He's Cheated EVERY Year Of Our Marriage! | KARAMO

My husband is a sneaky motherfucker, I tell you.

Whoo!

He has so many different email addresses. I caught him hiding apps, dating sites, all type of stuff. You name it, he's pretty much done it.

Wow.

So how do you know for a fact that he has cheated?

I know for a fact he's cheating. I went through his phone one time and there was dating sites there that he had downloaded and then deleted. And there was also a TextNow apps. I downloaded it, logged back in, boom, messages.

And you got to read 'em all?

I got to read 'em all.

Okay. And it looks like you—

I have them with me.

Okay, this the evidence? 'Cause I was like, this the evidence that you brought? Here, let me, yeah, read it for me. Tell me what you brought. I like when somebody bring receipts.

Okay, bring your own receipts.

You gotta have those receipts.

You gotta have the receipts, okay.

All right, so, so basically, The lady asks him, "What are you hitting me up for?" And he responds, "Fuck." Oh.

Just that?

Yeah, "What are you doing? You're married." This was just 2 weeks ago. Like, "What are you doing?" And then—

And then said, "Where you at, babe?" Oh yeah.

Oh yeah, so that sounds like some plans was being made to me.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

And then I also found on the TextNow app, I reached out to the young lady and she sent me the messages between them two.

Okay, let me see.

Okay, so basically the young lady is the one in the blue and he is the one with the black. Okay, so basically they're supposed to be friends or whatever the case is.

What that part say? Yeah, let what?

Oh yeah, let me. Yeah, let me. Oh yeah.

Not.

Karamo. Concrete evidence. Concrete evidence. And I have more. I mean, you know.

What a read.

There's more.

There's more.

Well, let me see what more.

There's more. It's quite embarrassing.

Okay, you can read this one to them. Okay.

Okay, so yeah, so basically she says, I have on a gown with no panties. And he says, let me see. She's like, oh, you can wait. He's like, what you doing? You know, they just conversating, watching TV. He asked her, "You ready for me?" She said, "Yeah." He says, "I'm outside." Yeah.

Does that say? I'm not grown enough for this. I am not. Listen.

Oh yeah, oh yeah.

Okay, so producers tell me the other woman have also left comments on your Facebook. Is that true?

Yes, it is. Yes, it is.

Okay.

And this is, "When I tell you I've had enough, I mean just—" That, shaking my head. Bando still be cheating on you. Aw, niece, what's wrong? I hope everything's okay. You good, girl? Hold on, now her saying he's still cheating on you.

Yes, yes, yes. She actually, whoever that person was, there was multiple fake accounts. They're commenting on my posts, family members' posts, inboxing family members, sending me, like, it's just embarrassing.

So if you had to guess how many times he cheated on you, how many times?

Are we talking physical or are we talking? Through text messages because honestly I've caught him doing something almost every year that we've been married. And how long you been married? We've been married for about 6, 5 years. It'll be 6 years next year.

5 years. And how long were you together before you got married?

Well, we were together maybe a year before. We used to go to high school together.

Okay then. We did. And so went to high school, you had a little connection, disconnected and then came back together. Yes, yes, yes. Okay then.

And what happened in that year? Why did it go so fast from year to marriage?

Our connection, I mean, everything's not always bad, but it's like— Girl, you just said he cheated on you every year in 5 years, okay? When it's bad, it gets bad.

Girl, you just said he cheated on you every year in 5 years, okay?

When it's bad, it's bad. But you know, I mean—

Hold on, so what was it in the first year that got you so caught up?

I don't know, maybe it was his smile, maybe it was, you know.

Were you getting outta a bad relationship?

I was not getting out of a bad relationship. I was actually, my baby's father was in jail, you know, and I was doing some stuff I didn't have no business doing. And me and him connected and we were just—

Oh, so you connected when you were in a space that you were like doing some stuff you weren't supposed to? Okay, so let me ask you this then. So then if you say 5 years, he's been doing stuff every year, why do you stay?

I don't know if it's the bond that I've built with the kids. The family, the kids, like we put this family together. So it's like, how do you walk away from that?

'Cause you have kids of your own and he has kids. And he has kids, yes. And so you sort of become a blended family.

We have a blended family, yeah. Got it. And everybody loves everybody, so it's like—

Well, how has all of this affected your relationship?

Communication is off, intimacy is off. I'm having issues, you know, with myself. Am I good enough? You know, you have to do all this and you need all these women. Am I good enough? Okay.

I can understand that. So you asked my unlock the phone investigator to search through his phone. I did, yes.

And what do you think we'll find?

If I listen to him, you won't find anything, but we know how that goes, so.

Okay, well listen, I've heard your side of the story, so there's always two sides. I wanna be fair. Let's meet Bando to hear his side of the story. So Bando, come on out. Hey, Banda, how you doing? Wow, how you doing? I'm good, sir. Good to meet you. Good to meet you, sir. You just out of here. I ain't the only problem.

I am not the only problem. Don't act like you ain't had your moments. I might have. Ain't no mights.

What was it? Hold on, let's back up.

So you trying to say she been cheating on you? Oh yeah. So don't try to make it seem like it's just me while you smirking and all that. You don't talk about homeboys and stuff like that. 'Cause wasn't nothing personal towards you, around you, or what? What, what? Don't get acting like that.

Okay, hold on. So let me, hold on, before I get into this, 'cause hold on, okay, hold on, before we get into this.

Let's talk, let's talk.

Give me some clarity. So how many times have you cheated on her?

About 4 or 5 times physically.

4 or 5 times physically?

I'm not talking conversation, not had a conversation, I'm talking physically doing something.

Uh-huh, okay. And for the record, when was the last time you cheated physically?

About 2 years ago. I give about 2 years ago that I, I did something bad towards you.

What about the one that said it was outside? That you said in the message you were outside. I was outside. Yeah, you was outside. That's what you wrote.

I mean, I can't deny it. The proof is there. I take accountability for what I do. When it get presented to me, oh, I take accountability.

How you not gonna take accountability for something that's right in your face?

You keep accountability when you ain't got no choice and I have to have no pussy.

That's why I'm like, okay.

Yeah, I'm gonna keep accountability.

Other than that, you gonna go to jail right away.

I plead the fifth.

So why do you cheat?

It's a lot of lack of what's going on inside the household at the same time. You take yourself away from me a lot.

Why do I do that?

Listen, I give you compliments, you mm-hmm. If you ain't gonna be comfortable with yourself and I'm trying to make you feel good and all this type of stuff, it'd be like, what is even the point of trying?

You know why I don't believe half the stuff when you trying to compliment me? Because it always leads to to you wanting that, but you have multiple females that you're entertaining. So it's like—

I don't have multiple females.

Why would I listen to what you're telling me?

I've entertained females before. We're not gonna bring you up like this right now though. Okay, well I don't know.

We gonna find out when they unlock that phone.

Yeah, we definitely in here.

So we gonna find out about your wife.

Hold on, 'cause I think I got enough of a baseline where we going with this. So it's time to unlock the phone. All right, Tina, we unlocked your phone. Here we go. Bando, you wanna know if Tina is messaging other men on social media. Tina says she is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Tina is telling the truth. That's the one. Bando, you wanna know if Tina is texting other men. Tina says she is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched her texts and found that Tina is telling the truth. That's true. Other people phones. Banner, you wanna know if Tina is with other men when her location is off.

I don't have to do that.

Tina says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her GPS and found that Tina is telling the truth.

I told you.

I told you. So if you really wanna know, if you really wanna know, her frequent locations are Wendy's and the nail salon.

That's where she at the most.

And the Wendy's is for him.

He get her Wendy's.

That's where you at the most.

It is not. It is.

Mr. Biggie Mac, you said.

When was the last time you brought me some Wendy's home?

We just had Wendy's the other day. We had Wendy's.

I said when was the last time you brought me home some? Listen. Okay, let's get Jamal on camera.

Okay, so, how do you feel about that? That we couldn't find anything in her phone?

I accept it.

I already dang near knew it wasn't gonna be nothing in your phone 'cause I told you you use other people's phones.

I do not. I did not.

I done caught you multiple times using other people's phones. Listen, you caught me. You don't do nothing.

You caught me that time. You a vet.

You a veteran at what you do. Yes, you are.

I don't have to do that type of stuff. You're enough for me. Oh, okay.

Listen, Bando.

Bando. Bando. Bando. Bando. Unlock your phone.

Come on. Come on. Come on. Let's get to it.

Well, Tino, you wanna know if Bando is still on Tinder. Bando says he is not. My last one investigator searched his apps and found that Bando is telling the truth. Okay, okay. But he does have the Tinder password saved in his phone. I'm sure he does.

And that's from when it was on there and I deleted it.

Okay, I can accept that.

You know how to save passwords.

Tina, you wanna know if Bando is messaging other women? Yes. Bando says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his texts and found that Bando is telling the truth.

Okay, okay, okay. Okay, okay.

But there's a reason for this telling the truth. We did not find any message between Bando and another woman because my investigator found that Bando tampered with his phone on September 22nd.

September 22nd.

Around the time that Tina searched his phone last. And what happened? So with all the tampering he did, we're not able to find those messages. I'm sorry. What you doing?

I told y'all. Karamo, how the fuck did you sneak in my phone?

Hold up, it was Bando, 'cause it was the day that she told you, that's the day you tampered with it. We tracked it.

That message that I saw that you told me that I didn't see, it made me feel like I was crazy. Where did you find that message at? I didn't find anything, I saw it and you moved that phone out the way. I already know, I already know, you're sneaky.

Tina, you also wanna know if Bando is still being sneaky. Yes. Mm-hmm. Bando says he is not. Clearly. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his phone and we did find this suspicious. We found you texting. Can I see this real quick? Mm-hmm. It says you searched for, oh, you searched for how to delete data and messages from iCloud. Wow. How can messages be recovered on the iPhone?

You was prepared. And you also wanna know how tall I am? You came prepared. Hold on.

You came prepared, exactly. Like I said.

Hold on, let me find out. So you trying to figure out how tall I am? And you wanna know how tall I am? I wasn't necessarily trying. Hold fast. Hold fast. No, I wasn't trying to figure out trying to find out. And that's how to Delete Nothing.

That's 12:30 in the morning. You said, can the messages be recovered on iPhone? The answer is yes. At 12:31, how can you delete data messages from the iCloud? That's 12:31. See what I'm saying? And at 1:44, you then go curious about me.

How tall am I? No, no, no. Hold on now. Can I say something? Go ahead. Can I say something?

By the way, I'm six' three. Okay, you're six' two. I'm six' two.

The whole thing. Because I just want to explain it. It was never I'm not trying to delete nothing or none of that. Okay. Why you gonna Google it? You gonna try, you be explaining. I'm about to explain. Can I explain?

Go ahead. Yeah, can I explain? Go ahead, go ahead.

Yesterday when we was in the room, I was watching a couple of your shows. So it said somebody was tampering with their phone.

I'm like, how did he?

And then you went and Googled it and figured it out.

Yeah, 'cause I'm like, how can you even do this? Like, how can you tamper with somebody's phone? Yeah, you did it and you did it well. You did it well. Listen, I didn't know I was gonna be tampering with it just by searching something. Like, that's not tampering.

Me tampering In this booth, I'm trying to hurry up and—

Can y'all check computers?

Listen, you can be sneaky, but you can't be sneaky past our investigator. We gonna find all this.

Okay. Okay, so we know. Even so, did you guys find anything? We can't because it's been tampered with. I didn't tamper. They even said I wasn't texting nobody. I ain't been— Okay. Okay. I don't understand it.

Okay, this is what I'm gonna say to y'all. So what I have tracked is from the beginning, Year 1, your foundation was unstable.

What I do understand is I understand when you said, I don't wanna break the family up. I understand that. And my job is to never break families up. But what you're doing in front of the family is gonna initially break their emotional state. It's gonna break their self-esteem. It's gonna break them if you all can't get it together. So what I'm hoping by telling you this is that you can get this together.

That's facts. You're correct.

So the issue is trust and security. How can we rebuild this? Security in this relationship? What do you need to feel secure? Talk to your man. I need the accusations to stop for one.

I need better communication and I need you to be there for me mentally. I just need a hug sometimes.

What do you need to feel secure?

I just need to know you there. Like you have moments that you distance yourself from me. And that make me feel insecure though, you know what I'm saying? Because I be like, dang, my woman don't even like me. And then, you know, our kids getting older, so they be going their own ways, having their little attitudes, and you who I fall back on, you see what I'm saying? So I be like, man, I don't even know if I should be here. Like, should I just walk off? 'Cause I don't even feel, I don't feel locked in, I don't feel secure. And then, you know, we had problems where I used to be like, I feel like the house is empty. Is against me, you see what I'm saying? Like, we get into it, now everybody in the house not talking to me.

What I'm trying to do is identify for y'all so that when y'all get off this stage, y'all can have a real conversation about really what's going on in y'all heads, really what's happening. And it's not just for y'all. At this point, you have a blended family and these children, when you just said that they get silent and they start taking sides, that shows me that there's going to be emotional stunting that's gonna happen in their lives. Do y'all want that? No. Oh no. What's making you emotional?

'Cause you're hitting it dead on. You're hitting everything dead on.

Yeah. I love you. I love you.

You know I love you.

Okay, you both need to take accountability for this relationship and I need y'all to have a real, real conversation when y'all get home. And when y'all start talking about things, I need y'all to remember one thing. If we don't fix ourselves, we gonna keep breaking these kids. That's the mantra y'all gonna say in that house, okay?

Yes, sir. And now the next thing I'm gonna say to you is stop checking the phones.

What's that doing is keeping y'all mixed up and not focusing on what the real issue is, okay? And the real issue is what I helped y'all identify. I hope y'all do the work. I really do because I wanna see y'all grow. I really do, all right?

I wish y'all the best of luck, all right? Thank you. All right then, listen, and tell everybody, Tell everybody I'm 6'3", all right? Thank you. All right, stay with us, friends. We'll be right back for more.