I Miscarried YOUR Baby & You Got Someone Else Pregnant?! | KARAMO

How you?

I'm good, thank you. So first I gotta say I'm so sorry reading that you lost your child. Thank you. So how recent was it that you lost your child?

June of 2025.

Oh, '25. Oh, so this is recent. What happened, if you don't mind me asking?

So in May, I had complications with my pregnancy and stuff, you know, going through a lot and stuff, dealing with being homeless, dealing with my other kids. And next thing you know, they was telling me that I had to go through surgery.

Yeah.

And unfortunately, 2 days later, my baby passed.

Got it. So while you were in the hospital mourning, was Raheem with you?

No, not at all. And so if it was the phone calls, FaceTime, you know, 10 o'clock in the morning, 10 o'clock at night, it was red flags for me. He eventually showed up the end of the day, like when they was about to send me home.

That's when he showed up? Yeah. And this is his child?

Yeah, and the crazy part about it, the hospital was 10 to 15 minutes away. Like he could walk to the hospital.

Hospital's 10 minutes away and you're grieving?

Yeah, and he kept saying, oh, he couldn't find no ride, making up excuses.

Got it. Where do you think he was?

I think he was at the house, but he was at the house with company.

Got it.

Yeah, and on top of that, it was my house at that time.

So you think he was at your house with another person while you were in the hospital grieving the child you just lost?

Yeah.

'Cause my producers tell me that Raheem may have another child with another woman.

No, I'm—

Is that true?

Well, yeah, she called him and so she was like, basically, hi, I had the baby. Congratulations, you the father.

And how recent was this?

This was literally 3 months after I just lost my baby.

So this is recently?

Yeah, this is recent.

We invited that other woman to join the show to get the DNA truth, but she declined to participate. So what happened when you reached back out to her?

I reached out to her woman to woman telling her how I feel, her emotions and stuff, everything she's going through and stuff. I generally wanted her to come out to get her answers and stuff. She wanted to know if he the father and he wanted to know, well, to me he wanted to know if he was.

Yeah, yeah. So you asked my Unlock the Phone investigator to unlock Raheem's phone. What do you think we will find?

Well, I hope y'all don't find nothing, but I'm thinking, I don't think she was texting.

I mean, I don't know Raheem, but I'm almost sure we gonna find something.

Yeah.

Right, we gonna find something.

Pictures, text messages, you know, like females.

Well, I think it's time to meet Raheem and hear. Yeah, okay, I think it's time to meet Raheem and hear his side of the story. So everyone, please welcome Raheem to the show. Hey Raheem, thanks for being here. No problem. Appreciate it. Yeah. So I wanna ask you a question. Could you be the father of that child in question?

Yeah, it's a high possibility, yeah.

Okay.

It shouldn't even be a possibility though.

But you already knew it was something.

It shouldn't have been a possibility. If you in a relationship, it shouldn't have been no possibility.

You right, I give you that. You right. What about me though? What about my feelings?

How long was, you can't ask about your feelings when you cheating on her. That's invalid in this moment because in that moment, if you had issues with your feelings, you should have said in the moment before you cheated, hey, I need to talk to you about what I'm experiencing. You don't go cheat, get another woman pregnant, and then say, what about my feelings? That don't work. That math ain't mathin'. Okay, so how long were you in an affair with this other woman?

I would say about 9 to 10 months.

Were you with this other woman while she was in the hospital?

Yeah, I was about, 2 or 3 of those days. I'm not gonna lie, we being honest, so we let everything on the table.

Okay then. So while she was in the hospital grieving and dealing with the loss of y'all's child, having her body heal, you were laid up with another woman?

Yeah, about 2 or 3 of those days. I ain't gonna lie. Me and her linked up a few of those days.

So why didn't you come and support her seeing as how she just lost your child?

I mean, I tried to, I just ain't—

You didn't try.

I ain't have a way. You didn't try. First of all, you knew that though.

You keep saying you didn't have no way and stuff, but you gotta understand, we not It's not that far from there, bus ticket ride. So you had a ride to come pick me up from the hospital, you had a ride to go up there. You had a ride to lay up with a female, you had a ride to go up there.

So Shay, how does it feel then hearing and getting a confirmation that he was laid up with another woman?

It hurts my feelings for real, 'cause I went through a terrible time and stuff in life at that moment and stuff. And the one person that I needed with me at that time and stuff was not there at all. And to hear that he was laid up with another female, that's what matters to you instead of my feelings?

I'm not saying that. I'm not saying that at all.

No.

Then what are you saying? What are you saying? Talk to us. 'Cause you're saying, she's saying that her feelings weren't valid, but clearly they weren't if you were laid up with another woman. So what are you saying?

Why you always doing reverse psychology though? You so sneaky. You so sneaky, bro. You so sneaky.

Okay, so how do you feel that's reverse psychology?

'Cause she always wanna talk about me and what I got going on. What about her?

It's always reverse psychology when you get called in it.

He got both ways in a relationship.

When he get called in it. You right, it do go both ways.

It does.

And all this is not on you and stuff, but what you done did is foul.

Well, we here for truth. I'm not denying that. I'm laying it on the table.

So Shay said she caught you cheating in the past from 2023. She caught you on your phone, caught you with a woman. Were you intimate with any of those women as well?

A few of those, yeah, I were. Well, a few of those females, just pure conversation. Nothing more, nothing less.

But there was some that it was physical, the other ones were just—

Yeah, well, I'm getting real, yep.

Okay. So have you ever heard him say to you, have you ever heard him say to you that he was intimate with those women?

No.

So how many times have you been on Facebook?

No, 'cause you said when I caught you with that girl.

About 5 to 10?

When I caught you with that girl pulling up in front of the house and stuff, you said she was a high school friend and I'm overdramatic. When I touch her phone, you talking about throwing it out in the middle of the street so it could get hit by a car so I wouldn't touch it or go through it. You never told me he done this.

Shay, did you know that it was 5 to 10 times that he had had sexual relationships with women?

No.

You feel like she knew?

Yeah, she did know about a few of 'em. All of 'em I would say she didn't know about, but a few of them she did know about.

If I knew about it, I wouldn't even be sitting here looking dumb.

So when was the last time you cheated?

Probably like a week or two ago. With a different female though. A different female though, not the one that's saying I'm the father of her child.

A week or two ago?

With who?

A week or two ago, and we knew we was coming up to this show.

A different woman, not the one that's saying I'm the father of her child, okay.

Why do you wanna be with Sherry?

He don't wanna be with me.

I do love her. We here to fix our relationship.

How when you just did it a week or two ago?

What about you though? What you got going on?

A week or two ago?

What about you and your phone though?

I can say I never messed with nobody on you. Especially not this recent. Look how recent we talking.

You sure about that?

We sure. You wanna pull it up?

'Cause Rahim, you have doubts as well, so you want us to unlock Shay's phone.

Yeah, I do.

So why are you suspicious of Shay?

There's so many red flags she give me. She take phone calls and stuff outside the house, just disappearing random times of the day. Her child's father trying to link with her through text message I seen. So yeah.

And I told you I don't have no problem with you talk to him in front of you.

Has she ever been unfaithful to you?

I feel like she have, yeah.

Okay, but you don't have any proof that she's ever been unfaithful to you?

Well, she done told me a few times, once or twice.

Have you been unfaithful to him?

Yeah, I told him that. Once I found out about that girl.

The first one, the only one you thought?

The only one I thought about. I told him that I was stepping out on him.

And that was at the beginning of the relationship?

Yeah.

And so after that, you never did anything ever again?

No, no.

Got it. Well, I think it's time to unlock the phone.

Let's go for it, let's do it.

All right, Raheem, we got my cell phone. Here we go. So Shay, you wanna know if Rahim is communicating with other women. Rahim says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his apps and found that Rahim is not telling the truth. There were 661 explicit messages between him and that woman named [MASKED] on a TextNow app. Do you know who [MASKED] is? Mm-mm. Okay. Shay, you wanna know if Rahim is having inappropriate communication with other women.

I don't think that's accurate.

Since Andrea's 61. No, it's accurate.

Okay, we gonna—

Since Andrea's 61.

We gonna see what yours says. Since Andrea's 61. Since you wanna be so sneaky.

Well, hold on, let's keep going. Shay, you wanna know if Rahim is having inappropriate communication with other women. Rahim says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his phone and found that Rahim is not telling the truth. We found 307 inappropriate exchanges with escorts, including photos.

I love you.

307.

That's why we—

Like 307, like let's be for real. Like what else would—

You're engaging with sex workers?

I guess you could say that.

It's not a guess, 307 messages.

Some of them I actually know personally though.

Okay, okay. Have you been, here you go love, have you been safe?

Yeah, I do use protection, yeah.

Shay, you wanna know if Raheem is texting the woman who claimed he fathered her child. Raheem says he is not. My Lock the Phone investigator searched his texts and found that Raheem is not telling the truth. There were 79 text messages with that woman, one as recent as Tuesday.

Tuesday?

And we was down here together at Tuesday.

That's why we here though. That's what you knew. You knew me and her was communicating though.

All right, here we go. Shay, you wanna know if Rahim could be the father of the other woman's child. Rahim says he is not. My locked-up phone investigator searched his emails and found one suspicious email. What is this email? What does it say? It says, "When you were at my house, you said you wanted me to have your baby, then boom, I got pregnant." That's not accurate. That's accurate. That's what she wrote to you. "When you were at my house, you said you wanted to have your baby, then boom, I got pregnant." I never said that.

I mean, that's just an assumption.

Okay. Shay, what do you wanna say to Raheem?

I don't have nothing to say to him. Nothing at all to say to him.

Let's talk about you though and your phone. What your phone say though? It ain't just all about me. It ain't just all about me in this relationship. It takes two. It takes two.

You right, it takes two. And it seem like I been putting into this relationship trying to keep this relationship together while you been out doing whatever you wanted to.

I lost a baby too.

It's over 900. 900 messages. Where is that?

Pull it back up. You're not the only one hurt in this situation.

You're still saying that's a lie.

I'm not the only one hurt in this situation, love.

You're still saying that's a lie.

I lost a baby too. I lost a baby too.

Look at this.

Look at this.

But you was not there. You worried about the baby now, but you was not there. You was too busy laid up with one of them 661s or 370s. Which one?

Man, I was, you knew who I was with.

Who?

Raheem, you said you wanna work on this relationship consistently. Why?

I don't know why he wanted to work on this relationship.

That's why we came up here for.

I don't think so. I think you came to—

Embarrass me. Embarrass me.

Embarrass me. No, I love you.

'Cause 661 is crazy. It is crazy. That's insane.

Let's talk about your phone though.

Yeah, we about to talk about it. We about to talk about it.

Okay.

We about to talk about it.

What is the definition of love for you?

I would say unconditional love.

He don't know it.

What does unconditional love mean?

It's different. I mean, you have to show your love more than, I mean, words can't explain it.

So words can explain it? Words can explain it?

So I like to show my love instead of tell you.

No, no, no.

Well, if that's the case, how would you know what love is?

He can't even tell you what love is. 'Cause he don't know it. It's sad.

Okay, you don't know it.

Yeah, just be honest. That's what we're here right now for. Be honest.

Yeah, you're right.

Just say it.

Come on, let's take a second right now. Based on what you just said, I have to show it. Does this look like you're showing love? Oh my God. Do me a favor because I wanna have a moment of growth for you. I'm asking you the definition of love because I know that there's a lot of times Young Black men don't understand fully what love is based on situations that happen in their own life. And what's happening is that you then end up hurting multiple people because you're hurting. So I'm gonna say to you right now, you clearly don't know what the definition of love, but you said actions. So I'm asking you, does this look like the actions of someone who loves someone?

In y'all eyes, probably not, but—

Be honest right now. No. In anyone's eyes, does this look like the actions—

In your eyes, it don't look right. You know that. In your eyes, it don't look right.

And that's why we here, it goes both ways.

You keep talking about both ways. You can't even believe this. Yeah, you can't even believe this.

Actually, I can believe it.

I can believe it.

I can believe it. I can believe it. I wanna know, you said, would your mom be proud of this behavior?

No, no, I can honestly say that, no.

Okay, okay.

It starts from where you guys start.

I don't think that there's a point of unlocking your phone.

'Cause I was honest, I told.

What will happen if you have answers You feel like that's going to—

He gonna go home, he could be like, oh, I seen this in your phone, I'm about to go cheat.

I might just break up with you if I found out some stuff I ain't know about.

Might?

Baby, you done broke up with me before you did that 661.

K, are you staying in this relationship?

No, baby, I can't continue getting hurt. I can't continue getting hurt.

Well, that's your decision, but that's why we came up here for.

We came up here to get answers. I got the answers that I needed.

I agree.

I got the answers that I needed that I've been asking you about. It would've been more simple if you would've told me the truth when I asked you this.

I'm glad you found the courage to end this relationship because you said something earlier to me and I wrote it down. You said the person I need the most, the person you needed the most that you put all your faith into has been someone who told you from day one that he's not the man that can build a foundation with you.

Yeah, over and over and over again.

And so what happened, I also heard you say that during this time that you had to rebuild your family, you ended up found yourself being unhoused, You find yourself in situations, you find yourself alone in the hospital grieving.

Yeah.

What I'm trying to show you right now is this has never been a man that you could depend on and he will never be a man you can depend on. And so you have to take that you are not. Yeah. And when I know that for a fact is because I even asked you if you know the definition of love and you don't know the definition of love, which lets me know that if you don't know how to define love, you don't know how to define a foundation to build a good relationship. So what you have to do is some self-work so you can figure out what you gotta do for yourself because 'Cause if the woman that I love was in the hospital just grieving the loss of our child, my ass would not be laid up with another woman. I'd be next to her. So do some self-reflection, brother. Do some self-reflection.

This was just 5 months ago at that. This is 5 months ago.

Okay.

Like, it's not even, I haven't even finished grieving.

You knew the truth. You just need to see it. And I hope that you please see the truth.

I went with my gut.

I promise you the minute that you release yourself from this relationship, I promise you things are gonna start falling back in order.

Yeah.

I promise you.

Yeah.

Keeping yourself shackled to this is what's keeping yourself shackled going down, okay? Release that shackle, I promise you, all right?

Yeah.

And everyone at home, stay with us, friends, 'cause we'll be right back.

Good luck to you, all right?

Thank you. My discernment is good, I already know this. Let's just see. Nothing, the truth. Truth, truth, truth. As we knew.