If You're Sexting Your Ex We're Done! | KARAMO

Nice to meet you.

Nice to meet you too.

My poor baby, let me give you a tissue.

Thank you.

I see the tears coming down. What's going on?

I've been with my ex for 2 and a half years. I love him so much, but I don't know nothing. I don't know anything about him.

Yeah.

And I need answers.

Yeah, anybody in 2 and a half years and you don't know some of these basic questions would definitely be concerned. What is it that you need to know from him?

I got a list.

Oh, okay.

She said she got a list.

Okay. I need an, I wanna know where he live, where he work, his family, his blood type, past relationship, the friends that he always telling me about. I see no face.

Yes.

No faces. What is you hiding from me?

Uh-huh.

Why do you wanna be with me? What's my zodiac sign? What's my blood type?

Yeah, okay. You wanna know that he know about you as well. Okay. Okay, so please tell me what happened last night.

Okay, we got into a heated argument last night about to go back to Dallas.

Okay.

Because I had gotten upset because we had went, when we had went to meet the producers, he came back and told me that that they asked him to unlock his phone and he didn't unlock his phone. And I'm like, what? Because at the end of the day, we're gonna start here. Before we came here, I asked him even like the week before, you know, I would just, anytime he text, "Bae, hey bae, I love you." I'm like, "Bae, is there anything that you need to tell me before we go to this show?" "No, bae, no." You know, I got two sons. And a daddy who stay with me that I take care of by myself. By myself. No help. I mean, I'm not complaining, but at the end of the day, if you're supposed to be my man, is this the stuff I should have knew off top?

There's been 2 years of you not having information and it sounds like there's been a breakdown in communication as well. Do you feel like he supports you with your father and the things that you're going through?

No.

Okay, you don't. Okay. So why did you want him to take this?

I wanted him to take the lie detector test because that's something I've been wanting From when it happened, like this happened in January when my house was broken into. But prior to that, like when I break up with him, he would always send me threatening text messages. You know, me, like I said, I love him. You know, I look over, oh, we're into it. But he's texting, oh, just call it a robbery. Oh, I told you, oh, this is my last, you're my last stop. You know, you're not gonna be with nobody. You know, just like forcing me to be with him. I stopped talking to him for a while and I'm like, I called the police, I had pressed charges. They really didn't do anything.

Pressed charges against him?

Yes. Mind you, the apartments I've been staying in, I've been staying in those apartments since 2010. Never had a break-in, never had anything, nothing until I met him and then we broke up and he was like—

So what do you think he stole?

My dad watches my laptop. I've always had two cars. I had a Honda and a Nissan Marano truck. And at one point in time he was like, "Babe, why don't you just let me drive the Honda? You know, at least I'm gonna be going to work." But me, my mom raised me like that. No man is fit to lay up on me. You're not finna use nothing up off of me. You're not about to. I don't care. And then he would throw in, "Uh-uh, you love me." But I still do love him. You know what I'm saying?

They just stole my batteries last night, man.

At the remote? Be for real. That's not even your batteries. Those the hotel batteries.

I was in that room, love.

We were in that room. You was not in there by yourself.

Hold on, she stole the batteries. You took the batteries out the room?

I took the batteries out.

The lady took everything out the room.

I took the food, I took the batteries.

I got mad 'cause I went outside. I got mad at her 'cause of this situation and I went outside for a second. She locked the door, boom. And I come back, everything was gone. I'm looking for the remote 'cause the TV loud.

Yeah.

I look in the drawer, the batteries are gone.

I'm like, man. So you turned the TV up loud and then took the batteries out?

I mean, he be on his phone enough, what he need the TV for?

So hold on, but you turned the TV up loud and then took the batteries out?

I didn't even touch the TV, I just took the batteries out the remote and put it in the drawer.

She took everything out.

The TV was on already, probably 'cause we never cut it off. So when we left, like I never cut it up because I wasn't in the room after I had—

She took the soap, the toothpaste.

You were actually in the shower.

She took the toothpaste, the face roller, the makeup sponge.

I took the soap, I took everything.

All that.

I took the food.

All that.

I would've took his soul if it wasn't in his body.

Oh wow, okay. So why did you do all that?

Because.

Because what? That ain't what happened.

That's the same reason why he didn't unlock his phone.

Okay, so did you—

I mean, I don't have nothing to hide in my phone though.

That don't make sense. If you don't have nothing to hide, then what you not gonna unlock it for? You been in my phone. You delete people off my Facebook. I don't say nothing. I let you read all my messages. We did it together, Devon.

I never read all your messages like that. Why you stop? I never read all your messages like that. Lord, man.

She did say she got a list of things she doesn't know about you that she needs to know.

You ready?

Run it.

Where you live?

Fort Worth.

Addie.

Hmm? I don't even know the address. It's my little brother address.

Where you work?

Corporate Colors.

Okay, family. Like I said, I talked to his sisters. I don't even know if it's his real sisters.

Has she met any of your family members?

Nobody.

Oh, come on.

Except for his son.

No, not in person.

You never met, why wouldn't you introduce her to any of your family members in person since you're in love?

Man, this lady right here.

What about her?

She ain't willing.

She's not willing?

She is not willing. I don't meet your family. What I need to meet your family for? Like, girl, look, this is my sisters now. Eventually you gonna have to meet them either way it go. All y'all lies, y'all lies and y'all on y'all own.

But he wanna meet everybody I hang with. Oh, who is this person? Who is this person? Who is this? All my friends.

But I gotta back up. So have you been the one to say, no, I don't wanna meet them? No?

No, I've told him I've never been big on in-laws.

Look, I'm gonna be honest. Look, the only reason why we get to this point—

It's because you be lying. You're a cap.

It's a man named [MASKED]. Her baby daddy, and she can't get rid of this guy.

What you mean? That's my baby daddy. What you mean get rid of him?

That's my father.

Who been there since day one. When I get into it with you, he's still right there. What do you mean?

How do you feel about her questioning you about the robbery?

I told her I didn't do it. I felt some type of way asking me about that.

But if you was so willing to take a lie detector test, and when we was in Dallas when I was like, and I was lying about that, I'm like, shoot, I set the appointment and everything. I done pulled up stuff that ain't even there.

And she lied about it.

So it's not necessarily me lying, it's necessarily you the person who sent these threatening text messages, then somebody break into my house to automatically make sure victim had no mercy.

Look, I did.

Why did you send those messages?

I told, 'cause, Look.

You're gonna see me dead, just call it a robbery.

It be these days, look. It be these days she'll sit up there and she'll look at me and we done got into it like, you heard me? We can watch a movie and she'll just stare at me and I'll be like, what's up?

Yeah, I'm like, dang, I heard it.

I can't do this no more. And she called me a bum 'cause I never showed her a bag. That's all they want. Her and her friends want a bag.

Nobody is fit to use me.

I don't care who.

I wanna know from you, why do you wanna unlock her phone today?

'Cause I know that lady, look, this lady stay in a mirror all day.

What you mean? You would too if you were a lady.

She stay in the mirror all day. She half naked.

You were about around that time.

She posted on Facebook.

But you was in my inbox though, what's that? What they gotta do with you having me?

And they doing some inappropriate stuff when they call.

They not.

So I'm like, "Ew." You know too, you're doing inappropriate stuff. I see the picture and I wonder why.

You open females' inboxes, I mean, take your family in my family's inbox.

I never send a nigga picture.

They sending me screenshots of him.

All right, listen, we have your mother Jessica who's in the audience today. Jessica, please stand up for me. How are you doing?

Okay.

Jessica, who do you want your daughter to be with?

She want me to be with whoever I'm happy with, father.

That's, so you do want her to be with?

Every time, man, look.

But it's her decision, you know, she knows right from wrong. She know what decisions to make.

Got it. I think it's about time that that we get to the truth of the matter, especially about this robbery. So Devon, we gave you a test to see if you were telling the truth or lying. Are you ready for this?

No, but I'm here.

All right. Erica, you want to know if Devon had broken into your home and stolen any of your father's belongings as well as yours. Devon said he did not break into the house and steal anything. The truth is Devon did not steal your father's belongings.

You good now?

Sorry.

You good now?

I'm sorry.

That's, you all right now? You okay now?

That's pretty. I love that, dude. Don't get this too straight.

Don't get this too straight.

Well, we got clarity on that. We got clarity on that. And I heard you say you sorry. But Devon, you told me that even though you didn't unlock your phone, You said you still wanted Erica's phone to be unlocked.

Yes, sir.

Right? When you told my unlock the phone investigators that you want to know if Erica was spending time at her ex's, if Erica was messaging 5 specific men in her roster, and if, yeah, he said you had a roster.

A roster?

What?

A roster.

And if, yeah.

What is that?

And if you had any, if Erica had any inappropriate photos in her phone. Those are things you want to know, right? Yeah.

Like when you say inappropriate photos, I was like, what? They could mean there's a lot of different photos, you know?

'Cause you've been vindicated from the robbery.

Right.

So.

Okay, but he still didn't unlock his phone, so. He did not. That's like a 50/50 right now.

He did not. But if there's anything in this phone, how do you feel and what will you do?

If there's anything inappropriate in this phone that she done sent somebody, I don't think we gonna be on that type of level to where, but if not.

You saying you gonna break up with her?

Yeah, I have to. But if everything goes smooth, we gonna make it work.

You gonna make it work?

Okay.

Yeah.

It is time to unlock the truth of what's in Erica's phone. Erica, we checked your GPS, your texts, and your photos based on the questions that Devon had. Devon, first of all, you told my Unlock the Phone investigators you want to know if Erica was spending time at her ex's. My Unlock the Phone investigators searched her GPS and found that she is only going to work and home. She is not at any ex's houses. Devon, you want to know if Erica was messaging 5 men in her roster. My unlock the phone investigators searched her texts and found texts to 3 of these men. There was nothing in sexual nature, but she has been talking to them.

What's it, what?

What's it? And that's it. What's the third one?

I don't know. Well, we'll give it to y'all backstage.

Okay.

All right, Javon, you also want to know if Erica had any inappropriate photos in her phone. My unlock the phone investigator searched her photos and found 2 sexually explicit photos. And the reason we pulled these 2 photos out of any else is because these photos were sent to her ex-boyfriend this year.

Damn.

So she has been sending the person you question naked photos.

Wait, I didn't send him no naked photos.

I knew I was right.

Let me see the pictures.

Did you see? I knew I was right.

It was in May and April.

He said he saw pictures, so what? Let me see. Do it look good?

I didn't blow it up, girl. I didn't blow it up.

Let me see.

That's you sending the photos. To him.

Oh, that's— Oh, we definitely— Boy, we was way done 'cause I had weight, weight. You know I lose weight with you.

Let me—

The photos was sent. Can he see this? Yeah, this is for him.

We was not together right there. Quit capping. But that's the photos. Okay, that's the photos. What's next?

But y'all still been together since— It's May and April of 2023 and y'all been together for 2 and a half years.

Hey, I was with this lady. She was in the bathroom. She had these same braids in but a little longer. I was not with you, Devon.

Quit capping.

She had them a little longer.

I was not with you then.

And you know she sent it to me and I said, look, you sure you're not sending this to nobody else?

You seen the dingaling pictures?

No, you gotta give it to her.

Hold on, hold on.

Oh, this not fucking me. Look, let me see that picture right there. Oh, Karamo, I got it on a video.

And a photo of her naked body.

Oh, this the same picture right there. It's just blown up. That's the same picture. I'm talking about the little cuckoo pics. No, for real, hear me out. Here, put that in there too.

Ah, man, I ain't gonna do that.

DeVon, what do you wanna do with this relationship? Man, look, okay, lemme tell y'all right now because you said—

Before you say anything, what I think I should do with this relationship, I'm gonna let her stay stuck on.

Oh.

You know? I think I'm gonna do her that favor. I'm gonna do her a favor.

Okay, so you think you breaking up with me? What you come down here for? What you come down here for?

You can stay with.

I'm not gonna stay with him, go with my ex. He's waiting, so it don't matter.

Yeah, go.

So what?

I'm gonna leave you, I'm gonna let you stay with your baby.

So what, anything else we need to do?

No, thank you so much. Good. Thank you.

Period.

I did her a favor, I'm not hurt, I'm good.

So she says she's gonna go with.

It don't matter, it don't matter to me no more.

In all seriousness, she was breaking you down. You need to be able to figure out how to get out that type of relationship. And the fact that you did it today is the best thing. Now they all need to be with each other. You saw that she's sending her ex photos. Her mother even want her with her ex. She brings up the ex in your face. It's unhealthy, okay? All right everyone, thank you for being with us. Make sure to come back next time, friends, so we can keep talking and we can keep growing. I love you all.