I Will Only Marry You If You're Not Cheating! | KARAMO

You gotta tell me, how did you find out that Johnny was already in a relationship?

Well, to begin with, I met Johnny at a festival in the South, a big old festival. We spent, when we met each other, it was electric from the beginning. Me and him had an instant bond. We talked the whole time consistently. We spent the first 30 days together, you know? And at the end of that 30 days, I got a call from a female and she's saying, I wanna speak to my man.

So that what started the trust issues in your relationship?

That's exactly what started the trust issue because when I first met him, I asked him, do you have anybody? Are you dating any females? Do you live with a woman?

Transparency.

Yeah, I want all that out the way up front. He told me no, he represented himself to be single.

So that was in the past 'cause how long ago was that now?

No, that's about, we've been together about 4 years.

4 years ago. Okay, 4 years. So why are you still suspicious that Johnny is being unfaithful?

Because just, Recently, he had told me that he hasn't been in contact with the female because of the constant drama that comes with her. So we were in the bed and 11:30 in the evening, his phone gets to ringing and my intuition tells me that it's a female calling and I'm thinking it's the ex. Okay, so I wait till he falls asleep and I go through that phone and that's right, that's right, I go through that phone and when I unlock that phone and go through that phone, who do I see texting him with some money? Disgusting text message is the ex.

Oh wow.

Yes.

So have you ever spoken to the ex?

Yes, I have. Me and her talked initially when she popped up to just to figure out where the lie was because either you're lying or he's lying because he told me he was single.

Okay. And then what did she say? So he begs and cries and I still choose to leave his ass with you because you two truly deserve each other. I said what I said, hoe. "And I stand on that, period. I'm not going to keep going back and forth with your old stupid press, manly desperate dried out ass." Who said this? You said this?

The ex said this.

She said this to you?

This is what she said. Yes, this is what she said. Oh.

So I just need to know, how often do you two argue?

It's often now because of the trust issues. I'm not sharing a man.

Yes.

Initially he came with this, let's try it out, all of us together. And that was not working. That was not working. Me and her have absolutely nothing in common. This lady popped up out the blue. One day we're sitting in the house having a great dinner and bang, bang, bang, bang, bang. This woman's out here. She's saying that she's come to get her man. I said, if you come to get anybody, you come to get our man.

This woman is very bold.

Yes, she is.

Wow, 'cause I mean, to send you text messages, to show up at your door.

That's right.

And I mean, for context, and I mean like, we're almost the same age.

That's right.

You're in your 40s.

That's right.

And so you grown dealing with this.

That's right.

You not 20 dealing with this.

No, I'm not. And I'm gonna conduct myself like I'm grown. So all that extra drama, all that extra showing out in public, that's not how I conduct myself.

Exactly.

And I don't like it. And for you to come to my door unannounced, for you to come to my door unannounced.

Why is you still lying to these people? Why'd you lie to this man for no reason?

Why?

You know that's the truth.

Man, lemme tell you something, right? From the jump, right? K ain't no goddamn well. We all three done been in the bed together.

Is that true that he's saying that you all had a threesome?

No, we didn't have a threesome.

It wasn't a threesome, I had sex with her at the time 'cause she was on her period. I still had sex with her next to her.

So she was in the bed while you two engaged in sex?

Having sex? Yes, she was at her house.

At her house?

At her house? We went— after I found out about the woman, he told me, let's go over there and sit and talk and see what we can work out, whether or not we'll be able to—

why you ain't tell that to start with?

Because that's not what it was initially. When I first met him, that's not what was said. That's the truth.

So y'all in a throuple?

No, never.

Okay, you weren't in a throuple, so y'all just decided as adults you were gonna have some sexual moments where she was included.

Exactly, it didn't work out.

Got it, okay. So why didn't you share that information with me before?

When we first met each other, I asked him, are you single? He said, yes, I'm single.

Yes, I'm single.

And how often do you two argue about this? That makes sense now, okay.

We argue regularly about this because I'm not trying to share him. He brought up the idea of this throuple. I said, okay, if that's the best way it's gonna work out, "If we can get along, then I can entertain the idea." So how— Depending on your personality.

Listen, bro, they talked about the sister wives before I even had anything to do about it.

Did you have a conversation with her about being sister wives?

Afterwards, because he told her that was the only way that she was gonna still be involved.

We went to my old apartment together and I told the lady in her face, she said, "Johnny, what you gonna do?" Listen, I am not in love with you, I am in love with K. This is who I wanna be with.

Yes, they had a relationship before me, but she makes it like I stole her man.

I don't understand why y'all bickering back and forth and y'all don't talk. All this other talking, they talk more than me.

They talk more to each other than me and her talk. So that disrespectful text is something where like outside of your relationship, I don't wanna call it a friendship, outside of whatever relationship you're cultivating, sometimes it gets toxic. Between you two?

Now, before, she's never been disrespectful towards me. We had very intelligent conversations. I'm a grown adult. I'm not gonna bicker back and forth with you and name call with you. If we're not gonna get to the point, then it's no reason for me to talk to you at all.

So it sounds like to me that before in the past, there was an agreement that there could be maybe some conversations of you all being—

Working together.

Working together. That's right. Working together, we'll say that.

That's right.

But now there was a boundary set by you that no longer there should be communication.

That's right, because I saw messages, I saw messages, So that makes more sense.

So now you're upset because you feel as if he's still disrespecting that boundary.

That's right.

So you both, 'cause let me make sure everyone is aware of this. You're here to unlock each other's phones.

That's right.

Ain't nothing in mine.

But see, there's nothing in his phone because I'm gonna say this, Johnny change his phone like he change his underwear. Mysteriously, mysteriously his phone goes missing.

She know every code to my phone, the tablet right now ain't even locked. She know every phone code. I bet y'all don't even know the code to the Facebook, how to get into her phone, tablet, nothing.

So you're saying that she, so you're admitting that.

That's true.

I think we just need to get to unlocking these phones.

But I know, listen now, don't be a pussy now. I love my lady. I love my lady now.

I hear you, you love your lady. Okay, so Johnny, we're gonna go ahead and unlock your phone first, all right?

Maybe. She set up the Facebook account, so there ain't nothing on there.

If it is, she knows. So again, we went through apps, we went through GPS, we went through text messages. K, you want to know if Johnny is still communicating with other women on Facebook. He says he is not.

Okay.

My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his apps and he is telling the truth.

Okay, okay, okay, okay.

K wants to know if Johnny was, where Johnny was this summer of 2023. He said that he was not anywhere that he was not supposed to be. And my Unlock the Phone investigator searched his GPS and he is telling the truth.

Okay.

I told you that. I told you that. Over and over. Okay, you also want to know if John is still communicating with his ex. Every once in a while, real talk. He says he is not. My Unlock the Phone investigator searched his texts and found her contact not listed under a contact But Johnny gave a number to our producer and she said she was not gonna call. I requested that she call. And we got a ping and so we got a message from this ex.

I seen Johnny in July and we had sex then. And then I talked to him probably like a couple days ago, he called me.

Johnny, now this makes sense for the smile. So you had sex with your ex recently?

No, not on that level.

She just said July.

I thought y'all wasn't having sex.

I ain't had sex with no bitch.

July?

No.

That's recent.

My producers are telling me that it was on her birthday.

Oh! Oh, birthday sex. You having birthday sex, huh? Oh, and it's funny, right?

No, I'm not laughing.

It's funny?

I'm not laughing. It's funny?

Now, okay, if I go have birthday sex with my ex, how you gonna feel about it? I'mma beat his ass. How you gonna feel about it? How you gonna feel about it?

Explain what she said. Is she telling the truth?

She telling the truth? No. I believe her. I believe her.

I mean, Johnny, at the end of the day, we know that there was some type of relationship here, so there's no reason for her to lie about it.

And you still lying. You still lying. Still lying. I believe her. She's not saying that for no reason.

We have to now unlock your phone, K. Please do.

Please do.

So K, we have unlocked your phone as well. Johnny, you had some questions that you wanted answered as well.

Please do.

Johnny, you want to know if K had made a secret Facebook account. Account, correct? She says she did not, and my unlock the phone investigator searched her apps and she is not telling the truth. She made a new Facebook account on September 17th, 2023, under the name of Joy and is registered to her email address.

Really?

That's correct, because the reason why, I'm gonna tell you why. What kind of messages did he find on it?

You a sneak.

What kind of messages did he find?

Well, let's go to the next one. DMs. Johnny wants to know if Kay is communicating with other men on social media. She says she is not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her DMs and she is not telling the truth. 3 of 'em.

3 dudes.

Johnny says—

Who the 3? Who the 3?

So if you could have the evidence back, please.

There's not no 3 dudes.

There's not no 3 dudes. I wanna see which men these are, please. 'Cause these might be family members.

Family, my friends.

Let's see.

These are messages from.

Oh. Oh yeah, this is true.

This is true.

Yeah, I'm into that.

And here you go, go ahead.

This is true.

This is what I got called out on.

That's true right there.

When I asked her about this right here.

I don't know who. Not is true.

These are correct.

Well, let's keep going here. Listen, Johnny wants to know if K was communicating with men via text. She says she's not. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her texts and found she is not telling the truth. My Unlock the Phone investigator found that she is deleting messages on a TextNow app because it's in use 2 to 3 hours a day, but the messages have been deleted. My Unlock the Phone investigator also found messages from your son, which I thought was very interesting, saying to leave Johnny because he says his relationship is toxic.

And go back to the ex.

Okay, now when it comes to the messages, read it off the text message, it's not to no man talking about no sex. And this is the dummy account that I've been using to survey his social media.

Okay, I will tell you this, and this is all sincerity now because I will have as much fun with my guests, but at the end of the day, this is real life for me. That's right. And after seeing this interaction between you two, it's obvious that this This relationship has been unhealthy. It's been unhealthy for everyone. You know why? And I can tell you where this relationship went wrong from the beginning. This relationship went wrong when you were in a relationship where you tried to prove a point to the woman you were with to show her that you felt disrespected. And that same day you met another woman who you were not emotionally ready to get with because you were still emotionally attached to another woman. And that's just a fact of the matter.

I was done with her.

And so you were not done. If you were done with her, you would have never ever— Tried to have them engage together. Do either of you want to leave this relationship today?

Hell no.

No.

Thank you. So this is why I'm not gonna go anywhere further with this because I understand at the end of the day that you all want to get this out. Now you have all the information you needed. You both have exposed each other. But I can see that neither of you are ready to get out this toxic cycle. Y'all are acting like y'all 20-year-olds and at this time in your lives, this is where you should be settling down, figure out how to settle to have a future where it's safe.

I wanna be safe.

The thing is, unfortunately, the behavior's not gonna change because the trust was broken from day one. And there's no way to go back and fix that trust. The only way for this trust to ever be rebuilt is if you break up, learn how to be friends, learn how to talk to each other with respect and decency, and then maybe through the building of that friendship, you could have a healthy relationship. But now that y'all are willing to go backwards, to start to move forward. Thus, you're gonna be in this cycle. So I wish y'all best of luck. All right everyone, thanks for being with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and we can keep growing. I love you all.

[APPLAUSE] [Speaker] And I apologize for keeping from you that I was texting, but I'm not gonna never sleep with nobody. I'm not gonna do that. I don't share my body with the community. That's not how I move. I don't, I don't want what's out here in the community. I want one person that I'm gonna be with. I've been in a committed relationship. I don't want to be with the community. If that's the case, I stay single. Mm-hmm.