got together 4 months ago. How he live with you?

I know, I know.

Okay, you know, you know.

But I love him, I love him.

Uh-huh, okay, okay. They talking about no. Now that you can judge, okay?

Oh.

So my producer told me you have a child, correct?— that you take care of?—

Yes.

Does he support your child?

Yeah, well, they have a great relationship and that's what I like about him.

It's still the beginning, only 4 months. So what kind of relationship have they established?

Um, well, he talks about marriage.

In 4 months?

Mm-hmm.

I'm counting red flags, by the way. Wayne, I can't wait to talk to you, brother. Come on out here 'cause I need to hear his side.

Uh-uh.

Wayne, how you doing, brother?

Good to you, good to you.

Nice to meet you, man.

Nice to meet you, Karamo.

Come here, brother. Take a seat for me. I got you. Okay, so she said, I'm gonna ask you personally, do you support Alaysia financially?

Yes, I support Alaysia financially. I'm the one with the job. She doesn't have a job right now.

Okay then. Okay. So you give her $20 here, $20 there, $5 here. Oh, you see it?

Oh, I see this now.

No, he is lying. He does not support me.

I've sent this girl or spent at least $3,000 on this girl within, it's more than 4 months actually. I heard you back there.

She said 4 months.

Nah, it's more than that.

August. Uh-huh.

She got her account right now.

Okay. Oh, see, you see? He's always talking about I need to set an account, see?

Uh-huh.

August, January, February, March, August.

What?

January, February, March, April, May, June, July, August. We've been together since the end of August.

August, September, October, November, December.

You don't count August.

We've been together since the end of August. Like a paycheck, it's September.

September, October, okay, I see what you're saying.

Yes. Okay, question. So this is the money that you're giving her?

It's more than that though. Okay. It's just another number. That's just the screenshot though, you know what I'm saying?

But you give her like $10 increments?

Look at that, look at that, y'all. $20, $5, $6.

It's been days.

What in the world is $10? What am I gonna do to support my child with a $10 or a $20?

It's been days she asked for money. 5 times in the day before and I sent it.

Got it, okay.

So different numbers, her phone is old.

Are you living in her house for free though? Yeah.

No, not really. Not really. Them screenshots prove it.

Them screenshots don't prove you living in her house for free.

I have more screenshots of them, just the ones that was shown.

Gays, they— What is that?

I don't know.

September 25th said, "I don't know." See, look, what is that stuff right there? Like, come on now.

What the last one say right there? I can't remember.

The box of tissues.

He say don't kill yourself.

Yeah, don't kill yourself. She was threatening to kill herself all the time.

And you gave her $10?

Man.

Don't kill your stomach.

Okay, let me tell you this. Okay, I'm gonna tell you this. I know we're here to figure out if she's cheating and we're gonna get to the bottom of that, but I gotta be real with you. You give off homosexual vibes. Y'all know what a homosexual is? What's that? It's somebody who moves in because it's getting to the wintertime and they need a house to stay and they gonna come into your house, move in, get what they need. Oh. And then once it get, Soon as it get warm, you gonna be gone and you done, you like, I got another house to stay in. It's very give and very that. Let me give you $10 here and there. Let me do this. I'm gonna get a place for free and I'm gonna be out.

Well, how I met her, I live two doors down and I don't live—

But you don't live there no more?

It caught fire. I don't live with my mother. The guy she, you know what I'm saying, was dealing with lives with his mom.

Uh-huh.

So yeah.

So he's 50.

Uh-huh.

That's somebody she's dealing with? Yeah, he's 50. Okay. But I was talking about you living while you ain't got no place.

It caught fire.

Okay, so— And I just wanted to support him.

So why weren't you able to get another place quickly?

I did.

Her house.

Her house and a hotel.

Okay. Got it, got it, got it, got it. It's still giving homosexual, but it's all right. We here to solve this. It's getting very homosexual. Very, very like, I gotta bled you. Y'all need to watch out for homosexuals. They'll move into your house in a month. Some of y'all know it. Okay. But we gonna find out because we not here We not here for that. We gonna find out if you doing something. So why don't you trust Alesia's side of the story about the recording?

She done switched her story up multiple times.

Oh, oh, so she is conflicted. You know what? I need to hear this recording 'cause we need to hear it. Can I hear this recording? My producer tell me right now, if we gonna hear this, given the nature, we can only let the audio play here for the audience. Sorry everybody at home. We'll tell y'all what we hear though. So lemme take a listen. Yeah.

You play baseball, Karamo?

No, but I'm an adult and I know what that was.

OK, OK. Come on, man.

That's what he played to my family on Thanksgiving.

Uh-huh. OK. Yeah. Uh-huh. So everybody in the audience, if you think that was sex, please raise your hand. Okay, that's the first time in the 4 years I've done this show it was unanimous.

It's not me, it's not me, it's not me.

Okay, so she says it's not her, but she also admitted a couple of times and said, "I've been lying to you." So she said that's not her.

Okay.

She said it's her too.

Said it's her. Well, my question is for you, okay, outside of if that is her or not, why play it for her family?

Being messy, that's called being messy.

It's not being messy, it's called growing up. Being man, that's growing up. That's—

So this is the thing. So if you're hurt by that voicemail, I could understand why, seriously. And your feelings are very valid in that. But I think what maturity would tell me is that being immature, I'm gonna be spiteful and make sure everybody hear this. Being mature says I'm gonna create a boundary and say, you know what? If I feel hurt by this, then I need to let you go. 'Cause now you're gonna be embarrassed. You know what I mean?

Yeah.

And see, I'm gonna be very clear with you. Are you 20-something? 24? Yeah. I was 24 once, and I was the worst. Ooh, let me tell you something. You do something to me, I'm gonna make sure everybody know. But that's 'cause I wasn't healed. But now, as a grown man, somebody does that to me, my self-worth and self-esteem is so high that I'm like, it just means that you not the person for me, and I'm gonna walk away. Stay in your mess. Stay in your mess. But anyway, this is the part that I need to understand is, is that your fault or not?

I'm not gonna lie. I admit. That it did come from my phone. I'm just not sure how, I don't know. But that was definitely my number that he was calling.

She play too much too. Yeah, she play too much. Okay, so who's the female we're hearing then?

Oh, I don't know, but it's not me.

First she said it was her friend, she admitted it to being her. It's a lot of stories.

I don't remember admitting to it. Maybe I was drunk.

Okay, got it. Okay, I see now why you— We gonna find out. It's time to unlock the phone. Unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock. Alesia, we unlocked your phone. All right, Wayne, you wanna know if Alesia is communicating with specific men. Alesia says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her calls and found that Alesia is not telling the truth. Alesia had 52 recent phone calls with those other men. All right, Wayne, you wanna know if Alesia is having inappropriate conversations with any other men during the relationship. Alejia says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her texts and found that Alejia is not telling the truth. There are 131 messages between Alejia and other men interested in her services. She made arrangements to meet with some as recent as this past Sunday and Tuesday. Wayne, you wanna know if Alejia was intimate with the older man she was with on November 22nd. Alaysia says she was not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her email and found that Alaysia is not telling the truth. On November 22nd, Alaysia received $60 payment from for. Okay, can I see this, Ralph? Let me see. Okay, Alaysia, clearly we, thank you, Ralph, appreciate that. Alesia, Alesia, you was playing everybody face, girl. Just go ahead, tell the truth. Go ahead, tell the truth, girl. Shame the devil, tell the truth, girl.

Okay, so I do admit that I was trying to reach out to people, but it's not like I wanna be in a relationship with these guys.

So what you're saying is, hi, I, Della, did, Go for it, you got it, you can do it.

I did, I admit that I was texting and conversating and I did on the 22nd when I went over with . But I did not do anything sexually. I didn't do nothing sexually.

You know none of us believe that. So you wanna say yes, that was you on the voicemail?

Yeah, that was me on the voicemail.

There we go, there we go. And what was y'all doing? Getting into the act?

Yeah, we was getting, and I was doing oral sex.

Okay, there we go. There we go. Hey, listen, you grown. You triflin', but you grown, so do what you wanna do, okay? You triflin', but do what you wanna do. But like, at least you can be honest with him so that he can make his decisions about what he wants to do. What are you feeling about what you just heard?

Man, look, this girl done swore on her brother, this, that, and the third, she did something she didn't.

Well, she's telling you right now she did. So you don't gotta worry about what she said in the past. She's telling you right now she did. She said that the, The audio we all heard was oral sex and that she's confessing that she did something.

Yeah, the guy said she was naked.

Okay, it doesn't matter what the details are. She did something on you. Right. She's confessing. What do you feel?

I mean, I ain't finna stay with nobody that's cheating on me.

None of us believe it.

Cheating?

She did.

If someone cheat on you, you gonna stay with them?

I wouldn't. But again, I just told you earlier, when I was younger, I might have made a different choice, but now I'm a healed man. Who makes better decisions based on my self-worth.

When this man was 23, she didn't exist. She was extinct. Uh-huh. She was zero.

Okay. But it's not about that, man. So I'm asking you, are you gonna stay?

No.

So where you gonna stay? Like literally, where are you gonna stay?

I mean, I have another house, you know?

You got another place to go to? Yeah. Okay.

That's not what you told me.

That's not what you told me. Do you think he's gonna leave you?

I'm hoping that he does not leave me. I'm hoping that we can just work on our relationship. I really don't want him to leave me. I genuinely like him, like, but I'm hoping he doesn't leave me. If he do, I'ma just have to find another man to take care of me.

Oh, did you hear that?

Man. Oh wow.

So hold on. So, 'cause I was doing the timeline on here He said that from August to October, he said he did know. I believe he probably did notice something. Did something else happen in October? That's why he wanted to find out?

Oh, so I left him in October.

And what happened?

And I went back with my child's father.

Okay. Why you so trifling, girl? You trifling as hell, girl. Why you done brought this man all the way here to do that to him? You trifling as hell. You gotta have some growth too. Yeah. So what's going on with you? Why you feel like you gotta do this to these men?

Because like I'm confused. Like I'm not sure whether they want to be with me or not. And I'm confused. Like I'm really confused. I'm trying to focus on myself and my growth and I'm just confused.

So two things. I can understand you feeling confused because that tells me that you have never trusted love from people in your life. Yeah. And so now you're cautious of when someone gives it to you and you're gonna probably end up trying to hurt them before they hurt you. You need to heal.

Yeah.

I do, I need therapy.

Yeah, girl. Can y'all all say with me on the count of 3, Alaysia, stop being triflin'. 1, 2, 3. Alaysia, stop being triflin'. Thank you. Okay.

Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Okay, bye boo. Do this? Why would she do that? She trifling as hell. Oh, listen, that he couldn't count the months. He said January 1st. I said, what month you in? That let me know he ain't paid rent in his life.