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5 Jun 2024 · 1 min

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In this brief YouTube short, Speaker A delivers a direct, heartfelt admonition to a young woman who feels guilty for taking responsibility for her boyfriend. Emphasizing that she is only 20 and their relationship is still youthful, Speaker A urges her to recognize that her partner is not her responsibility, warning that over‑responsibility will stunt her personal growth. Speaker A asks her to verbally affirm the statement, prompting Speaker B to repeat, “He not my responsibility,” reinforcing the boundary‑setting mantra. The clip centers on codependency, the importance of setting emotional boundaries, and encouraging self‑growth.

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There's two things here that's breaking my heart. First of all, you as a young woman, you have taken on this role and feel this guilt as if you have to be responsible for him. And you have to start to practice learning that he's not your responsibility. And as hard as it is for you to say to yourself that he's not my responsibility because you love him and you want to be there for him and y'all been together since 16, this is that young puppy love. Y'all only 20, but he's not your responsibility. And the more that you make him responsibility, you're gonna stifle your own growth. And I say that to you as a young woman who's trying to do your own stuff. You gotta be able to figure out and say, "This is not my responsibility." You gotta be able to go somewhere else. He's not your responsibility. Say it to me right now.
He not my responsibility.
Say it to him.
You're not my responsibility.