In this episode of Karamo, host Karamo mediates a heated exchange between Marvin and his wife (Speaker B) who are on the brink of divorce. Speaker B accuses Marvin of hacking her phone and email, stealing and posting nude photos online, and maintaining a double life that includes nightly bar outings and secret relationships. She reveals that Marvin’s infidelity began when their daughter started preschool, and that he has been cheating for 5‑10 years, while she herself has not engaged in sexual activity with him for about ten years, citing a lack of sexual satisfaction and his preference for a larger penis. Marvin denies the hacking allegations but admits to sending money to another man and acknowledges a brief moment of sexual activity involving a vibrator. The conversation escalates as both parties exchange blame, with Speaker B declaring she wants a divorce to protect their children, labeling Marvin a chronic liar, and demanding he sign divorce papers. The episode highlights themes of digital privacy violations, long‑term marital toxicity, sexual dissatisfaction, financial secrecy, and the looming divorce involving child custody concerns.
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You say Marvin hacked your phone.
He hacked my email, didn't I find out? 'Cause my device, my phone itself said, is this you or is this not you? And the phone that came up saying it hacked it, it's his phone.
Well, he's admitting that. He's saying that he did go through it.
And he went through, he got my pictures and he started putting the nude pictures of me online.
Oh.
He did that.
Is that true?
No, that's never.
The hell is not true?
I wanna know, in the 20 years I've been together, has your marriage always been this toxic?
No, it didn't get toxic until somebody went back to work, started going out to the bars every single night. That's where you met the bitch and you fucked her. Sorry, that's where you met the wet chick and you fucked her. I found out by washing your pants and pulling the receipt out that said condoms and beer outside of all nights.
So when did the cheating begin?
When my daughter just got into preschool, Head Start. That's when he went and cheated on me and he lied about it for about 5, 10 years.
So you said that you cheated and then you found out that he cheated. What made you feel like you wanted to cheat in that moment?
To get back at him.
But sleeping with another man, did that not make you feel worse?
I wasn't getting nothing from him.
My question is, did it make you feel worse?
Didn't make me feel worse, didn't make me feel better. He turned his back on our marriage. He's the one that started belittling me, treating me like crap.
What's going on sexually between you two?
Nothing.
Okay, how long has that been?
Any time at all? It's been about 6 months. And then I walk in the laundry room. The one time we actually had really good sex is I walked in the laundry room, she's playing with a vibrator on her phone. And it woke me up 'cause I heard mm, mm, mm, mm, mm.
For one, it wasn't a vibrator. For two, you're damn right I did because I was watching some porn.
So how long have y'all not been having a good sexual relationship? Is that from the beginning?
That's been almost 10 years, I'd say.
10 years of no sexual relationship.
He's the one that gets satisfied, I don't. You gotta have a big dick to make me happy.
Marvin says you've been living a double life. Do you feel like you've been living a double life?
Double life my ass. Everybody knows what I do, when I do it, and how I do it. And I talk to everybody about my life. I have no secrets in my life. None. He's the one that's living a double life. He goes out to the bar all the time, every single night practically.
Are you sending money to other men online?
Nope, it's not no man, it's not going to him. You know what, you really need to lay off that.
It is going to him.
You need to lay off that, no it's not. You don't know.
Once you get a divorce, you need to go be with him, right? He's gonna go farther with the relationship with you, right?
Oh my God, you know what, we are getting divorced because I hate you. That's good, thank God. I want you gone, I want you to sign the divorce papers. That's fine. I'm only here to— I'm only here to raise the kids properly, especially your daughter. You are a liar. You need to take your chronic lying ass and go to hell.
