I Caught You Sleeping With Another Man In Bed! | KARAMO

So tell me, does Yolanda accuse you of cheating when you're at work?

All the time. All the time, brother. When I say all the time, all the time. I don't get no rest about this.

So how often are you and Yolanda on the phone?

All day long.

All day long. All day long.

I deliver packages, I'm on the phone with her. I go to the bathroom, I'm on the phone with her. I eat, I'm on the phone with her. Don't get no rest.

Hold on, you shared a screenshot with my producers of your call log with us. Can you explain what—

Listen, I'm on the phone. I'm on the phone. Yes.

That's, it's 6:46, 6:47, 6:29, 6:17.

I'm on the phone explaining. I'm on the phone explaining to your producers what's going on.

And she's calling.

When I got off the phone, I'm talking to somebody else.

So this is like, my producer said she called you 57 times in 40 minutes? 57 times in 5 minutes?

Listen, do you see what's going on right there?

I see it, I see it.

I'm talking about this all day, clear as day.

Okay, so I'm gonna ask you this. I'm gonna ask you two things. How do you feel about the personal space in your relationship? Do you think she respects it?

Oh no, not at all.

You don't respect it, okay. It's her space. Your space, her space.

Her space.

But usually sometimes, and I don't know, so I have to ask, when you have this type of behavior, it's because there's been some type of trust that's been broken. So has there been infidelity in the past?

Oh, absolutely.

Absolutely. Absolutely. On your part?

No, on her part. On her part.

Hold on, so she cheated and then she blowing up your phone?

Blowing up my phone, making me look like the accuser. Listen, I was working one night. Now she going to tell me, "Oh, okay babe, I'm gonna go take a shower real fast." "Oh, okay, do your thing." Yeah. Maybe an hour ago, I'm calling, no answer. I'm calling, no answer. Now this unfamiliar now, bro. This not making any sense. So I wait till my shift over, go back home. I'm about to get in the bed and go, you know, my baby home, with my baby. I'm about to go lay down. I goes to go lay down and I look, she have children, sons, okay? Well, maybe it's one of them. I look over. It's not none of them, brother.

It's her.

But it's not none of her sons.

She had another man in your bed?

Another man.

Let me tell y'all something. Listen, let me tell y'all something. If y'all ever wanna catch me on the news, let me walk in my house and find another somebody in my house. Hey, you asked my Unlock the Phone investigator to unlock Yolanda's phone and you want to know if Yolanda is texting with other men while you're at work.

Yeah.

If she has been receiving photos from other men while you are at work. And if Yolanda has, and the explicit emails from men in her phone.

Right, right.

So if you find something, you're saying this is done today?

Yeah, this has got to be.

Okay.

Yeah, yeah, 'cause you don't love me. You don't love me. Like, come on, man.

Well, Rob's girlfriend Yolanda is here, so everyone please welcome Yolanda to the show.

Hey.

You look amazing. Thank you. Yeah. So I wanna know, how do you feel about what was just said?

I'm gonna say this. Everything he said is true.

Okay.

You know, it's very true.

Okay.

But I've been with him for 2 and a half years. You know, his attitude, how he talks, how he acts, never changed. It was worse then. It got better a little bit, but it got better a little bit now, but back then it was all crazy.

So what do you mean? How does he talk to you?

The way he talks, get the fuck out my face, leave me alone, I ain't trying to hear you.

You always blaming me doing something, okay? You always blaming me doing something. In the beginning, in the beginning.

What happened with the other man in bed? What happened with the other man in bed?

What happened was with Dexter.

You still talk to him?

All right, well listen, okay, and I told you, right? How would you know if I didn't tell you? Everything.

How you even got his number?

You know, listen, I had the same number for the past 6, 7 years.

So why you ain't get rid of it when I asked you to?

You understand? So I have a lot of friends that's just cool, sister, brother type of situations. You know what I'm saying? That's it. But listen though, the thing is this though. I never go see nobody. I don't meet up with nobody, nothing. So at the end of the day, if I can't talk to you and you not willing to listen to me. You always talk. No, y'all don't. You don't listen.

And you don't listen.

So let me just be clear. You did have sex with that man in your bed?

Yes, I think it is.

Okay, got it.

Yes, I think it is.

And did it only just happen? It just happened that one time?

That one time.

Okay. I think it's time to unlock this phone.

Yes, let's do it. Unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock, unlock.

Rob, we unlocked your phone. Here we go. Yolanda, you wanna know if Rob has any dating apps on his phone. Rob says he does not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his apps and found that Rob is telling the truth. Yolanda, you wanna know if Rob has any explicit photos of other women on his phone. Rob says he does not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched his photos and found—

No, don't look like that. Don't look like that.

Rob is telling the truth.

Don't look like that.

Yolanda, you wanna know if Rob has been calling other women while he's at work. Rob says he has not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his phone and found that Rob is telling the truth. However, there is one woman that does blow up his phone. We saw 197 calls in 3 days from you.

Who is that?

My God. 197 calls.

Yo, they ain't, yo, it's only 24 hours in a day. Only 24.

All right, Yolanda, you wanna know if Rob has been inappropriately texting the mother of his child behind your back. Rob says he's not. My unlock the phone investigator searched his texts and found that Rob is not telling the truth. He has 1,126 deleted text message calls from Google Duo with the mother of his child and only one text Relating to his daughter, and that was on 9:30. So what you're doing is you're not talking about just your children. We didn't see anything where they're talking about anything sexual. I'll be very clear. But you're also not just communicating about the child. So y'all are communicating. So what it seems to me, and I wanna be clear about this, is that y'all are, you're friends, I'm assuming?

Oh, what Google what now?

Google Duo. Google Duo.

What number was it?

I don't know her number on here. I can forget the producers to give it to you, but it's—

Yeah, I definitely need to see that 'cause I don't know what I was talking about.

Well, the last conversation you had was 9:30, September 30th, 2024, where you talked about your daughter. So we know it's your child's mother. Yeah. Well, look, at the end of the day, at the end of the day, we didn't find anything sexual in nature in it. So I'm gonna say that.

All right, well, there you go. There you go. 'Cause I know I wouldn't say nothing like that. So that's what I'm trying to figure.

But my thing is this though, right? I don't care how many times he had talked to her. My problem is this. If you can talk to her when you not around me, that's a problem to me. You understand what I'm saying? When I talk to my children's father, it's always in front of him.

I don't wanna hear it though. Every time.

It doesn't matter, but that's what I do. I don't wanna hear it. That's what I do though.

Well, your question was if he's doing anything and there's nothing inappropriate. Listen, listen. So I get it. You want transparency of him to talk in front of you. Right.

'Cause in the day, if I was to do that to him, 'cause he does it to me all the time. When I say, oh, I talked to so-and-such dad. Oh, when you talk to him? Why you ain't tell me? So when I give you the same type of energy, you don't like it.

But that's not fair because—

Right, it's not fair.

No, it's not fair on your part because—

How's it not fair on my part?

Because he didn't cheat and he's also not talking anything sexual. But hold on, before we go into this, let's get to unlocking your phone.

Yeah, get unlock my phone. Unlock my phone.

You allow this time? Let's get some, Will.

Hold on, we have a ping alert. Yolanda met with producers before the show and she has a message for Rob to see.

Rob, I have a confession to make. I've been talking to 4 other men. I've been also talking to the guy that I have cheated on you with 2 and a half years ago, but we haven't talked within a week.

So you said you was talking to 4 other men?

Yeah.

So, so, you mean to tell me?

No, he asking me a question.

You mean to tell me? You came out here doing all that yelling.

Don't come out here. And you mean to tell me You sitting up there talking to 4 people. You don't communicate.

You ain't communicating.

You know how to communicate. You don't talk, you don't hear everything I say.

Well, let's see if the unlock the phone investigator found anything else. Rob, you wanna know if Yolanda is texting other men while you are at work.

She told me.

Yolanda says she is not. My unlock the phone investigator searched her texts and found that she's not telling the truth. Yolanda's in communication with 7 different men as recent of October 26th, 2022. 2024.

[MASKED] Swinging, ain't you?

Rob, you wanna know if Yolanda has been receiving photos from other men while he's at work. Yolanda says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her photos and found that Yolanda is not telling the truth. We found 13 selfies of different men where Yolanda sent via WhatsApp over the last 2 months. None explicit in nature, just your photos of yourself. Rob, you wanna know if Yolanda has any explicit emails with other men in her phone. Yolanda says she does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her emails and found that Yolanda is not telling the truth. Yolanda has an active membership on Match.com. In her trash folder, it shows that 442 members were interested in her and that it was moved to the trash folder 8 days ago.

So, Karamo.

And we also, hold on, but we also did this. We also did a web history to show that She authenticated the app a month ago to log in.

So you bring me on the show to clown me, huh?

To clown you out.

That's all you wanted to do?

You clown me every day. You clown me every day.

You couldn't tell me this at the crib though.

When I try to talk to you, you don't wanna listen.

No, you were drawing it out.

You don't wanna listen. How am I drawing it out?

I'm talking about you're taking a long time to explain this. Hey, listen, Rob, check this out. I'm not trying to explain nothing.

Yolanda, Yolanda, Yolanda, hold on. No, you know, Rob, let me take this for you. You came out here and said like, Rob is a narcissist, that he does these things. I gotta tell you, all of that behavior is your behavior that you've described. You have not played any of that. I gotta tell you, no, no, no. Because what has happened here is that you keep saying to him, well, why did you take, you could have left, you could have left. The thing is that you could have left. But no, no, no, no, because narcissistic behavior will tell you that the person who knows that the other person is in a situation where I'm doing wrong And now I'm putting it on you that you haven't left when the person who could have been more mature and said, you know what, I'm not happy, I'm gonna leave instead of dragging you through this.

That's your behavior. But every time I do that, he begs me to come back though.

But again, your behavior is going to then say, well, I did bad and now you're begging me. What is your accountability? You asked him his accountability. Where's your accountability to say I was not happy? Listen, listen, I wasn't happy. No, no, you listen to me now.

No, you listen to me now.

I have listened to you. Rob has listened to you. To you and what I've seen is just a display of constant disrespect, a constant elevation in the way you communicate with him and also now constant cheating on him. Like if you were not happy, you could have, girl, you just said a confession.

Why you frown your face?

You just said 4 men and then we found 3 extra. We found 3 extra. You did come out here to clown him. You came out here to clown him because for some reason you didn't get the intimacy and communication you wanted from the beginning. And some reason you were hurt from the beginning. And so immediately you got hurt and instead of saying, let me go move on and find somebody who's not gonna hurt me, you decide to stay in this relationship and just start doing all type of foul stuff. And what I did notice is that yes, he probably talks to you wild. I'm sure y'all's communication gets horrible. But what I do believe and I'm almost positive of is that no matter what, you escalated.

[Speaker:AUDIENCE] Yes.

Seriously. So the only recommendation I have is that I pray that you leave. But what it sounds like is that you understand that you have control. You talked about control. You know that you have control because you said that you're the one controlling finances and stuff, correct? You said he moves in with you.

Ever since something happened.

I don't need that, man. I definitely could stay in my own place.

All right, well, bottom. All right, well.

Bottom. You okay, girl? Bottom.

Yeah, listen. Yeah.

Wow. Wow. Wow, Lord.

Yolanda, girl, you know you are wildin'. You know that you wildin'.

No, Karamo, listen.

You wildin', girl.

Listen.

I mean, he might be the delivery man, but girl, you the one over here receiving the packages, girl.

Listen, so what?

So what? Listen.

And this relationship needs one label, and it is Return to sender, girl, 'cause it'll come.

Right, he need to go, he return to his mama. That's what he need to do.

Well, okay, but girl, you wildin', girl, you wildin'.

No, I'm not.

Listen, what I'm gonna say to you is that from what we are witnessing in the communication things, and I'm not gonna, I try to be fair. I'm sure at home there is other pieces that we are missing.

Yes.

That we are not gonna see.

It's a lot.

And I believe that, I believe that, I believe that.

It's a lot.

But in this instance of what I have, what I can see.

He doesn't give me anything, yo.

Then girl, why don't you just leave? That's what I'm saying.

And I did, I left 3 different times last year.

You said you can't say I left and I came back. You never left. Listen, listen, listen. You never left.

If he felt as though he wasn't wrong, why you keep apologizing and begging me to come back? You feel as though you're not wrong for what you do to me.

Well, because clearly his self-esteem, the same way I say to a woman, his self-esteem is damaged and his self-worth is damaged. And the thing is that he's putting up with this behavior of you calling him all these times, which is unhealthy as hell because you're trying to— He do the same thing to me.

Yeah.

He does the same thing to me.

But he has reason to.

No, he doesn't.

Yes, he does. No, he doesn't. Girl, you been—

No, no, no.

That was 2 and a half years ago.

You just was on that phone.

Yeah, but that's on the phone, just talking. I'm not going to visit anyone.

What I really hope is that y'all both end this relationship because this behavior is just horrible.

It is.

Yeah, so I pray that y'all leave this relationship.

His behavior is horrible. His behavior is horrible.

I pray y'all leave this relationship and good luck to y'all, all right?

I'm good.

All right, everyone. Thank you.

Stay with us. We'll be right back.

Everything, like, he's the victim here. You know, I mean, like he's the victim. He's not the victim. He gives me nothing. Listen, I cheated on him that one time and I always told him, if you can't forget or forgive about that, I told him all the time, then you need to leave me alone then, because it's not fair to still stay with me and put what you put me through because of what I've done, because what I have done to you. All right, that's what you think. All I did was ask for you as communication and love me and be there when I'm talking to you. And all you do is shut me out. All you do is shut me out. All you do is shut me out. No, they don't never stay listen to me. Listen, when I talk to them, I talk to them about you. But when I talk to them, I'm talking about you. I talk to them about you.

I'm not listening.

You're not— you're not smart enough to listen because you don't listen to me at all.