A mother is told to stop defending her daughter's version of events and give her space instead. The real goal isn't winning arguments about what's true, but respecting her daughter's autonomy and building a healthier relationship.
If you really wanna have a relationship with your daughter, with your daughter that's going to be healthy where she can say, you know what, mom brings me peace. Because right now she included you in the fact that she don't have no peace. So she said he don't bring her peace and you don't bring her peace. So neither of you are just the better one in this situation. So if you want peace with your daughter, you have to say, you know what, I gotta go hands off. And I know that's hard for you because you still show up for her, you still give her support.
Tara is not speaking the truth up here and she knows it, then you're scared to speak your own mind. She's speaking the truth, she's just not speaking what you want her to say out your mouth. All your ideas, all your words, that's the problem.
That's always been the problem. Because if she's not speaking the truth, again, that's not your battle. Yeah, because guess what keeps happening? You just went to go defend that battle of what truth she's speaking, what truth she's not speaking, and look how it ends up. You two fighting. Yeah, we always I know, but it's not, so again, remember. Oh, it's not, I ain't gotta listen to you no more. That's why I stopped talking to you 6 months ago. My goal right here in speaking to you is to have you have the best relationship with your daughter. And this is not helping the best relationship. Whether she's telling the truth, whether she's giving all the facts, it don't matter in this moment because that's her life to live.
Yeah, and she will live it alone. Yeah.
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