I Caught You Cheating With The Plug...I'm Done! | KARAMO

It was my 21st birthday.

Yes.

And I'm just going off 'cause now I could put my ID and get liquor. So it's like, okay, bet. I get a message from this girl. She's like, oh, that she fucked him and that she has screenshots and that nudes, blah, blah, blah, et cetera. I'm like, okay, send them 'cause I don't believe her. But then I seen the screenshots.

You're like, give me the proof.

Yeah.

Yeah.

She sends them, whatever. It's the same screenshots. No, it's the same dudes that he sent You sent me. So I was like, oh. I was like, okay. So then I tell him, he's like, oh, she made it all up because I had to go pick up my brother. And he went and go picked up his brother. And the thing is, I find out the girl is the older sister to his little brother's girlfriend. So it's like, bet. So then he's like, oh, he went to go pick up his brother. He goes in to pee and he's like, oh, I left my phone open on the table and she grabbed the phone and then did all this in 3.5 seconds for him peeing.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So I was like, okay, cool, I don't believe it. So then I wait 2 months to ask him again. If a liar is a liar, he can't tell the same story twice, right?

Got it, uh-huh.

So he adds in, oh, when I went to pee, she grabbed the phone, made that up, but she ran in the room and then he went in the room and then stole the phone, left, disappeared, never went back. And I was like, okay.

Different story now.

Different story again. So it's like, oh, okay. So I wait 2 months again, ask him the story. He's like, oh, okay.

Hold on, let me back up. So now he done gave you a different story. Why are you still there?

Yeah, I just love him.

Okay, okay, I didn't hear it again.

The thing is, when this happened, I was already 3 months engaged. So it's like, okay.

You wanna believe in the marriage? You wanna believe in the fairy tale?

Yeah, I wanna believe in the white picket fence.

White picket fence, I hear that. As you should, you know, because everyone deserves And he deserves that. Yes. Okay, with the right person.

Yeah.

Okay, so tell me, so another 2 months later pass and you saying you asked him again and what happens?

Then he adds in this detail. He said, when I ran in the room to get my phone, she was in a towel and she was like, oh, she flashed at him and then he ran out with his phone, never went back. So I was like, okay. And the thing about this, you know what's crazy is I told him, if you ever feel like you need to cheat, 'cause I'm bi, right? So I told him, if you wanna cheat on me, just bring the girl to me and we could both do that with her.

You know what I'm saying?

So it's like, but then it's like, it's like—

Listen, I have said a million times on this show to men that have been sitting here, I'm like, instead of cheating, there's a woman out there with you that is going to be down for whatever you're down for. It's about honest communication. And the fact, what's killing me right now, what's killing me right now, and I haven't heard AJ's side of the story, so I wanna hear his side. I don't wanna judge yet. But what you're telling me and what I'm hearing is that you have said, "Hey, you don't need to cheat. I'm down for the get down." Just bring them to me. And yet you're still getting different stories. From him?

Yes.

Interesting.

So yeah.

So what's the excuse AJ gave you this week?

That's the thing. So we're gonna come here. So then I was like, oh, you have one last time to tell me the truth.

Yes.

And he hits me with, oh, so when I went to go get my phone and she flashed me, I fucked her, but it was 2 seconds and I ran out, never came back. I was like, I was like, okay. I was like, okay, so I was like, yeah.

So now it went from she stole my phone.

Made the 3. The 3 posts. Screenshots.

And then she grabbed the phone and she ran out. Then she's in a towel and then we had 2-second sex.

2-second sex.

Got it.

Ran out the back.

Okay, did you have a child with him?

I mean, I had a child, but he wants to be stepdad, so it's like. It's like the baby is in love with him and it's like—

Got it, got it, got it, got it. Okay, so there was a time that you all had a break and you had a child without him, okay. So both of you at some point knew that this wasn't working and you went on your way and he went on his way. So why are you two trying to make it work? 'Cause you love him.

Yeah.

I hear it, okay. So Gabby, you told my Unlock the Phone investigator that you wanna know if AJ is texting any other women, if AJ is communicating with any other women, And if AJ is direct messaging any other women, that's your concerns. Well, I think it's time to hear what AJ has to say about all this. So everyone please welcome AJ to the show.

Hey, let go, let go.

How you doing, AJ?

Nice to meet you. Yes, sir.

AJ, how do you feel about what was just said?

I mean, me personally, you know, that was my mistake on a lot of stuff that I've done, you know, talking to other women and stuff like that, you know, but that was through like, what I call overthinking, you know what I'm saying? So yeah, she might have did a little too much on a lot of talking, you know what I'm saying? I know her personally.

So because she did a lot of talking, you thought, oh, now this gives me permission to go sleep with other people?

Nah, basically like, you know, flipping the story instead of like trying to hear the actual truth. And when you argue with someone and you know that person's trying to tell you the whole truth, you know, you can't just sit there and be like, oh, you're a liar, this and that, because you know, You're not trying to believe it, you know what I'm saying?

But she said that for one of the stories, she said with the person on the phone, she said that you gave her 4 different versions over every 6-month period. And then up until even the other day where you told her this woman who sent photos on the phone that you had 2-second sex with.

Nah.

So you didn't have 2-second sex with some other woman? Nah. How long was the sex?

Honestly, personally, like I said, it was, hey look, man, hey, 2 seconds, that's like calling me a minute man at that point, you know what I'm saying? 'Cause I'm not a minute man.

Exactly, how long was it?

Honestly, 10, 15.

10, 15 minutes, okay.

I didn't try to make it too long because again, I wasn't thinking about that person. I was mostly thinking about her, you know what I'm saying?

Okay, so what we just got now was an omission that you did fully have sex with this woman.

Yeah.

And she's saying that you did not. You told her several times that you did not, but you just finally admitted that you engaged with this woman, you had sex.

Yeah, yeah, you know, I wanted to tell her the truth because if I would've kept going on and on and on.

So why didn't you tell the truth the first time?

Honestly, I was a little bit nervous 'cause I didn't know how to tell her, you know what I'm saying? I didn't wanna break her. And that being said, if I'd have told her firsthand, she would've probably just cut me off and that would've been it from there.

Got it, okay. So you thought if I manipulate her, I can string her along for a little bit longer.

Nah, not like that. But you know what I'm saying?

Nah, that ain't it.

Honestly, I didn't know how it would've ended.

AJ, you want Gabby's phone unlocked as well today?

Oh yeah.

'Cause you wanna know what's going on here for her. And you told my investigator that you wanna know if Gabby is communicating with any other men, if Gabby is texting other men, and if Gabby is talking to any other men?

I mean, if she was to came forth telling me, then yeah, you know, I'm cool with it. But if that's what it takes—

So she said before, she made this point, she said that if you wanna cheat, you don't have to, you can just invite the girl home. Is that something that you don't like or that you didn't like?

Nah, just 'cause I'm a guy, I'm not like all the rest of them bitches. I understand, I respect it.

But if you did admit to cheating that one time, And you just said, why wouldn't you have just left her then? 'Cause if you're not into threesomes but you're into cheating, I don't get it.

Nah, I pray for these, bro. I don't like to cheat a lot, you know what I'm saying? Like I said, I did got caught up with one.

You don't like to cheat a lot.

Nah, I don't like to cheat a lot, you know what I'm saying? But a couple times it did happen, you know what I'm saying? A couple times it did happen. But as continuously doing it though, then knowing it's breaking her, nah, I wasn't with all that.

Okay, well it's time to unlock the phones, all right? AJ, we unlocked your phone. Gabby, you wanna know if AJ is texting any other women. AJ says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his texts and found that AJ is telling the truth. Gabby, you wanna know if AJ's communicating with any other women. AJ says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his apps and found that AJ Is not telling the truth. We found that he visited 4 separate women's pages on OnlyFans that he recently deleted his history.

Oh, this is crazy. But okay, go ahead. I don't even have an account on there, but.

You sure? 'Cause you gotta have a friend.

You do have an account. We found it and you visited the pages, 4 different pages. Gabby, you wanna know if AJ is direct messaging any other women? AJ says he is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his DMs and found that AJ is not telling the truth. We found 9 different messages that AJ sent to women on TikTok asking for their phone numbers.

TikTok?

Phone numbers?

That's crazy how you would go on TikTok.

Did they text back? We go through everything.

Did they text back?

I'm not sure if they text back.

They probably did.

And she goes through it every day, bro.

Okay.

'Cause you delete.

Nah, they stay there. They record the deleted. They stay there though.

So, but you are admitting that you did ask some women asking women for their number?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Before that, yeah.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Before?

Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. So you're, so why, if you're asking women for numbers and you're saying that you cheated, why do you wanna be in this relationship?

Honestly, I'm, hey, at the end of the day, we all grown. Sometimes people just be like, oh, well, why do we have to be on that kid type of term? You know what I'm saying? All that little teenage high school back and forth.

That's, that's, that's though.

But okay, do I ever talk to them?

No, no, no, you deleted. They restored it. It's restored.

And it's still there.

Oh. Okay. All right, so listen, let's go to this. Gabby, we unlocked your phone.

Let's go. Let's see. You ready? Let it out.

Let it out.

All right.

AJ, you wanna know if Gabby is communicating with any other men. Gabby says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her apps and found that Gabby is not telling the truth. Oh, that's crazy. We found 4 posts on a sexual dominatrix account where Gabby is asking men for money.

Yeah, I know for sure. I already always told her that. Stop doing that, you know what I'm saying? But you went ahead and clowned about it.

Okay.

It's okay though, the truth come out. Truth come out, dude, you hear me?

Okay, get my toes and I wanna look good on your throne.

It is what it is, you know what I'm saying? But you ain't gotta do that for no money, dude. Can I make yourself look bad, you hear me?

There's more.

Okay, and she said there's more. Oh, okay, AJ, you wanna know if Gabby is texting any other men? Gabby says she is not. My locked phone investigator searched her texts and found that Gabby is not telling the truth. We found 54 texts between her and another man from 2 months ago where Gabby told him.

After all that talking, talking about I'm not texting nobody.

It's crazy. 2 months ago where she said she would have sex with him if she wasn't pregnant.

Yeah, of course, I saw that too.

You saw it? Yeah. Okay. All right. So, all right, AJ, you wanna know if Gabby is talking to any other men. Gabby says she's not. My locked phone investigator searched her phone and found that Gabby is not telling the truth. We found 13 messages between her and her friend where Gabby said she gave oral sex to the drug dealer.

Thumbs down for sure.

She said, "I made this spent what? I gave this plug blank, he gave me back 50, who?" So how do you feel?

I mean, previously, like I said, I caught her a few times and I always told her like, "Bro, you shouldn't be even doing that, especially about no bed, 'cause that's being ashamed of yourself. You were ready to go sell your body or do anything else for cash." than they gonna sit out in this world, gonna earn it, you know what I'm saying? That's a better hardworking type of person right there, right? Right or wrong?

You told me that you support me though.

Oh yeah, I still support you, just not doing that.

But you said, no, support me with money, but you don't. You do it once in a blue moon.

Make that make sense, bro.

So I had to go to my old ways to make quick money because 9 to 5, how can I do that?

Then for you to sit there and try to do stuff like that. You are going to get that job. Especially trying to take care of you.

A whole pregnancy long term and some change, which was 12 months.

All right, I'm gonna say this. If you two wanna waste each other's time, that's fine, but y'all not gonna waste my time. Because honestly, now that y'all taking this relationship serious, and the sad part is that you should be taking it serious because you have a child together. Gabby, I'll say this. You painted a picture as if you were like an innocent girl, like getting cheated on, and you're clearly doing the same things that you're engaging in.

But after.

Doesn't matter. But I stoop to his level. You stoop to your level, you know what I mean? Listen, if you wanna engage in sex work, that's you because you get to decide what you wanna do with your body. It's not a choice I'm gonna make, but I'm gonna support you making a choice for you. I'm not gonna let anybody take that choice away from you. But what you're not gonna do is then put a person who's with you and then say, well, since you cheat, I'm gonna cheat on you and then do this stuff because now you're equally as bad. But same with you, you equally as bad. And I don't understand why y'all stay in this relationship Y'all doing this when y'all clearly don't wanna be with each other. I mean, I don't know what y'all definition of, I don't know your definition of love, but I can tell you right now, 'cause you're both young, this is not love. There's a codependency based in some type of narcissism where both of you are feeling like I can get the other person back and I'm gonna show you that I'm better than you. But then yet though, I'm gonna get you back and I'm gonna lie to you. I'm gonna still try to stay attached to you because I'm scared to find out what's gonna be out there if I'm not with you. You're young, you're young. You clearly want to have some fun and you're not ready to be in a relationship yet. That's the truth. You're consistently hitting up other women. If you're wanting to be in a monogamous relationship, because I asked you if you're into threesomes, you said no. So that means you're not into polygamy, you're not trying to do this. That means you're saying by your own words that you wanna be in a monogamous relationship. Yet your actions show you don't. So it's easier just to say, I don't wanna be in it. And I'm not sure why so many people put themselves in monogamous relationships when they're not ready. It's okay to say, I don't want it. It's okay to say, I want companionship, but I don't wanna put a title on it. I don't wanna put a label on it. We can just hang out. And that type of honesty and transparency keeps you from having to have people unlock your phone. Because you just clearly say, I don't want this. You told me when you first came out here that you dreamed of the picket fence. You said you dream of that.

Oh, maybe, guys.

But yeah. The dream doesn't have to go away. It doesn't have to go away. And I appreciate, what I appreciate about this moment right here is you showing us the vulnerability. Because we all know what's in there. And we know that it's in there. And we can see past all the facade, all this things I'm doing and whoop-de-woo and all that stuff. But at the end of the day, you are still a human being. You are a human being who wants and deserves love. And no matter what happened in your past, you can still get there. But both of you have to make better choices. So again, I don't wanna preach to y'all anymore, but I do wish y'all the best of luck. God honest. And I pray that y'all walk off this stage and say, you know what, let's be co-parents, but this can't work no more. You work on you, I'm gonna work on me, and let's just be co-parents. No more sex, no more of that. I promise you, if y'all can do that, y'all gonna be on the first step to having better lives.

So I should give him the ring back?

You should give him the ring back.

Here you go.

Good job. Good job for you too. Thank you. And don't give it back. Stay with him real quick. Mm-hmm.