Help My Sister Leave Her Toxic Boyfriend! | KARAMO

It was a time that we were out.

This one particular time, we seen Robert with a girl. And they were basically kind of cuddled up and taking pictures and stuff of that nature.

Oh, wow.

So we didn't really tell our sister.

I didn't tell her 'cause I feel like if you not gonna leave him and every time we bring something to you, you feel like we're cheating, you catch an attitude, I'm not gonna keep telling you.

That makes sense to me. But you're seeing him now, this is no longer hearsay, you're seeing with your own eyes.

Yes.

And what is, you said you have a second confession?

Yes.

Okay.

The second confession, we also went to a strip club. Now usually when we go to the strip club, we have our own section. Right, we go to a little section in the back. To our surprise, we walk in a section, he's in our section.

Karamo, he's in our section.

Yes.

That alone irritated me.

And not only was he in the section, he was in the section talking to somebody we went to school with. He didn't even know that we knew this person. But failed to mention he got a whole family at home, a newborn baby and everything. So, so.

Wow. I mean, what's interesting is that you all as her sisters are seeing this firsthand.

Yes.

Shanti's been backstage watching what you all have been saying. So I wanna see what Shanti has to say about all this. So everyone please welcome Shanti to the show. Hi Shanti.

Hi.

How you doing? Take a seat for me. So how do you feel about what was just said?

I feel like this is all BS and I'm really upset that y'all would wait till we come here to tell me about—

But what is you upset for?

Because what do you mean? You tell me that you see my man out in the club, but— But if I was at my house every day, what would it have changed?

Every time I tell you something, you stay anyway. So why would we keep telling you stuff and it keep bringing tension in between us?

Because I'm your sister, so you still tell me. I don't care. You're right. I'm not gonna leave my man. That's my man.

So you hear what you're saying? You're not gonna leave your man.

I'm not gonna leave my man.

So why am I gonna keep getting into it with you and your man about something he did? But why are you focusing on my man?

Where's your man?

What do you mean?

Where's your man?

I don't know.

It don't matter whether I have a man or not.

I don't want one like yours. That's the point. Okay, that's fine.

I don't want a man to act like Robert, okay?

This literally happens every time we bring anything up about her boyfriend. She do this and then she get mad and wonder why we don't tell her nothing.

And then she block our numbers and we don't talk for days.

You block their numbers as well?

I have blocked their numbers. It ain't because of— It's not because I'm out.

But you don't block his number though.

You right.

Right.

And I'm not going to. But you should.

That's her problem. That's her problem.

Maybe that is my problem. I feel like y'all my problem.

I feel like you are a problem at this point.

So you said you think they're your problem. Are you mad because they hid this information from you?

Yes. If her man was out cheating and I seen that every single day, I'm gonna let her know. Yes, I would get tired of it. I would get so tired of it, but that's my sister. I'm also gonna come with proof if I feel like my sister and gonna believe me. Where's the proof? We can't believe you.

You don't need proof for yourself that he cheats on you.

What more you need from us?

Is that true that you've seen proof yourself?

Yes, I have.

Okay.

At the end of the day, Sean, you are a queen. We want you to feel like a queen and be treated like one.

Thank you.

So when was this? Which? That you saw him at the club?

This was all recently.

This is all recent?

This is all recent.

Yes.

So they're telling you it's recently that they saw it.

Okay, and that hurts me. It does, but I'm not gonna, this is me and Robert's relationship. This is something I handle with Robert. I don't need to talk to my sisters about it or anything like that. You know, they're not in our relationships. Y'all need to stay out of it.

But it gets to—

But can you tell they're just being concerned for you?

It gets to, at first it seemed like genuine. It seemed like they're bored more than anything.

So you mean to tell me you think that we literally wake up in the morning and look on our phone, scroll, and wait for you to call to cry on our phone?

I don't know what y'all do. I don't know what y'all do.

That ain't what I do anymore.

If this is somebody you're dating, I feel like we date to lead to something. Marriage or whatever. So that means he's gonna be a part of the family as well. So if we having issues with him and you having issues and he's changing you, that's a problem. So first we gonna speak up and use our voice.

But my man's not changing me.

Your energy has shifted. It's not, it's very timid, it's very quiet now. Back then it was vibrant, it was beautiful. You're still beautiful now, but it's like something is draining you.

I'm not in a rut because my relationship. I'm just going through the motions of living and making sure that my kids are taken care of.

I got that, I understand that. And in all sincerity, I will say this, that there's one thing to be true outside of what either of your points of view is, is that you two do share a child together. That's why I asked, who's 2 years old. So this man will be in your lives forever. I think what you're trying to express is how he's in the life.

Exactly.

Got it. Okay. You two came here because you want me to unlock Robert's phone.

Please.

Yes, we do.

If you don't believe nothing we ever say, unlock that phone. You gonna find out everything you need to know.

Exactly.

Are you worried about what? Are you worried about what we can find in Robert's phone?

No.

Of course not.

Not at all?

You should be worried.

You're not worried at all about what we can find in there?

I'm not worried at all because I have my man's passcode. I go through his phone. Me and Robert are in a good place right now. There's no reason for this to even be going down.

I'm gonna ask you a question. If you had to choose between your sisters and Robert right now, who would you choose?

I mean, it's clear as day.

No, I love my sisters. Let's skip all this.

Unlock that phone. I love her.

I love my sister.

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