I Caught My Husband In Bed With Another Woman! | KARAMO

Tell me, how did your marriage take a turn in September?

I received, well, he was getting phone calls about 4:30 in the morning. She repeatedly was calling and I'm like, who is this lady? So I tried calling her from the phone, or my phone, I'm sorry. Did not answer, so I shot her a text, like, why are you messaging my husband at 4 o'clock in the morning? She proceeded to tell me that it was her boyfriend. What?

So from what she said, he was in a relationship.

Correct.

Do you believe it?

From what I was, I'll admit to you, I was tracking him by GPS after that happened and his car was within the area that where this lady lived.

Okay, so I just gotta go back. When did you first discover that Ed was being untruthful?

In September.

In September. So this is all recently that this is happening? Yes. Okay, and what else made you suspicious?

Him not coming home when he was supposed to, credit cards.

And y'all been together for 20 years?

20 years, since I've been 17.

17 years old. So this is your first love? Yes. And do y'all have any kids?

We have 2 boys.

2 sons, okay. So what else has made you suspicious about what's happening with him?

He would disappear for a couple days at a time.

Where does he go? Or where does he stay go?

He says he's going to a friend's house.

Has Ed been unfaithful before? In this situation? Situation?

In the beginning of our marriage, I did find him in bed with another woman. I'm sorry.

No, I see you shaking and I see your eyes welling up. 20 years, I'm 17 and this is the man I fall in love with and I'm telling someone that he was in a bed with another woman. I know this is hurting you. I know it is. So you don't ever have to apologize for that. How's this also affecting your family? Because I can see how it's affecting you.

My son actually seen some of the text messages and they're pretty raunchy.

The text messages between Ed and these other women?

This last woman, yes.

And how old is this son?

He was 14 at the time.

14 years old.

That really affected him.

And when you say graphic, what is it saying in these messages? Fantasy of And what did Ed have to say about this when you?

He says that he was trying to hook up with friends from work and this girl just became obsessed with him.

Ed has also accused you of cheating, right?

He has.

And how did that affect you?

Well, it affected me because I literally thought I did everything right. I worked my ass off to get where we're at today. Literally had nothing. I'm not saying we're wealthy by all means, but we're pretty blessed. We actually just lost our home in May. We had a house fire.

So you're talking about cheating, September, you're talking about your son, 15 years old, seeing messages of your husband telling another woman that he has fantasies about. Then your house goes on fire.

Yes.

This is back to, and while this is all happening, your husband's accusing you of cheating?

Correct.

So we're here today to unlock Ed's phone, correct?

Yes, I feel like if we can have that open communication, we could possibly work past this. Family's everything. Life is short and you can work through anything if you choose to do so.

So for you, you're saying if you just want the truth.

I do.

And you can move past it.

I do.

Okay.

I'm a very forgiving person. People make mistakes.

Well, I don't know about all them mistakes. I don't know. I'm not here to judge your relationship. I'm just here to get my— I don't know about all that. Like, it's—

No, yeah.

Am I alone? OK, thank you. All right, well, listen, everyone. It's time to talk to Ed. So please welcome Ed to the show. Hey, Ed.

How you doing, man?

Good. Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you.

We gotta start off because we've heard a lot. For the record, have you been intimate with other women?

No.

You've never been intimate?

No.

Okay, so her saying that she caught you in bed is not right.

Well, that was my alcohol days. I was passed out drunk.

So you're saying that there was a time that you were in alcohol?

Yeah.

And that's when she caught you in bed with another woman, okay.

It wasn't like that at all.

So you're saying there was no sex?

No, not at all.

You didn't have sex at all?

No.

Did he tell you this?

He did. But I saw what I saw. She was literally laying on top of him.

So what about the woman who called herself your girlfriend?

She was just like a thing, like the joker. Well, not joker, me and a buddy, and so I was trying to hook him up and then it turned into all kinds of, I don't know, sexual junk talk.

So you say you're always hanging with your friend Bud? Yeah. Is this your best friend?

No, he was just a work friend. I don't have enough emotion to have a good friend like that, I guess. Got it.

So he's just a work friend that you sometimes go out with?

No, I just go to his house and hang out just to have someone to talk to other than sitting at home doing nothing.

Christina, do you believe him?

I want to. I wanna believe him.

Okay, so let's go on to this. How did that make you feel knowing that your son saw these messages between you and another woman?

I don't know.

Your what? Talk to me.

Just started spouting off stuff just for attention. That was kind of crazy.

So you feel like he was reading your messages for attention?

Yes, it's 100% what it was.

Okay, so how often does your son bring up these messages?

Anytime he can, he'll throw it in her face.

So anytime your son can, he'll bring up your messages?

Yes, he still does today.

What type of attention do you think he's seeking? All, any kind.

Any kind of attention.

So you agree, you think that he was pretending?

I do agree. He was a premature baby, so we really coddled him a lot. And him and his dad were very close friends. They were little buddies. And when this all happened, obviously the relationship suffered from that.

How's this situation affected your intimacy? Are you two still sleeping together?

Oh yeah. Oh yeah. More. More? Yeah.

Hold on. 'Cause the math ain't mathin' right there. The math is not right. The math ain't mathin'. So you get cheating allegations.

See, what happened was that happened and then we fell back deeply in love. That's what happened.

So hold on. So let me find that out. So y'all have arguments about the cheating and then it leads to makeup sex. Is that what I'm putting together?

I don't know. She kind of took care of me for like a week while I was pretty sick. And I don't know, we just started Started to connect more and that's how it happened.

So you think you getting sick and her nursing you is what made y'all have more sex?

Oh no, no, no, no. That's what started her getting more into me and then— The connection. Well, when you're with each other and then I don't know how else to explain it.

For the record, are you hiding anything from Christina?

No.

Nothing at all?

No.

She knows everything about what's happening between you all?

Yeah.

Christina, do you feel like he's hiding stuff from you?

Today, no.

Today, no. So if you don't feel like he's hiding anything from you, why do you want me to unlock his phone?

I just, it's peace of mind.

Peace of mind. Do you think Christina's hiding anything from you? 'Cause you want me to unlock her phone too.

I didn't, I don't know. We didn't have a lot of sex. I don't know.

Well, let me tell you exactly what you told my phone investigator. You said, "Ed told us that he wants to find out 3 things specifically. He wants to know if Christina's being intimate with your former roommate. You wanna know if Christina's being intimate with your cousin. And you also wanna know about Christina's MySpace account.

That's for pictures for the theme. That's for wedding pictures only. We didn't have no, 'cause they lost in a fire. That's for only for that.

These are the things he asked for.

The MySpace thing is for our wedding pictures. We lost all of our pictures in our house fire.

So you just wanna know if the account is still active?

Yes, we were trying to recover 'em so we can get our photos back.

Okay, and so number 3, you also wanna know, is she cheating? So what would you do if you discovered that she's been unfaithful?

She's all I know, so I don't know.

She's all you know?

Yeah, first time I've been loved ever.

This is the first time you've been what?

Loved ever.

Loved.

My parents and all.

Okay. The thing is, is that I do understand that there's probably childhood trauma here. I do get that. But there's a lot of things that just don't add up to me. And I'm a man that, y'all as well, right? See, this is what I love about my family here is I'm just listening to how both of you are talking And I'm like, okay, you're saying this happened, but I'm okay with this. And then this happened, but we're fine. And I see the emotion, which I do believe is raw. I don't believe it's fake, but I'm not sure if the emotion is placed in the right, I feel like it's misplaced. Like I just don't understand. And then even with you, you've told my phone investigators and my producers certain things that you're questioning. And right now sitting in front of your wife, you're like, mm, I don't know.

Like which one?

Like everything I just listed, the 3 things you said you wanna know. And then you as well. You're saying, well, I trust him now.

I don't feel like he's doing anything right now. I just want to know if that actually happened back in September, October. That's why we're here. We're here for closure. We're here to heal as a family.

Got it, okay. Well, I think now it's time to unlock these phones. First, Christina, you want to know Who Bud is? Ed says he's a friend. My Unlock the Phone investigator found there is no record of Bud in your phone, Ed. You're not telling the truth. So who is Bud? There is no record of Bud or anywhere in your phone anywhere. So who is Bud?

I don't talk on the phone or use it like that. So why would there even be anything like that? Do I talk on the phone? I don't ever talk on the phone.

I know you've been in a relationship for 20 years, but don't let this, man gaslight you like that? How you do not have, how is it that this is a friend you just told me you go over their house consistently to hang out and you don't have your friend in your phone?

No, I don't use the phone.

So how do you get in contact with Bud to let him know you're on your way?

Work. Or yeah, the guard just go down there. He's right on the road. Uh-huh.

Okay. Christina, how you feel about that one?

I don't.

Do I use the phone?

He does not use the phone now.

All right, Christina, you wanted to know if Ed has a secret Facebook account.

I do. She knows.

Ed says he doesn't, but you admitted to my producers that you do have two Facebook accounts, so you did not tell the truth.

I just said I did. I never said I didn't.

All right, number 3, Christina, you want to know if Ed is still communicating with other women. Ed, you said No.

It's impossible. I'm gonna call him all the time.

My unlock the phone investigators searched the text and found that you are not telling the truth. We got two of the messages on this screen that I wanted to show up.

What?

These are text messages. All right, this is a text message. You awake? I need to real fast. I go to jail tomorrow. This is a message from a woman to Ed. Can we show the second message as well? The second message, "Available? Yeah. Location? Me to your mobile." Yes, gotta pick.

She knew about them. Those are old.

Christina?

See, they don't care, dude. Those are old. She's already read them.

It's not that I care. This is your relationship and you asked me to unlock your phone. So what I'm trying to just do is give her the information.

For truth, we asked for a—

And by the way, the first message was August 14th. So did you know about that?

That first was my sister.

August 14th.

Yes.

So you knew about the August 14th one. Did you know about this one?

That one I did not, no.

Okay, so you did not know about this one.

The first one I did.

I didn't see the second one. Well, you see there's a number 3 on there. Can I have the evidence back? 'Cause we have a third text message. Thank you so much.

Okay, fine.

We have a third message right here. That I want you to see. And this is communication between Ed and a sex worker that came up as well around the same time.

Hey, those are me and her both using the phone.

So you're trying to say that she was interacting with a sex worker?

We were doing it for fun.

So Christina, do you know about this?

Was this the lady from?

Christina, what is your thought about this?

This one, if this is the same one, this is the one.

I know, I know. All right, so we gonna move on. Christina, we got your results of your phone as well. All right, Ed, you want to know if Christina was communicating with your former roommate. She says no. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched Christina's text And she is telling the truth.

Congratulations. 2008 Peas.

Ed wanted to know if Christina was communicating inappropriately with his cousin. Christina, you said no. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched Christina's text and you are telling the truth.

Good.

He's lying. All right, Ed, you also want to know if Christina is cheating with anyone. She says no. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched Christina's DMs and you are not telling the truth.

Oh!

All right, so can we pull up the DM message?

Yeah, I gotta see this.

So this is a message from March 25th.

That's me, just, that's me.

That was him messaging people on my Facebook asking, basically he thought I was sleeping with everybody.

So like I said again, y'all are toxic. How's that? How is that? Ed, you're asking me. You gaslight each other. You're over here sending messages and doing things behind each other's back. Your children have seen messages. Listen, I don't care what's going on in reality show because I'm not in it. You came on my show, remember that? And so I'm here to give you my advice. If you didn't wanna come on my show, you should've gave me your phone.

You already knew all that.

What I'm saying to you is that you two are an unhealthy 20-year relationship and the only thing that I'm concerned about is the two fact that you have two children that are involved in this situation. So what I would suggest to you is to figure out how to fix y'all's mess so that your children could be in a stable house.

Those are all, you know those are all us together emotions, right?

Yeah, you can whisper to her all you say. The fact of the matter is that we know what's going on here. What'd we get out of it?

Did we ask for an answer? One answer.

We didn't ask for all this shit, brother. Get yourself together. You need to calm yourself down. What we're not gonna do on this day.

Call back to us together.

What we are not going to do on this stage is try to gaslight me. You need to figure out how to handle your family situation. You need to handle your family situation, okay?

He didn't help us at all.

I wish y'all the best of luck. Everyone, thank you so much for being with us. Do you love The Karamo Show?

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