A man describes his nine-month relationship as toxic because his partner ghosted him before. The counselor points out he's been hurt by five different women and needs to heal himself first, not just leave this one.
This ain't a healthy relationship. Come on now. This is not healthy. I've been saying that. There is nothing that will happen in this relationship except for you being in a toxic relationship because he has to heal. I'm not telling you that you're gonna need to leave today. That has to be a decision. My advice to you would be that you need to separate from this relationship because if you said you have not been in a past relationship that was unhealthy, don't get yourself in one now. And it's only been 9 months y'all been together. 9 months. And even prior to that, he had ghosted you, went to California, and whatever the reasons may be, This is unhealthy and you don't deserve this unhealthy relationship. But at the same rate, brother, I will tell you, you deserve to heal because what it is is that I saw how you interacted with this woman, I saw how you interacted with Bianca and the way that you react with women is from a place of hurt and you are deeply hurt. Okay. No, I'm gonna ask you, in all sincerity, how many women have hurt you? Good 5. Yeah, good 5. Yeah. That's a lot. Just one is a lot. Can't have 6.
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