I Let My Man Have A Sidepiece, Now I Regret It! | KARAMO

So, like everybody else, I want love.

Yes.

And when you want love, sometimes you do hasty things and you do things that don't make sense.

Okay, so who brought up the idea for Miguel to have a side piece?

It was me. But the reason why I did that is because I was looking for solutions. I have married friends, I have polyamorous friends, I have single friends, I have all types of friends. So with that being said, I was looking to explore explore options to try to make it better.

Got it.

So I said, hey, we're not gonna do the extremes and go beyond this, but we can try this. And then when I said that, it was like, all right, now he King Joffrey. So I made a mistake.

Got it.

And I wanna fix it.

So what do you know about this other woman?

I don't wanna know anything.

You don't wanna know anything?

I don't.

'Cause that was the agreement. The agreement was, You can talk, you can have sex, but that's it.

I shouldn't be affected by this and home should always be taken care of. And whatever you doing out there in the streets, I better have it times 2.

Got it. So that was the agreement?

Yes.

So it wasn't just that they could have sex. There was like, could he have an emotional attachment to this woman?

No.

Okay, so you were clear, no emotional attachment, just sex and I shouldn't know about it.

And I know it's unrealistic because once you exchange your energy with somebody, it's kind of like inevitable. It's inevitable to exchange that bond. However, we've been together for 3 years now. So with us taking the options and going down the different roads, I feel like I'm giving you your daggone cake and you eating it too. Now I know that's what you're supposed to do with the cake, but not the whole thing at one time.

Okay. Did you know this woman beforehand?

No, no, no.

You didn't know the woman beforehand? No. That makes sense. Okay, so you worried the side piece may be coming more than just that? What are you worried about? A side piece?

I'm not worried about anything about the side piece.

Okay, got it. So what do you want him to do in this moment? Do you want him to stop talking to her completely? Or is that what you're questioning right now? 'Cause you told me—

Well, he was supposed to do that.

Supposed to do that.

We had this conversation where we were supposed to tighten it up about 6 or 8 months ago.

Okay, 6 to 8 months ago. Got it, okay. And how long did this go on with Miguel and the other woman?

It was about a year.

1 year? Yeah. So 1 year of your relationship, he was with this other woman?

Off and on, on the times that I'm working where he claims I don't have any time for him unless he wants me to be homeless and go outside.

So at that time you both agreed that it would be over with the side piece?

Yes.

Okay. Yes. But he did not.

I don't think he did.

All right, so you wanted me to unlock Miguel's phone and Miguel did turn over his phone to the Unlock the Phone Investigator. So let's hear what Miguel has to say about all this. Everyone please welcome Miguel to the show. How you doing?

Hey, what's going on?

Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you too.

Okay. So what do you have to say, Miguel, about what Ramona just said?

She said a lot and as she does best, she looks like the victim. She does things that a girlfriend that wants to be in a committed relationship wouldn't do.

You need to get it out because that's how you have your conversations on the regular basis. You stutter over your words, you talk shit, it doesn't make sense.

You don't know me.

And when somebody brings you to the table, you can't even get it out right.

You don't let me speak.

You brought me here, you should've been prepared.

Prepared for what? You're not even telling the whole story.

I wanna know, Miguel, the point of this is there's a woman that was your side piece. Why would you agree to sleep with another woman?

Because she wasn't sleeping with me.

You were so uncomfortable.

I was about to be checked out anyway.

And the only reason I even did that was to try to help make you more happy.

So you definitely are.

Do you ever think about ways to make me more happy? No. So if I'm doing something for you, I expect to be appreciated, considered, and then I don't wanna feel like I'm the damn side piece.

Miguel, Ramona believes you're still involved with this side piece. Is that true?

She believes everything she wants to believe.

He asked you a question.

No, it's not true.

You're not involved with the side piece?

No.

At all? No. When exactly did that begin?

About maybe—

3 months in?

A little bit under, oh, into the relationship?

Into the relationship.

Nah, it was like a year and a half.

So y'all were a year and a half in. I heard from y'all that the intimacy started to fail between you two. Why the intimacy started to fail between you two?

Ask her, 'cause I be ready.

You just got bored and didn't know how to express yourself or bring new elements to the relationship because we've talked to several people.

Miguel, where do you want this relationship to go?

To hell.

We already there.

Miguel, I'm not purposely coming home and saying screw you. I cook, I clean.

You stopped doing some of those things on that list.

Why keep doing it if you don't appreciate it? You're out lollygagging with Susan, Jodi and Lynn. Why the hell would I keep washing Joe's clothes at home?

That's an assumption. That's an assumption.

Is it an assumption?

Well, we about to find out. It's time to unlock the truth. All right. Is there anything you're worried about when I unlock this phone?

Nah, I ain't worried about nothing.

Okay then. If I unlock this phone and there's anything in it, will you stay in this relationship?

That's a no.

No?

All right, I just got one thing to say.

Nope, we gotta unlock the phone first. All right. Unlock the phone. All right, so here we go. It's time to unlock this phone. Ramona, you want to know if Miguel has been in contact with his side piece over the past 6 months. Miguel says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator found that Miguel is not telling the truth. Our investigators searched his phone and found that he has his side piece name spelled 2 different ways and his phone. And so, Sade, you can put those back on. You can put those back on.

I wanna be comfortable.

You can put those back on. You can put those back on before I go anywhere. Uh-oh, you can put those back on. I understand. You can put those back on. You too cute to take those off, girl, okay? All right. Ramona wants to know if Miguel is communicating with other women. Miguel says he's not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his photos and found that Miguel Karamo is not telling the truth. Communicating with 6 different women through WhatsApp and saving their information in his photos. The latest communication was on September 22nd, 2023. We have this evidence bag. You know the woman I'm talking about? You know the woman I'm talking about. So here, I give this to you. You already know the women that we're talking about.

Yep.

So, all right, Ramona, I know you're watching backstage. Wants to know if Miguel is using any apps to hook up with other women. Miguel says no. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his apps and found that he was not telling the truth. Our investigator found that Miguel is on two dating apps. Meet Me, and he is still active and going by the name Mike on Tinder. He is also active and he logged in on October 4th of this year and he's accepting applications. October 4th.

You're a fucking liar.

There you go. October 4th.

Yeah.

That's a expensive shirt, man.

So I think what you—

You brought me here to tell me that? Why? You could've said it.

It's all your fault.

No, it's not my fault. That's selfish.

In all sincerity, why would you? She didn't call this show, you called this show and you know what my show does and you know that we have an investigator that's very thorough and you know we were gonna find it. So why would you bring her here just to tell her this information?

You know what, I'll be honest with you. I didn't really think that this was gonna come out.

You don't think?

But, you know, this is her fault though. She started this whole thing.

This is not her fault.

It is.

It's not her fault. And I'm gonna tell you this right now. First of all, please tell me you're going to leave.

Absolutely.

Amen, just say it.

Like, you're being such an asshole. You're telling me that it's my fault that you're cheating. It's nobody else's fault when you make a decision. It is a conscious effort. You literally thought about it. Then you did it and now you probably regret it, but it doesn't even look like you fucking regret it. So it doesn't even matter, bro. It doesn't matter.

I mean, it already happened.

I bet, I bet. And so did we, 'cause it's done.

We should— Honestly, there was things in your relationship that were unhealthy on both of your parts, potentially at the beginning. I was trying to track those notes. But what I do know for a fact is that after she tried to give you something that she thought that would help you, you took advantage of that and then you took advantage of her emotionally and mentally. And even to the fact of how you're sitting here acting very cocky and nonchalant when you brought her on the phone, brought her here to unlock your phone and you thought I wasn't gonna find anything. It's just plain disrespectful.

And stupid.

It's disrespectful. You do owe this woman an apology and it's not her fault.

I don't want it.

It is not her fault.

I don't want it.

I think we should work on it.

No, no, no. You're not even doing that. You're not doing that.

We'll give it a shot.

We're not doing that. You can leave the stage. If you're not gonna give her an apology, and though she doesn't want it, you can leave the stage. Thank you, thank you. Leave the stage. Ramona, I'm sorry because you didn't deserve that and you haven't deserved that. And again, like I said in the beginning, have a high amount of intelligence. You are aware. And I think that you've been grieving and trying to figure out how to navigate your life. Yeah. Let me give you a hug real quick, girl. Come on, baby. Come on. I'm sorry. I'm really sorry. Seriously, I'm so sorry. I'm glad for you because you now have full answers that even up until now, until October 4th, he's been playing around. That's just a couple weeks ago. So you can now fully close that chapter and you can let it go 'cause now you have your answers. He's never gonna respect you and he's never gonna give you what you want. And so I want you to also remove that guilt of I opened up the relationship and now I caused something because he didn't. This is the type of man he was before and he clearly was gonna be the rest of your relationship. So I want to make sure I'm giving you that. So you can remove that guilt because I heard you. I did this, I opened this up, I caused this issue.

I just try to be accountable.

Yeah, but in this moment you didn't. You didn't need to be accountable. You don't need to be accountable. You were an adult and you thought you were talking to another adult and setting boundaries for something that you two were agreeing on in a relationship. That's a healthy step for any relationship. If this would not have worked out, two adults communicating about what they want sexually, what they want emotionally is healthy. He just took advantage of that. So he was gonna keep gaslighting you and making you think that you were the problem. And that's why I wanna make sure we're clear that you know you were not the problem, that you never were the problem. You are a fly, beautiful woman. You are of quality and you deserve quality as well. And I wanna make sure that you are doing the work for yourself just to have you time so that you can heal so that you never get back in this situation. You understand? Yes. Seriously. All right?

I appreciate you.

I appreciate you. I wish you the best of luck. Release that guilt, girl, okay? Release it, release it.