I Know You're Dr*gging Me, Tell The Truth! | KARAMO

Girl, you said your man is drugging you and bringing women in your house?

Yes, yes.

Fill me in.

Karamo, I believe my man is drugging me and bringing women in my home while I'm asleep. What? And also taking my money too.

Okay, so what is making you feel suspicious of this? What's making you think this is happening?

Well, Karamo, I believe Christmas, I think he had a woman in my home because of this cheap perfume I smelled. And I smelled it on a woman before. She asked me for a ride, so I recognized the smell. When I got up, I didn't even know I went to sleep. I think he had done drugged me with melatonin, like some type of melatonin sleeping medicine. 'Cause we supposed to been up partying. It's Christmas, you know, we up. So, all of a sudden, I fall asleep.

I never heard nobody drugging somebody with melatonin.

Something, something, I don't know. Something that put you to sleep.

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

We're up and, um, all of a sudden you pass out. Yeah, and I'm just waking up the next morning like, what was going on? What happened to the party? So, um, I'll go to my bathroom the whole Christmas. Yeah, really, in and out. So, um, that all that night I'm hearing the screen door like closed, like sneakily, sneakily. I go to the bathroom, I walk past, um, the, uh, hamper that we keep our dirty clothes in, and I smell this real strong fragrance and it smelled like Black Milds or something. And I lift it up, I smell it, and it smells like the same cheap perfume of the female that we just gave a ride to.

So what does he say when you confront him about this?

He thinks, he says that I'm stupid, I'm dumb, I don't know what I'm talking about, I'm crazy.

And you asked him to take a lie detector test to prove that he didn't drug you.

And I need him to take a lie detector test today to prove that he did not drug me, yes.

So let me go backwards.

How did you two meet? Okay, well, me and DeAndre met at a friend girl's party. He looked a little attractive, you know, so I kind of started touching on him and stuff like that and ended up giving him fellatio around, yeah. And he was receiving it like he never had it before and I fell in love with him. I fell in love with him.

She had to throw that in there. Like, girl, I knew what I was doing, he fell in love. I'm like, okay, we got it, girl.

And he just stuck to me ever since then.

So at that point, y'all started dating? Yes. It was like, okay, got it, I understand. When did you start accusing him of cheating?

It had to have been when I was falling asleep outta nowhere, not knowing why I fell asleep. You know, I'm supposed to be up, we supposed to be up doing whatever, and I just all of a sudden just fell asleep.

Is this normal behavior? Have you ever done this before in your life? No, no. Like, has there ever been a history of maybe like you falling asleep? No. Are you working long hours?

Well, I do go to school, you know, and when I'm up, you know, in my studies and stuff, you know, I'm up, but I know when I'm falling asleep.

Falling asleep, got it. Yeah, okay. You told my producers you think he's cheating with an elderly crackhead across the street.

Yeah, yeah, a crackhead lady across the street.

Yeah, she is. It's bad enough that you said she elderly, but she a crackhead too?

Yeah, she a crackhead too, yeah. She'll give it up to anybody, you know?

How old is this woman across the street?

Up in age, up to his age, probably 46. 50. 46, 50.

Don't play with me. Do not play with me calling anybody in their 40s elderly. Yeah. You are playing with me. How old are you? Oh, you 33.

Yeah, I'm 33. I just turned 33.

You know you right around the corner. I'm only 10 years older than you. You know you right around the corner.

You want people calling you elderly? Nah, nah. This look elderly? No.

Oh, no.

You look good. You look good, Karamo.

I appreciate it. OK, you said elderly. Did you hear that?

46. Which is up in age.

Okay, that ain't even up in age. We gonna leave it alone. But I get what you're saying. There's somebody across the street that you think that they're doing something with.

And a lady in a gray Toyota.

Oh wow, okay, so there's a second woman. Yeah. Okay, question for you, because sometimes when we have those insecurities, and not saying that they are, how is your sex life? Is your intimacy okay?

Yes, yes, our intimacy is fine. We do it a lot, you know, especially in the beginning, you know, I was doing him, he was doing me, it was fine. It wasn't too much of nothing. But now it's like, you know, he's denying. Denying me sex. Yeah, yeah. And when he does that, I feel like he's trying to save his stamina for the crackhead lady across the street.

What does he say that he's denying sex for?

He just say he's just not up for it.

Yeah, got it, got it. Do you express to him how that makes you feel?

No.

Okay, got it. That's where you have to start next time. Okay. Okay. Do you see a future with him?

I do see a future with DeAndre. Mm-hmm. Yes, if I could ever stay up. Yeah, got it.

If you stop, okay. Well listen, Raven, you want me to unlock DeAndre's phone to see if he has been direct messaging other women, if he has been emailing women, and if he's been visiting 3 specific women. Yes, yes. Okay. So it's not only, so it's the cheating, the drugging, you just need to know, you want answers.

Yes, I want answers. I need to know today.

And what will you do if you find something?

I'm gonna leave DeAndre alone, like as far as like relationship-wise.

Okay, well listen everyone, we've heard your side of the story, and so I think it's time to welcome DeAndre to the show and get his side of the story.

10 stories, huh?

She's lying.

So I'm lying?

Yeah.

No, you know I'm not lying.

Nice to meet you, sir.

Nice to meet you.

Telling stories for the longest. Well, the first thing she said, which I gotta ask you point blank, is she said you're drugging her. Are you drugging her?

Hell no, I'm like a doctor to her or something.

Okay, well she's saying that she feels like you're giving her maybe high doses of melatonin. Is that true?

Never. Yeah, possibly.

I never did that before in my life.

Well, what is it then?

I don't know, I guess she eat too much and get sleepy.

Could be, could be. I don't know. Could be, that could be what it is.

I don't know, could be get drowsy. I get drowsy once I get sleepy.

Fix it, brother, fix it.

Yeah, exactly, that's what he's gotta do.

I don't understand why she always said I'm drugging her, man.

Yeah, yeah, I got it. Have you been sleeping Stealing her money? 'Cause she's saying money is missing.

Never did that before in my life.

Oh, we'll see today. So then why do you think he's stealing money? Or do you think the other woman that he's been talking about?

It could be the other woman. It could be that he's bringing—

Hold on, hold on.

If she lose her money, I'd be the one finding it.

Losing it? I never lose my money. So her phone? I know exactly what I have. I know exactly what I have. Got it. And I know exactly what I have.

Well, we'll find out.

Yeah, we gonna find out today.

Have you been cheating on her? I gotta ask you point blank.

Please answer correctly.

No, I haven't been cheating. Got it, got it.

So why do you think she's accusing you? Huh?

See, I can't look serious because you talking about I'm lying.

Yeah.

I don't know, she just wake up out this delusional dreams or whatever.

But why am I asleep in the first place? I don't know. I guess I ate too much, right?

Could be.

Do you think she's cheating on you?

Now that part, see, yeah.

Why would you think that?

'Cause she be on her phone a lot.

Hey.

If I grab my phone.

But you know exactly what I do though.

Last night. She said I was texting and I was watching the basketball game and the phone was under the pillow.

Yeah, it was cuffed.

She said I was cuffing my phone under the COVID Yeah, texting, yeah. I have no control over that 'cause somebody emailed, well, I got an email or commercial email, whatever it can be called.

Yeah.

But I never cheated on her, man.

Got it, but you do think that's just a possibility or are you just saying that because she's accusing you? Yeah. Okay, you're just saying that, okay. So you don't really think she's cheating on you, okay.

If I'm cheating, I guess she gotta be cheating too then.

Got it, okay then. So it's no more tip for tap. So outside of this, how's your relationship?

How's that relationship? It can be good at times, and sometimes it can be real crazy. When she get in her ways, once it's in her mind, she thinks she's gonna, she think it's in her mind and she believes that. There's no other way but her way. Yeah.

So does that cause y'all to have friction and frustration? Of course. Yeah. Because what are you hoping for?

For us to be good.

You're hoping for her to hear you, to—

Understand what's going on and trust and believe me.

I'm thinking it's an age thing.

Yeah, that's what it is.

That's what it is. I might be—

I'll be 48 in a couple months.

Oh, so in her mind you elderly.

Yeah.

I heard her say that.

Yeah, yeah.

I'll be 48 Sunday.

He up there, you know.

She said the elderly, where we get elderly from?

I know, right?

I wasn't elderly when she was getting pregnant.

Well, it's a nice elderly. It's nice elderly.

I will say this though, because this is a big symptom though that I did write down. So she's saying you're denying her sex. If you had a healthy sex life, why have you been denying her sex? She's a neffo. Okay.

She like it, she want it 10 times a day. Okay.

Hey man. Well.

I can take 2, 3 times.

Yeah.

But 10 times? No man, that's enough of that. I wouldn't do nothing.

Do you consider yourself a nymphomaniac?

Yes, I do consider myself a nymphomaniac.

Mm-hmm. But there is a part of you that considers like sex has to be frequent.

Yeah, yeah.

To her, not to me.

Got it. And when y'all communicate, when you say that to her, what is the breakdown?

Well, she thinks that, I'm having sex with someone else. If I don't have sex with her right then and there, she would think, oh, I'm having sex with the lady across the street. You had a crackhead. The lady down around the corner, the lady in the backyard.

The homeless lady.

I can't even go to the mailbox anymore.

Got it. So have you fully denied her or is it just that it's not as frequent as she wants?

I don't fully deny her. I just don't give it to her when she want it. Got it. I'm not on her time.

So it's not as frequent. It's not that you're not having sex, it's just that it's frequent.

Yeah. Things have changed and I wanna know where that change is coming from.

'Cause we're together. Raven.

That's why. Why won't you look at him?

Why?

Mm-mm.

Okay. Is she wrong?

That's why. Okay, we'll see.

Well, listen, there's a lot here that is a breakdown of you all figuring out if you're being drugged, if you're cheating, and you've also requested that we unlock her phone, correct?

Might as well, yeah.

So what are you gonna do if we find something?

It's gonna be a long flight back to Savannah, Georgia, I tell you that one.

So would you—

But you know about certain things.

Would you break up?

Certain videos that's in there. Yeah.

You know about that. I don't know, we have to work through, we have to talk it out.

Okay, so you're willing if something was found to talk it out?

Yeah, I wanna settle it.

If something wasn't found in his phone, are you willing to talk it out?

No. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'll talk it out. Yeah, we gonna talk it out.

But you said, but after you talk it out, you done?

Yeah, I mean, as far as the relationship part, you know, we could be friends or whatever.

Interesting, okay. Well, listen, we are going to unlock the truth today. So first, let's get to DeAndre's phone. Raven, we unlocked DeAndre's phone and you want to know if DeAndre has been direct messaging other women on his phone. DeAndre says he does not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his DMs and found that DeAndre is telling the truth.

That's a new phone. That's a new phone. So that phone is a week new.

They're still gonna get the same email.

It doesn't matter, that's the email.

Well, I'm gonna tell you this, even if someone has a new phone, if it's connected to the same iCloud, we can still find it. So just let you know, it's always connected. So Raven wants to know if DeAndre has been emailing women. He says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his email and found that DeAndre is telling the truth.

Told you folks. Okay, clap, clap, okay.

Raven wants to know if DeAndre has been visiting 3 specific women. DeAndre says he is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched his GPS and found that DeAndre is telling the truth as well. Well, how do you feel? We searched his phone, there's nothing in there. He's not talking to anyone.

That's a new phone.

And let me tell you something about, let me tell you what I do. Let me tell you how many times I've heard on this show people say it's a new phone. We can find anything. You delete it, you hiding it, it all goes to the cloud and people don't realize that our unlock the phone investigator here can go all the way back. So there's nothing that we found. But listen, there's another truth.

Hold up, what about you? Hold up, hold up.

We unlocked your phone.

Well, I got something to say.

Well, let's unlock the phone first.

Y'all can unlock it, but DeAndre basically know what I have going on. Okay, that's fine. In my phone.

Okay. He said it. All right, so listen, we're gonna unlock your phone now. Listen, here we go. DeAndre, you want to know if Raven has any explicit photos on her phone. Raven, you told us that you don't.

I said I do. You told us that you don't. I know I do.

You told us you don't. That's what you told our investigator. My unlockable investigator searched your photos and found that you were not telling the truth. We found sexually explicit photos of men other than DeAndre?

He know about that.

He knew about that?

He know about those videos and stuff.

Did you know about that?

You know about that.

Oh, that's cool. Okay, well listen, DeAndre, you want to know if Raven has been texting any other men. Raven says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched her texts and found The raven is not telling the truth. We found 940 text messages. 940 text messages with 5 other men. The conversations were sexual in nature, but this is the thing, this is what I think is interesting. This is what I think is very interesting, 'cause you're talking about his new phone. All the messages that we found, all 940, were texts that were deleted and they were all deleted as recently as yesterday.

No, no, no, no, no.

Yes, yes, yes.

I ain't delete no 900 or nothing. I'm telling you.

They lying.

We lying?

Y'all lying. So you're saying that you did delete 'em, but you just didn't delete 'em all yesterday? Yeah.

Got it. I mean, I deleted, yeah, I deleted some messages, but it wasn't all yesterday.

Got it. Well, we found the 940 messages you deleted.

But not because of this show.

Something yesterday. Okay. Don't tap me. Okay, you got answers for everything.

Yes, I do, 'cause DeAndre really, he already know what's going on.

Okay, well listen, DeAndre, you want to know if Raven has been calling any other men. Raven says she's not. I'm assuming that you're gonna tell me that if this is not true, that he already knows what's going on.

He already know what's going on.

Well, my locked-up phone investigator found that you're not telling the truth. He found 289 calls with 2 other men, 2 other men that she's been texting. Right. He already know what's going on?

Yes, he do.

You already know what's going on? Yeah, I know what's going on.

Yes, he do.

So then if you already know what's going on, why do you have her son lock her phone? Exactly. Well, listen, there's another truth because you also had him take the lie detector test to see if he was drugging you.

Yeah, definitely.

Because that was an important part for you to know.

That's the main part.

Or if he's stolen any money from you, correct? Right. All right, well, listen, we tested DeAndre. And when it comes to if he has ever drugged you or stolen your money, the truth is DeAndre is telling the truth. He has never done any of those things.

Good. Okay.

See, I don't know where she yelling is from.

Okay.

Okay. So how do you feel?

He is not drugging you.

I feel relieved. He is not doing anything.

She's still in denial.

No, it's not.

I mean, there's nothing. You seem happy now.

I am a little angry.

Does it make you feel secure knowing that he's not doing anything? Yeah, yeah. He's not doing these things to you?

I feel way better.

Can we carry on with our life?

Okay. Yes, we can carry on.

Is there anything that you wanna say to him?

No, don't do it. I apologize. I'm sorry for thinking that.

I accept your apology. Okay, okay, okay, perfect.

Appreciate you.

Thank you, man. I'm gonna tell you what I know what's going on is there's something dysfunctional that's happening here that is unhealthy. And I don't know whose part it's on. I don't know if it's on your part or your part.

It's just a lot of stuff y'all don't know. Got it. And that I can't say due to television. Got it.

Okay, okay, well listen, well, if it, listen, like my mama used to say, if you love it, I like it, okay? So at the end of the day, since y'all both know what's going on, you got your answers, you got your answers, seem like you already have the answers, so. I wish y'all the best of luck.

Thank you.

Thank you.

Yeah.

Everyone, thank you for being with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and growing. Listen, y'all, see, this is what I don't appreciate. I'm gonna tell y'all this right here, 'cause them people just wasted my time, and they wasted y'all time as well. Because clearly, if y'all both in on whatever y'all wanna do in y'all relationship, be grown. Don't come here wasting my time unlocking phones that you already know your girl's doing something. Because one of them, one of them is manipulating one of them. I don't know which one is which, but one of them is. And so I still stand on there's something unhealthy in it. But you know what? I'm glad that we ain't in it.

All right?

Good luck to them.