A married couple works through mistrust and a sexless relationship. The host confirms neither has cheated, points to their unlocked phones as proof, and pushes them to talk openly about intimacy and stop spiraling into paranoia.
There's a couple things at play here that I noticed from the beginning. But what is biggest right now, and I think that really needs to happen in your relationship, is that you have to have a better conversation around intimacy. You expressed immediately that right now sex is not a priority for you.
It's not.
And that's okay. No one's gonna force you to not make something a priority. But also you're in a marriage where you have to communicate.
And I have to give him what he wants and make him—
Well, what you have to do is you have to figure out what boundary works for you both. No one's gonna ask you to do something that you're not comfortable with. But as a marriage, you're gonna have to talk about these things. Neither of you are cheating. I see the emotion here. You both love each other. You've done the work to grow, to be better. Y'all are trying. You gotta figure out what your balance is. But if you can figure out that balance, I promise you this relationship will get happier and healthier for you two and for those kids. Neither of you are cheating. Neither of you doing anything. And I know there's real love here. You understand? We unlocked your phones, but you need to both lock up the paranoia and move forward with healthy conversations, all right?
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