Karamo tells a viewer upset about her partner's infidelity that her real wound is deeper: losing her mother and having an absent father. She's seeking love to fill the hole left by abandonment. He says healing comes from learning to love herself, not from another person.
So first of all, you don't need to be concerned if she's sleeping with your man because you let everybody else sleep with your man, okay? Second point, hold on before we clap. Second point, he's not your man. He's everybody's man, okay? Third point, you have to start to heal. And it broke my heart hearing you say what you dealt with with your family, losing your mother and having your father. I understand how children of abandonment start to reach out and search for love. And they search for love because they're hoping that I can find security if someone loves me. It means no one will go away. And so you hold onto things that are unhealthy, hoping that it can maybe fulfill that hole. But the only thing that's gonna fill that hole is you being alone and taking time with yourself to fall in love with yourself. And I know that is the scariest thing. For you to do. When you're young and you lose a parent, you then are scared that if you lose anyone else, that that hole will get bigger. Yeah. But that, you gotta start to heal that hole.
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