A listener keeps Mark choosing between his peace and the relationship by staying angry for days after fights. Karamo tells her Mark shouldn't have to put up with that. She needs to change her behavior or risk losing him.
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You said that Mark is the only man that can put up with me, put up with my attitude and all this stuff. Mark should not have to put up with you. Well, you know what I mean. Like Neil. No, no, no, no. I love you, girl. I do. But he should not have to put up with you. Because what happens is that by putting him in a position where he feels like he has to make a choice between his peace and putting up with you is going to continue to cause strain in your relationship. And that's where the moments that you have to grow Your thing, you said that when y'all argue, he gets calm, he still tries to love on you, and then you still have your attitude for 2 days. So what I'm hearing is, I'm trying, I've given you transparency, I'm trying to show you love even in hard moments, but what I'm asking you is to not make me feel like I'm second in our relationship, not to make me feel like I'm disrespected. And what I'm seeing is every time you get upset, you like, I'm sure you could be second. Hold on, nope, nope, doesn't matter. "I'm gonna show you in a second." But are you hearing him? Because again, you're not. If you don't want this relationship to cave, you need to straighten up. That's the truth.