He Put A Camera In My Bedroom To Try To Catch Me Cheating! | KARAMO

So I know my girlfriend Rhonda is cheating on me, and she's cheating on me in this house. And I'm gonna show you where it happens, but she's home right now, so I gotta be a little quiet. So I came home. She wasn't expecting me to come. And when I got here, it was just a total mess. I mean, we had stains on this chair right here. And then you had the damn carpet that was over here that's all stained up. I'm like, Rhonda. That carpet was crazy looking. And I feel like they on their knees on the carpet looking right out the damn window. I think she's right here looking out the window. 'Cause if you look out the window, you see up the hill, you can see my car, my van. And then she's right under the birds. So the birds get to see the show. And like, you hear them chirping? It's like they're trying to tell us even. I be like, hey birdies, talk to me, talk to me. I'm tearing the bed up and ripping the damn sheets off the bed. It was just a total mess. Rhonda, what the fuck is you doing? And then even the smell. You in here with a white boy? It's my opinion that she does most of her dirty work in this kitchen right here. She even be in this closet. She be right here bent over, bam, in the food. And then you go from here right to this front— the back door. And then boom, they make their exit. And this is my reality. And I've been dealing with this for the past 3 months now.

Listen, we'll talk to Paul a little bit later, but everyone first, please welcome his girlfriend Rhonda to the show. Rhonda, he just accused you of having sex at every place in the world. What do you have to say about that?

He's lying.

He's lying?

Absolutely lying.

Okay.

This is not true, y'all.

Have you been cheating on Paul?

No, hell no.

No, not at all?

No.

Have you ever cheated on Paul?

No.

Not at all, okay. So what happened the day that Paul started accusing you of cheating?

Well, I was doing my daughter hair and I sent him outta town to go to work because where we live at, job money is not really that well.

Yes.

So he gives me a call and, you know, we talk on the phone. I have the headphones in so my daughter can't hear. So as I'm doing her hair, I'm talking to him and he goes, he hear me fucking on the phone.

While you're doing your daughter's hair?

While I'm doing my 9-year-old daughter hair. So I said, how am I fucking in front of a 9-year-old? You know? And he says, well, I'm not dumb, I can hear you. and I hear a dick snoring in the back. Well, damn, you sure have got some good ears 'cause I don't hear none of it.

Yeah. That's a lot.

Yes.

Yes.

So then, so, 'cause I, not that I'm saying I believe him, but I need to address each thing he said. So what are these stains Paul is saying that he found around the house?

Listen, my daughter play with vinegar and baking soda. She's an active child and she like to do volcano stuff, TikTok stuff, that's her thing.

Yeah.

And I tried to tell him that, but he was persistent. Oh, you fucking somebody? I said, bro, I'm not fucking nobody.

Yeah.

Like, what is wrong with you?

Yeah.

And I'm so tired of the disrespect.

Yeah.

Like, it's overwhelming.

I can't go—

How long y'all been together? 4 years, about 5 years now.

4 years, 5 years.

Mm-hmm.

And outta that 4 to 5 years, how many years has he been accusing you?

Well, this is recently stuff.

Oh, so just in the past 3 months, like he said in that video?

Yeah.

3 months he's been accusing you of cheating?

Yeah.

So 3 to 4 or 5 years, the relationship was healthy?

It was good?

Everything was fine.

Got it. So everything else was great. So what did Paul put in your bedroom?

A camera.

He put a camera?

I found a camera. So let me tell you how it went. So look, I'm in my room and I'm walking around my room looking for something and I see a long black wire in the socket. Now remind y'all, I don't use that side of the room. So I'm like, okay, well I put the laundry bin and stuff. I'm like, what's this plug? So I'm going to be nosy now. I'm checking. I see a damn camera. So he comes up the steps. He running up the steps. So I say, why did you put a camera in my room? What is it for? He says, oh, so I can catch you doing stuff. I said, bro, I'm not doing anything to you. I'm not cheating on you. Ain't no man's in and out this house. Like, you being ridiculous.

Mm, my gosh. The invasion of privacy, because if you don't know, like, that there's a camera, 'cause y'all never lived together, right?

No, not until—

Never?

Okay then. It's so funny, you know, we do MorningSave products here and we sell cameras like that and I wouldn't be surprised if he bought it from us and put it in the room. Have you done anything to try to prove your innocence to him?

I did. I paid $750 for a lie detector test and I told Paul, I said, if I do this lie detector test, you're gonna gimme my money back and we are still done.

Got it.

Okay then.

And how is your sex life with Paul?

Well, I tell him he can't have any.

Yeah.

For the simple fact is, I tell him he can't have any because would it look like me giving you my body and you constantly keep on accusing me of having sex with different dudes?

Mm-hmm.

I can't get off like that.

Yeah.

Ain't no need for me to have sex with shit.

Yeah, got it. That makes sense. Well, I think it's time to hear Paul's side of all of this. Everyone, please welcome Paul to the show. How you doing, Paul?

How you doing?

This guy is crazy.

So Paul, let me ask you, first of all, thanks for being here.

Thank you.

When did you first start suspecting that Rhonda was cheating on you?

In October, November.

October, November. And what happened that made you suspect that?

So we had some neighbors move in. She's very friendly with them. She's telling me information that they're telling her, like they're having conversations and shit. I'm like, huh? Yeah, so I had ended up talking to the man one time. And he ended up telling me about my business. And I'm like, how do you know anything about my business?

Right.

So you feel like she was oversharing and because of that overshare, you think they got too close. There might have been intimacy involved as well.

It have been intimacy.

No.

Okay, so let me ask you this, 'cause you told my producers that someday you came home early from work.

What happened? Walked through the front door and just a mess. Just everything is just a mess. And she's still doing her daughter hair, which she claimed to have been doing the day I left. It's taking you 9 days now to finish your daughter's hair.

Well, it was not even no 9 days. You wasn't even gone for 9 days.

So what was it, 8 days?

No, you wasn't even gone that long. You was probably gone for 5 days.

So I was gone, okay, for 5 days.

And let's not forget, Wake County ain't had no school for 2 days.

So you had more than enough time to complete her hair. My point is, it took her the whole time I was gone. I came back, she was standing on her daughter's hair.

Okay, if you—

So because of that, that gave you suspicion that she was having a lifestyle?

No, because of that, it's like, because of that, it shows you was doing something else with your time. And then I get home and I see the rug is full of sex stains. What a wife. Sex stains.

What a wife.

And then the chair, sex stains. And then the bed, sex stains. And I'm looking at all of this and she's like, yep, Paul. We were fucking up and down the whole house.

You just said that?

I did.

So no lie. So she said that. So I ran downstairs like, okay. And I get on the couch, look at the couch and it shows they were fucking over the whole damn house.

So why would you admit to something you weren't doing?

Okay, I said what I said for the simple fact is I kept telling him that I'm not cheating on you. I'm tired of you asking the kids, making comments to the kids like, oh, your mom is the one.

I never made comments to the kids.

Yes, you did.

Nah, at this point.

Yes, you did.

Okay, I was talking about, So it was the 5 days I was gone, the whole time you was active. I'm like, how many?

Active with who?

I'm like, how many?

So this is where I say, this is why I did tell him.

How many?

So you cheated in front of the kids or no?

I said that on the phone when I called.

But you have never said anything to the kids?

No.

You didn't?

No.

So my daughter don't say, Daddy, why do you walk around and say that Mommy is cheating? Mommy is not cheating.

Okay.

Okay.

Yeah, that's where the line gets crossed. I can understand you having suspicion, but then when you put that into the children's mind—

No, with the children, you're right. Her next story is gonna be about some mommy is cheating. If you hear us arguing, then you just find a way to use it, you know?

Yeah.

How does Rhonda react when you accuse her of cheating?

Go, go, it's over. You could go.

I do.

You could go.

I do.

Okay.

Because why should I have to put up with that? A person constantly telling me I'm cheating. I'm telling you that I'm not freaking cheating.

So if I wake up and see sex stains on the bed, I can't say you're doing something. So if I wake up and I smell you, I can't say you're doing something.

All right. So no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Part of the game is to how do we live with someone? How do you in a relationship and you can't question anything going on in your relationship?

That's what you call question. If I'm sleep. and you get up. You up before me, I'm asleep, you go yank-a-dingy on blanket off me. The cold air automatically wakes me up. So I say, yo, what are you doing? Why you doing that? Oh, you having sex with somebody. You got nothing to do in the bed. Like, bro, what are you talking about?

It don't make no sense. Every time I wake up, every time I open my eyes and look over, you're up.

I'm not a person that sleep.

All night long you're up. You're sitting there, you would think you sleep, but you're up. And it's crazy how you could be up for so long and for so many days.

Got it.

All right, go to sleep, bro. I go right to sleep.

That's what you doing. The one that's cheating.

He got to be the one that's cheating. And I wake up and I wake up and I wake up and I smell things and I see things.

I'm like, okay, it's all your imagination. It's his imagination.

No imagination.

It's you that's cheating. It's your imagination.

It's all made up in your So she told us earlier that your sex life is suffering because she doesn't—

Yeah, our sex life is suffering 'cause she's getting it from somewhere else.

Well, you just mad 'cause I said the shop was closed.

You ain't getting no more, so you saying I'm having sex with somebody else.

Rhonda, can I ask you this?

Why would I have sex with you when you accuse me of having sex with Tom, Dick, and Harry?

Rhonda, can I ask you this? Rhonda, can I ask you this? You think she should— It's a possibility. She could think that all she want.

From the time we was together, I always asked from 2 years ago, So he just left his phone upstairs. So that gave me an opportunity to open up his damn phone. When I open up the phone, I see him and his ex over here talking. He telling her that he love her, she love him. So if it's over between y'all, why you still having those conversation with her? But you gonna tell me I'm tripping. I ain't tripping.

So, okay, well listen, I think it's time to unlock the phone. Rhonda, we unlocked your phone.

Okay.

All right. So Paul, you wanna know if Rhonda is texting any other men. She says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her texts and found that Rhonda is telling the truth. Boom.

Boom.

Paul, you wanna know if Rhonda has any hidden apps on her phone. She says she does not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her apps and found that Rhonda is telling the truth.

Boom.

Paul, you wanna know if Rhonda is communicating with any men on social media. She says she is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Rhonda is not telling the truth.

What?

There were 151 messages between Rhonda and another man as recent as 6 weeks ago that included plans to hook up.

What? Can I see it? What man?

I'll show you.

Yeah, show that. 6 weeks ago?

Thank you, Ralph. Appreciate this. All right, let me see.

I would like to see this.

But the things that you're not catching—

I would like to see 6 weeks ago.

It's only because she's a professional cheater.

No, I ain't no professional cheater.

That's where you are.

That's old. That's in 2021. That's when me and Paul was split up for 6 months. When me and Paul split up for 6 months, me and we was communicating, but ain't nothing but a friend.

Okay.

He ain't nothing but a friend. Somebody ain't gonna be there.

Somebody ain't gonna be there.

Baby, I got a whole woman. What part you don't understand? We just friends.

What part you don't understand? You hooking up with me?

I never hooked up with me. We are friends.

They got proof.

Friends.

It didn't say they hooked up.

Friends.

It said that they were planning.

Right, and we never did.

No, it just shows the relationship.

But the date that we have on this, it's dated as May 24th, 2024. When are you saying that you all were talking?

That's all.

Oh, May 24th, 25th as well.

Okay, this one.

And all of that was when I was living on what? Where's the place we moved from in Raleigh?

Okay.

Yeah, you left me then in Raleigh and me and you had asked me do I wanna go bowling? I tell him I can't 'cause I got my kids. Don't have a babysitter. It's nothing but conversation, baby. Ain't nothing never happened. Okay. Okay. It's a difference. What's the fucking difference?

All right, well, Paul.

You was with 6 months ago. What you don't understand?

All right, well, Paul. Paul, we unlocked—

How does that matter?

Paul, we unlocked your phone.

Here we go. Yeah. Let's unlock your phone.

Rhonda, you wanna know if Paul is messaging any other women?

Yes.

He says he's not. My octophone investigator searched his DMs and found that Paul is not telling the truth. My investigator found 13 messages where Paul is flirting with another woman. All right, Rhonda, you wanna know if Paul is communicating—

But it's not being unfaithful because I ain't doing none of that. So it's a difference. It's still not being faithful.

Rhonda, you wanna know if Paul is communicating with any other woman? He says he is not. My octaphone investigator searched his texts and found that Paul is not telling the truth. My investigator found 19 messages between Paul and multiple sex workers trying to meet up for sex.

Ah.

All right, Rhonda, you wanna know if Paul is still communicating with his ex?

Right.

He says he's not. My locked phone investigator searched his phone and found that Paul is not telling the truth. There were 249 messages, including multiple explicit photos between Paul and his ex, recently as 6 days ago.

It clears up, it clears up, Paul, because I asked you. 6 days ago.

I asked you.

6 days ago.

I asked you, can I see? I asked you and you lied. But you drilling me about people? You drooling me by bringing people in my house, but you still talking to her. You was never freaking faithful, bro, and I told you you wasn't. And that's exactly why you treat me the way you treat me, because you know your ass is wrong. You know you wrong.

So February 8th, 2025, you said, I can't stop thinking about you.

Who? Huh?

While sending a photo.

Can I see?

Yeah, these are some of the older ones and newer ones.

Oh yeah, but I'm the one that's doing it? I told you this hoe was still feeling you shit. I told you. I told you. But I'm bugging. You can go back to her. You can fucking call her and tell her you'll be back with her.

You'll be back.

Baby, this is shit. Baby, all right, this is old. This was before my time. I thought she was married. I thought she moved the fuck on from you. She was married? I thought she moved on from you. Yeah, you think I don't know stuff. That's the problem. I told you I know things. I know things. And I asked you just to see if you gonna be loyal and faithful. But we see, it's all good. You can have her.

So it seems like we know now that what you had was paranoia because you were doing the activities.

Right, right, right.

So because you were engaging—

Creeping around the neighborhood.

No, because what we know for sure is that you're definitely engaging with your ex. You're also engaging with sex workers.

So we know those 2 things for sure. Why do you need sex workers?

So that was in 2001.

I thought I was enough. So why do you need sex workers?

But that was in 2001 when you was saying something about sex workers.

So this is the thing. Right now, I don't know your family dynamic. What I do know is that there's a lot of mistrust.

Ain't no mistrust, baby, 'cause I walked in this relationship with freaking trust. And he walked in with this lying, just lying.

So what is your decision?

I told him I was done.

You're done?

I told him I was done.

Okay, good.

Because I just feel like this. I don't deserve to keep on going through this or having a man keep taking me through this over and over. I proved a lie detector test to him. He told me I got some magic powers. Magic powers to pass a lie detector test.

Are you a wizard?

I ain't no dang on wizard, baby. I speak the truth and I'm not a cheater.

Well, listen, stay true to your convictions. You know what you want, you know what you deserve. I wish you the best of luck. I hope that you find what you're looking for out there. It sounds like she's done and she's finished.