Hidden Camera Catches Wife's MESSY Confession! | KARAMO

My producers told me that you had lost some weight. You had some weight loss? How much?

Yes, 100 pounds.

Congratulations.

Okay then. Yes, yes.

Do you feel like your man has treated you differently since then?

Yes, he has.

Okay, in what way?

He has not touched me since March. March, April, May, June, July, August, September, October. Nothing.

March, nothing?

No intimacy whatsoever. Wow. And it's making me feel less than a woman. Uh-huh. You know, every man should want a little fuck, you know?

Right?

They want it, you know?

Yes.

And we not that old. We not old. We should be getting it in.

Yeah, you still young.

And we not getting nothing in.

Okay then.

But sleep.

Okay, but sleep. Have you talked to him about this?

Yes.

And what does he say?

A bunch of excuses.

Okay, what kind of excuses?

Oh, the kids, the grandkids, I gotta go to work, and I gotta do this, and you know, just a whole bunch of excuses.

Got it.

Excuses I don't want no more.

You don't want any more?

No.

Oh, you want intimacy.

So something's happening with him. Something's going on with him.

Got it.

And I need to know what it is.

Got it. So what other red flags have appeared?

Well, on his birthday in May, he said he was in Oklahoma. I called him on his birthday. I didn't get no answer from him the 11th, 12th, or the 13th. He showed up on the 14th saying he was asleep for 3 days. Who sleeps for 3 days? Who does that?

Okay, hold on. Said he was asleep for 3 days?

He was asleep. Said he was asleep for 3 days.

No, that couldn't have been his excuse. That couldn't have been it.

That's what he said it was.

What? Okay, my producer told me you caught him FaceTiming a woman in the bathroom?

Yes, this was back in 2021, '22.

2021.

So he used to be a truck driver and so he used to come home and I used to check his phone. Yes, I did. I checked his phone and he was FaceTiming a lady at 2 or 3 o'clock in the morning while I'm in there asleep. Who, where they do that at?

And who did he say the woman was?

I don't know who she was.

Still to this day?

No, I don't.

And this is 2021 when he did that? Mm-hmm.

Okay then.

And was he with that woman while on the road?

I don't know.

Okay, so you don't know?

I really don't know.

What about 2022? Was he with another woman on the road?

Yeah, he was. There was a woman in his truck. When he FaceTimed me, it was a woman sitting in his truck.

What?

Yes.

And who did he say the woman was?

He told me I was crazy. That there was no woman in the truck and I'm seeing a woman sitting there in the truck.

You like looking at the woman?

Yes, I'm looking at the woman and then he turned the camera so I couldn't see her and it was like, "Nah, that ain't no woman, I don't know what you talking about." So he just gaslighted you like you just said? Yes, oh yes, so many times.

Got it.

So many times.

Have you talked to any of the women that he was cheating with?

I called one lady and she said she was a nurse that she didn't get, 'cause these are supposed to be the ladies that he used to get high with. So, you know, he used to do cocaine. So he said these ladies that he used to get high with, right? This lady said she didn't get high with him, that was her boyfriend. How he gonna be her boyfriend and he my husband? Where they do that at?

Well, you asked him to take a drug test today, did you not?

Yes, I did. 'Cause I wants to know.

You want clarity, okay. So this is a surprise drug test. So if he is using, we would catch it because there was nothing pre-planned about this.

Right. And that's what I wanted.

What are you gonna do if we find something in his phone?

We gonna have to either leave it here or we gonna have to work it out.

Got it.

Something's got to change.

Well, you moved out. So you're at your wits. You're at your end.

I am.

Okay then. I think it's time to hear Carlos' side of the story and hear what he has to say about all this. So everyone, welcome Carlos to the show. Hey Carlos, how you doing, man?

Man, I'm already the bad guy, man.

You are the bad guy. Well, I'm waiting to hear your side of the story, so I have no opinion on you. I don't know what they feel, okay? They a little shady and messier than me, but you know. So I'm gonna ask you point blank, straightforward. Are you cheating right now?

No, I'm not.

Okay then.

I don't understand why she would say I'm cheating because she take me to work, she pick me up from work, I go home, Is that true?

Yeah, it's true, but sometimes he take the car.

Okay.

But he takes the car and you don't have to have sex with somebody to be cheating. Anything a woman don't know about, that's cheating, right?

I could talk to anybody in the audience, that don't mean I'm cheating with them.

Well, what she's saying is that if there's transparency, she wants transparency. So are you still attracted to her after the weight loss surgery?

I am, she think I'm not.

Okay, so what happened last night?

So then why has there not been any intimacy?

She know why, man.

Why?

It's because of the medicine I take. She ain't telling you that, man. You gotta tell the whole story.

Okay, but you been on medicine ever since I met you.

So you saying before it didn't affect him, but now it's starting to affect him?

Yes, I feel like it's affecting me because of this right here, because of losing weight. I feel like that's what it is. Last night, it wasn't no kids, it wasn't nothing.

So what happened? You just had an operation. I was asking you, are you okay, Victoria? Are you okay? You just had your gallbladder taken out. I'm taking that into consideration. I asked you, was you okay? If you would've said you wasn't okay, then it would've been on.

I know y'all are here to unlock the phone because you need some answers of what's going on. So I think it's time to unlock the phone. All right, Carlos, we unlocked your phone.

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

All right, Victoria, you wanna know if Carlos is sliding into other women's DMs. He says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his DMs and found that Carlos is telling the truth.

You owe me.

Victoria, you wanna know if Carlos is interacting with women online. He says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his phone and found that Carlos Is not telling the truth.

Oh! About what?

My investigator found you accessed Tinder online and used Victoria's username when you logged in. Why was that? Tinder? Tinder? Yep.

I don't even know what that is.

Okay.

I promise you I don't.

Well, my investigator found that you accessed Tinder online and used her username.

Tinder is a dating site.

I wouldn't even—

Always a dating site.

Hold on, did you have a Tinder site?

No, I didn't have no Tinder. I had a Plenty. Plenty of fish.

Did you have a, hold on, did you have a Tinder at one time?

I don't have Tinder.

He had a Tinder. Yes, you did. I ain't had no Tinder. Okay.

Okay. No.

Okay, okay.

Okay, that's a little confusing 'cause it's your username.

Is that, how was this?

Okay, he can make up a username, that's not my username.

Okay, okay.

No.

It looks suspicious.

Victoria, you want to know if Carlos is texting other women. He said he is not. My Lockdown Investigator searched his texts and found that Carlos Telling the truth. Is not telling the truth. My investigator found a text thread soliciting an escort. We can take a look at this.

An escort?

Carlos, it's 30 minutes till no deposit refund. This is May.

How many hours do you need for me?

So this is also Carlos right before your birthday. So you trying to give yourself a birthday gift?

Yes, yes.

'Cause it's his birthday May 11th, right? And that's when you disappeared when he was at your cousin's house, right?

I knew it, I knew it, I knew it.

You were cheating?

What does that mean then if it don't mean you was cheating? Hello, come on now. I'm not cheating. Look at this right here. Look at this. And for 3 days, for 3 days I didn't even hear from you.

I ain't even have no other female.

This is the profile that he had communicated.

Oh, okay.

Thank you. So I gotta say, there is no evidence that they met up. We can't find a text saying that I'm outside or something, but.

That was something my cousin probably D, man, during my birthday, man.

I told you, everything is somebody else's fault. Everybody is somebody else's fault, yeah.

Okay.

Everything is somebody else's fault.

Okay, but I gotta say that my investigator did conclude that there was no evidence to show that you met up with her. So like I said, we don't know.

But listen, whether he met up with her or not, you did not answer my phone calls for a whole day.

Oh, on that date?

I was wrong for that.

I was wrong for that, but that don't mean I'm wrong. But you see how it could be suspicious?

Yes, I don't know.

You could have just told me that. You could have told me that.

Nah, you could have just told me that.

So you think your cousin took your phone?

Oh, he could have probably been jiving with me that, man, we was dumb, man. Man, when I was in Oklahoma, man, I don't even drink, man. He took me to the bar.

Okay, well, who's the white girl on that? Who is that? Well, Victoria, you also asked Carlos to take a drug test. Let's unlock the truth about that.

Let's unlock it.

Let's do that.

Okay. Let's do that. Let's do that. Victoria, you wanna know if Carlos is currently taking any drugs, including cocaine. No. We gave Carlos a drug test and he—

Clean. Pass.

Did not test positive for any drugs, okay. So there were no drugs found in Carlos' system. Drug free, man. Yeah, drug free.

Drug free, man.

Oh my goodness.

Yes, sir.

I was about to smack you right there.

All right, so yeah. If I was a betting man, based on the knowledge I have, I would assume that for your birthday, after a long road trip, you had went to your cousin's house, get messed up, you probably started using again for that weekend. You don't need to confirm or deny, I'm gonna tell you what my opinion is. And I believe during that time you were using, and during those times of you using cocaine again, drinking, you then also were probably talking and was like, oh, maybe we should get a girl, like doing this and that. I think that's where that text message came in. And then I think that as the drugs wore off, as they normally do, that it put your ass out and you was knocked the hell out. And so for a day and a half, you sat in bed and you didn't do anything.

So you don't—

If I was a betting man, that's what I would assume happened. And then you woke up and realized, oh damn, I messed up. I didn't call her, I didn't text her. But like in your mind you're also thinking, ooh, good, at least I didn't do anything. But in essence, you did do something. What you did was you broke the trust and security by not being in communication with her. And that's who it is. And so if there's nothing else, I will tell you that's what is the problem here. She's clearly stuck around long enough, but her moving out is clearly her telling you, I'm at my wit's end. Okay?

I do anything to get this. I do anything.

Well, I'm telling you what to do. I'm telling you what to do. You ain't got a question.

I'm taking it in.

Well, listen, listen, Carlos, you also wanted Victoria's phone unlocked. So Victoria, We unlocked your phone. Victoria said, okay.

Okay.

All right. Carlos, you want to know if Victoria's messaging other men on social media. She says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her DMs and found that Victoria is telling the truth.

Good, then, baby.

Carlos, you want to know if Victoria is texting other men. She says she is not. Is telling the truth. I told you. Carlos, you want to know if Victoria is talking to other men. She said she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her phone and found that Victoria is telling the truth.

I told you. I told you. I told you.

I told you. Hold on. Ooh, hold on. My producers are shady. They told me that they have something else that they need me to see. Oh snap.

Oh my goodness.

I'm gonna tell you, hold on, hold on.

What is this?

Okay, my producers are telling me right now that backstage, you know, we got cameras everywhere, that they caught a conversation on hidden camera that they need me to see.

What?

Okay, what is this? Let's look here.

It was March 2nd. Of 2021. Yeah, I went to South Carolina, but before I left, I had one night stand. I did. Then I never called this guy again. I never talked to him no more. None of that. I met him on a dating app, and I met him, and we were talking because my husband was gone all week. He was gone a week and I was at home by myself a week. And so I met him and he came over that Saturday and I went to church that Sunday. I got up and went to church that Sunday.

Yeah, and went to church. You went to church?

Yes, I did. I had to.

Hold on, you was up in here quoting the scripture.

She was up in here quoting the scripture talking about, listen, I'm the sanctity of the marriage.

And after you cheated on the—

Yes. She actually had sex with, I was just in the presence of a woman.

I didn't have, I didn't fuck no woman. I ain't have, that's not cheating.

I don't know what you did.

That's not cheating.

What do you think about this?

At least I'm honest.

Okay.

I am honest. And he was gone a whole week. He was gone a whole week.

No, no, no, we not justifying no more, no. We ain't justifying no more.

He could've been dead.

If he was dead, that don't mean go lay underneath another man and go to church, no.

Well, what they say? To get over one man, to get up under another.

Uh-uh, uh-uh, no, no, no, we ain't on your side.

No, no, no.

Paula, what are your thoughts? What are your thoughts?

Man, she accusing me. She accusing me of doing, she accusing me. She don't have proof.

Okay.

But she, she—

Well, she got some proof. We found this. We don't know if there was actual, but we do know that you was about to call somebody.

She slept with a man in our bed.

How you know she was in the bed though? How you know she was in the bed?

This is what I'm gonna say to you. This is what I'm gonna say to you. At this point, the past, this is what I'm gonna, if you really actually wanna work on this, the past, I'm gonna go ahead and wipe y'all even. Now that we heard this, ain't no upper hand. Y'all even. Playing field is even. Playing field is even. So you ain't got no upper hand here. So you can't say nothing.

Nope, nope.

You can't say nothing no more. Nope, nope, nope. You can't say nope. You can't say nothing no more.

No more.

Playing field is even. And if she ever say something, you say, you repeat my words, say playing field is even.

Playing field is even.

But now what I'm gonna say to you from here on, yeah, you get that authority. But what I'm gonna say to you now, if you wanna work forward and move forward, if they actually want this, there is a key step that can happen. There needs to be intimacy. And it's not just physical, it's also mental. You two need, I'm gonna tell you, when y'all get home, I didn't know, Y'all need to tell, don't nobody come over the house. You go back over his house or the house who you staying in. And if you really wanna work on this, you need to say, what can I do to make you feel desired? What can I make you feel like I want you? And let her tell you. Then now, after you are satisfied, okay? You're gonna sit up and you're gonna say, let me hear everything that's going on in that mind. Validate his feelings, validate his thoughts, validate his fears. Let him know that I know you've been going through some stuff, I know you've been dealing with some stuff, and I want to let you know I am there with you. You be intimate with her body, you get intimate with his mind. If you two can do that in one evening, y'all will be taking the first steps to a healthy relationship.

Thank you.

Thank you so much. Sound good for you?

Yes.

Sound good to you?

Yes.

Dang good.

Sound good? Okay, great. Listen, well, okay, remember, playing even field, playing field here. All right, all right.