Two people discuss setting boundaries in relationships. One says they won't walk on eggshells and insists on a probation period where their partner must prove they respect those boundaries before marriage. Trust and clear communication come first.
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I have a confession. Okay. Tanya, just like you watch the Karamo Show, right? Let me tell you something. I watch it too. Okay. And I found out with people like you who toxic, who like that, I think I set boundaries. I had to set boundaries with you. There's no way that I should have to be, you know, walking on eggshells. I don't wanna tiptoe on eggshells all the time. I wanna walk through and it be nice. So I learned something too. So you gotta stop going through the phone, And look, if we gonna be together, we gonna be together. And also, you can't really, it's hard not to set a date, like you gonna marry me on this day. We gonna set it when you're over this probation period, you know? Yes, that's how I feel, y'all. I mean, it's just the truth. Probation. Probation.
So you're saying that you're putting her on a probation period of like you're not getting married until she shows you that she can respect your boundaries?
That too, also trust. If you don't have trust, y'all, you don't have anything.