I Have 13 Children But I'm Doubting 3 of Them! | KARAMO

Hi, my name is Andrew. I'm here with 4 of my daughters, but I need the DNA results of 3 of my daughters. Growing up, I had 18 siblings. Now myself, I have 13 children. I accept all my children, and I've done the very best to take care of every last one of them. Let me tell you about each of my girls. Brittany is my ride or die. She's been stuck to my hip from day one. There is no DNA question about her. Adrian is a different breed. Her and Brittany really don't get along. They actually tolerate one another. Adrian, I noticed around 13 years of age that her attitude, her mood swings, her whole structure and character is totally different. That is what brought my attention to speculate whether she was actually my biological daughter or not. Now Annie, I didn't know anything about her. I recently connected with her doing the genealogy research. Then I gave her mother a call. I said, "I'm just gonna get straight to the point. Did you do something or have something done 30 years ago that I needed to know?" And she was excited like, "Oh, she reached out to you." I've still speculated or questioned the thought of whether she's my daughter or not because she left without me knowing or telling me anything about her pregnancy. They say she's the baby of the bunch. She's 20 years old. She has a sibling that is biologically my daughter. I am questioning the results for her because her mother and I were married, but we were separated, and I was unsure of what she was doing. But I've been questioning her from day one. Mr. Karamo, my family tree is very important to me. I need to find the DNA truth.

Well, listen, Andrew's daughter Brittany is here to share her side of the story. So everyone, please welcome Brittany to the show. So your father claims 13 children.

Wow, 13 is a lot when you say it out like that, but it's 13 of us. It's 5 boys and 8 girls and it's super big.

Yeah, 3 of your sisters in question are here today. Let's take a look at your family tree to understand who's involved in this mystery.

There's Annie.

Okay.

Then there's Adrian. We just never meshed or had any physical chemistry. So that's where her doubt comes from. And then there's Dacia, the baby of the bunch. And my dad and her mom were married, so, and her mom stepped out, so that's where her doubt comes from.

Got it, okay. Was Annie looking for you all or anything?

So my dad did Ancestry first and he said it to another sibling that he had found someone. So then it brought me to do Ancestry and she popped up for me as well. So I inboxed her. She never responded to my father. Here we are.

Got it. So do you believe these ladies are your biological sisters?

I'm unsure.

Yeah, you're unsure.

Yeah.

And so Andrew raised your older sister, Adrianne. Why do you have doubts about her? She was in your life.

She was in my life, but the chemistry was never there. It always seemed like it was forced just because my father took her in and she has our last name. If you kind of look at it a little bit, all my dad's kids are slim. Adrian's a little bit on the big side, so.

You on the big side. You mean?

So I mean.

Big ass.

Just, I mean, just like, I don't know. She just has a piggy face to me, I don't know.

Me and you, I always bumped heads. You know why we bumped heads? You know why we bumped heads. Tell me, 'cause I don't know. Because your mama.

Oh, my mama.

That's why, in your mouth.

Okay.

That's why.

That's fine.

And then for you to say that I got a piggy face and stuff, baby.

Look at you.

You a cheeseburger away from what? You look bigger than me. I don't care how many kids you had. What's your excuse? You still bitch, one kid.

Okay.

One kid.

And you're big.

One kid, it doesn't matter. You're big. Big and beautiful, and I bet you I can take your man. Live in it.

You can't.

I can have the husband. Hold on.

Y'all haven't talked in 15 years.

Yeah.

I don't talk to none of them.

Is this the first time you've seen each other in 15 years?

I don't talk to none of them.

You don't talk to anyone?

No.

Why don't you talk to anyone?

Because I don't want to.

Because she's not his.

Well, it doesn't matter if I'm his or not.

Have you felt rejected by the family?

No, I ain't never felt rejected by the family. I don't talk to nobody because I'm in my own lane. That's why. I have a lot going on. They don't got nothing going on. I ain't heard of none of them doing nothing. Drug addicts and whatever else y'all do. Yeah.

Are you close to your dad at least?

Say what?

Are you close to your dad at least?

Very.

So you're close to your dad?

Let's tell it if we gonna tell it, 'cause I'm here now, baby. So which dad are you close to?

Let's say that.

Yours. Yo daddy.

Okay.

Yo daddy. All right, how about that?

So because you were raised by him, right?

I sure was.

Yes. And so you all grew up in the same house and so it makes sense that you have a relationship.

No, I grew up with or took up for Before everything.

Okay.

So when you were younger, why would you tell Brittany you aren't sisters?

That's what siblings do when they fight, right? She told me that too. We used to get into it. That's just like saying, oh, that's why you adopted or something like that.

Yeah.

I understand that. Yeah.

But it doesn't continue when you're grown though.

Where is the doubt about you and Andrew coming from?

Me and my friends was on Esther's tree and we was just looking at stuff and then I kept saying, my daddy ain't coming up. So I called my daddy and he was like, you not coming up for me either, baby. But another girl was coming up.

So there you started getting doubts right there.

Yeah.

So now you spent your entire life, this is your father, and now you're like getting doubts.

Right.

Okay. Do you think Dicea and Annie are Andrew's biological children?

I definitely think Annie is. Look at her. And then Dicea too. Dicea look like my daddy and her mama.

Yeah. Okay. Do you want to be Brittany's sister?

I'm they sister regardless.

Okay, got it. Well listen, I think it's time to meet Dacia and hear her side of the story as well. So everyone please welcome Dacia to the show. Thank you for being here. Thank you. So what are your thoughts about what you just heard?

It's news to me 'cause I really never knew.

You didn't know that they had issues? Issues. Yeah.

I've been with my mother, so I really don't know more so about my dad's side of this family really. I'm just now like starting to flourish into my dad's family.

Got it. Is there a big age difference between you all?

Yeah.

Yeah.

How are you?

I'm 37.

I'm 20.

20. Okay, that makes sense.

I'm grown.

Okay, you grown. Okay, I got it. I ain't gonna tell you so. How often did you see your dad growing up?

I could probably count on my fingers how many times I done seen him.

Yeah. I mean, this is the thing, and I have to say this really quickly, because when we hear stories about men who have 9 children, 10 children, 11 children, 12, 13 children, like of course any family, you're allowed to have whatever family you want. Family, but when both parents are not, have all children in the house, it's stuff like this that breaks my heart because no person can be there for all their children. And then you end up having adults who have been hurt, who have had to shield themselves, protect themselves, and don't have answers fully. And it's wrong. It's wrong. You know what I mean? And I don't know Andrew and I'm not trying to knock him, God honest. But I do know that you all were once children and I see the pain of your childhood sitting in front of me right now. And I know that none of y'all deserved it. I know you damn well didn't deserve that. You damn well didn't deserve it. You didn't as well. I know anything that you went through.

You think that's your baby 'cause she look like you?

He know.

That's your baby 'cause you was with her mama?

Nah, I'm his baby 'cause I look like the mama, the auntie, everybody else.

I look like his mama, so it don't even make sense.

Not at all.

I do.

Not at all.

I do.

That's why you call your daddy and everybody else.

I sure does. Is my daddy. When you're getting dick hauled through, that's why you really want to put it all out here. My girl by you, just like your brother is not his and he carry his last name. Your mom's first name. She need to be on the station.

Your brother, but he know that.

He know that.

Doesn't matter.

I'm hoping that your baby daddy is your baby daddy with your kids. You really want to get technical?

They are.

'Cause you seem like your legs up since you had 3. Yep.

3 pregnancies and a set of twins. Don't make it be like that.

Don't do that. I'm making it.

Don't do it.

How does your family's negativity upset you?

It shouldn't, 'cause he brung it on himself. How about that?

It should, 'cause it's not all on him.

Andrew, what do you think the real issue is?

Don't come on the show trying to beat our lips.

Huh, Andrew? I wanna know what do you think the real issue is here?

They all are correct. I am the final decision. I am the final word. I'm the final person that should've taken care of all this. But like I said, I didn't do it.

Baby, they didn't bring me on this show, baby. Oh no.

Oh no. Let me clarify something. Hold on, let me clarify something.

You shouldn't have been on here because you ain't getting no DNA test. I'm not 'cause I'm here.

I know.

But you shouldn't have been on here. I know. But you shouldn't have been on here. But I'm telling you, it is what it is. Her story shouldn't, her opinion shouldn't even matter. You don't matter.

So when they say not the daddy, then we gonna know.

Guess what? And most likely it may say that.

Andrew, you can't do that. You might have been doing that your entire life. You can't do that.

I'm still gonna be his.

You the reason. Andrew.

Andrew, Andrew.

No, no, no, no. Hold on, ladies.

No, no, no, no, no.

Hold on.

No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

Come on.

What we're not gonna do, Andrew, is you walk away. Let me tell you what we're not gonna do.

Let me tell you.

When it comes to men, accountability. You brought all these people here, you got all these women on this stage. This is your doing. You don't get to walk away from this.

No, no, no.

Man to man, you don't. You tell your daughters to calm down. You tell your daughters to calm down and you figure out what's going on. You don't walk away.

You talk to your child. Like the way your is, the you think.

You handle this. Listen, listen, the daughters are not understanding the pain.

'Cause when I go home, I'm still Adrian. I'm still going home to my family, to my child, to myself. And I'm still not going home with none of y'all.

You gotta handle this. Andrew.

And you knew this shit was gonna happen. I don't give a fuck. When I leave here, I don't gotta fuck with none of them. I don't even gotta fuck with my daddy. I don't give a fuck.

Well, there's one more daughter that's involved in this DNA mystery, and her name is Annie. Annie is backstage and will be meeting her potential sisters for the first time. Annie, come on out for me, please. Hi, Annie. Thank you for being here. Hi. Hi, Mom.

It's good to meet you. We talked so much. I know.

It's good to be here. You're welcome.

Thank you.

Thank you for letting me be here. Thank you. Come on.

Oh, you're such a good hugger.

So you've never met any of them, Annie, right?

No, today.

Yeah, today.

And I'm so happy to be here.

Yeah, yeah. How do you feel about everything you've heard today?

It's a lot.

Yeah.

But I'm here and I'm gonna stay.

You were adopted, tell me about that.

While my mom was pregnant with me, she started paperwork through an adoption agency in Atlanta, Georgia. The family that she had selected as my adopted parents lived in Arizona.

Did you have a good childhood?

Yes.

You did?

Yes.

Okay. I think that it's time for the DNA truth.

Yay!

Um, Andrew, we tested 3 of your potential daughters And I think Annie, since we just heard your story, we'll start with you.

Yes.

You've been trying to figure it out. This is your truth to open, not mine. Here you go.

Thank you.

You're welcome.

Dear Lord, thank you for this beautiful day and thank you for this opportunity. Amen. Annie, Andrew is your biological father.

I love you too, baby. Thank you, Karamo. Thank you. How do you feel in this moment, Andrew?

Blessed.

Blessed. And Annie, what about for you?

I'm still overwhelmed.

Yeah, as you should be.

It's the day.

I'm still overwhelmed. I will be for a very long time.

Well, we have another DNA mystery that we must solve as well. This is for you, Adrianne. You have been in this man's life your entire life, and I know you said you had some doubts and some questions. So this is your truth to open. Here you go.

Obviously, we know what mine say.

What does it say?

Not. It don't make me or break me.

I know. I mean, you still my baby. Come on. Not right now.

You got an attitude.

Well, we have one more DNA result. Desia, and this is your moment now for your truth.

You wanna pass this to you? Don't break my sister's heart. Oh my God.

What does it say? Oh my God. What does it say?

Oh my God, no.

It says not your biological daughter. Oh my God.

No.

Oh my God.

Regardless what this is, you are my baby. Come here.

I really cannot believe this.

Come on. I'm so sorry.

I can't believe it.

This is a moment that in this there's, you know, what I think of this moment is that at least there's answers and once people have answers, there's healing and growth that can happen.

This is an answer, a question I never even questioned. Like I still sitting here like, I didn't even, I cannot believe this. Like, my mama don't even know that I'm here. Like, she don't even know none of this is happening. Like, she don't even like—

Andrew, there's, your family tree is rooted in a lot of pain.

Yes.

And you're gonna have to be the one to do the work here. And I think you know that.

Is it okay if I share something?

Of course, of course you can.

I know this is hard and I'm so very sorry that you're having a hard time. I come from a family who doesn't look like me, but they're still my family.

Yeah.

'Cause they're the only family that I've had before this month. So I don't need you. To be biologically related to me, for you to be my sister.

I'm so glad I get to have a baby sister.

And I'm so proud that it gets to be someone as beautiful as you.

Thank you. You're welcome. Yeah. Thank you for those words. Oh, that got me over here crying.

They didn't tell you about us before we got here?

Listen, you all got your DNA truth and that is the first step in this healing process and I wish you all the luck. If there's any support you need, any support you need, anything you need at all, we're here for you.